An Alias posted this & unfortunately I can’t pm the poster directly, so I asking the community what do you consider TER friendly?

are those that accept my review history, whitelists, and/or posting history as sufficient proof that I am safe to meet.

They have an active review profile. They don't have a "no-review" policy. They don't complain about reviews or review culture. A plus if they post on the TER ad boards.

Yes you can pm an alias. Just click on the headline (in my case, click on "I think you are referring to me" above) then click my name. Just that easy.
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"TER friendly" just simply means that you can mention TER to her without her getting upset or ignoring you. Most women were TER friendly just 5 years ago, some more than others to be sure. Some just tolerated it.
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But today, there is a very large swath of providers that want nothing do with TER as it is the main culprit (in their mind) behind "review culture" and all the negative things that go along with that.

Yes & I attempted to do just that with no luck 🍀  

Attacking a provider I saw a dozen years ago? Or is this an attempt at impuning my character and the veracity of my reviews? Very odd.  

I’m not attacking anyone. You have 1 whitelist & I knew the lady personally. Thanks for explaining that fun fact that you can only see whitelists from providers who are still listed. I recently learned members can hide their whitelists. I am impressed when I see a long whitelist. I believe good providers whitelist without you ever having to ask. I whitelist regardless if they write reviews, or not. It’s pretty cool to me. I’m just surprised at how many don’t, but utilize p411.

I think the real question is why don't more providers accept whitelists? I have not known any who do but almost provider I've met has accepted P411.

And is open to communication, ratings, dialogue, monologue, critiques and whatever else comes with community membership.

Like discounts and no deposits?

I accept white-list references from my gentleman clients! A white-list acts as your personal endorsement, allowing me to connect with fellow providers you’ve met and receive valuable references. This makes the screening process much smoother and ensures a delightful experience for all involved.

Just an fyi, providers cannot PM an alias. We can *respond* to a message from one, but we do not have the ability to send one to you. I just followed the directions you gave and was not able to just like Bia.

I like to think I’m competent 😝 Everyone was pming me, like it’s simple Bia you can respond it’s not working fellas. lol 😂 Now I know it’s not just me. Thanks a bunch beautiful! 😻

To pm an alias from a provider account you have to go to "messages"...then "compose" then on the "To" line, fill in the persons you are trying to pm and voila! Done! lol.

If you click on an alias poster's subject line, then click on their alias name, it will take you directly to a message template waiting to be filled out.  Two clicks and you don't have to type anything except the message when you get to the template, but congrats to the two of you for figuring out a longer way to do it.  Lol

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Somebody else tell him please.

"Discount and no deposit" won't  get you many dates.

Providers cannot send DMs this way to an alias client account. Hense Robert's directions for providers.  
And yes, I did send Robert a test message to confirm his directions are correct.

One minor adjustment to RR's instructions. When you click on a subject line (RR's "I think you are referring to me"), that opens that post at the TOP of the page in a regular (white) background. The post ALSO appears in its original place further down the page but with a yellow (highlighted) background. Clicking on the poster's alias name (RR) on the post at the TOP of the page will open a PM window. The alias name in the post in it's original place further down the page will not open a PM window.  
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Revised:  
1. Click on the subject line ("I think you are referring to me").
2. Make sure you scroll to the TOP of the refreshed page and then  
3. Click on the alias name (RR) in the top-of-the-page post (NOT the original further down the page).