What is the purpose of TER profiles?  I just contacted a provider that I saw was in my area (TER ad board), I am Whitelisted but still sent her that provider's info plus another reputable provider's name and info.  She emails me and says that if I have either P411 or Date-check it will speed up the process (I have neither).  She says she will get back to me when she hears from them, so the morning comes and I don't hear from her so i email her asking was there a problem.  She emails me back saying that she didn't hear back from the other girls and could I either send her another 2 providers or my work info or IDs.  

Do you also think reading Yelp reviews gets you reservations at a restaurant?

How can you not understand how or why when I am clearly telling you how.  Or did you not completely read the post and just couldn't wait to be the first one to post a troll reply.  The provider posted her ad on TER, so unless I am missing something here she has a profile and is able to check out references herself.  P411/DC are verification avenues in which a client pays a fee to get a thumbs up or ok so that providers can know the client is safe correct?  TER also requires a fee, and or a certain number of reviews in which you can attain VIP status and read/write reviews and VIP providers can also read reviews, correct?

Unfortunately TER is not the end all be all and depending on where a provider lives, you being whitelisted means nothing by itself. I am a touring provider so I use all boards to screen but with the rash of girls being busted on p411 I am very causious when accepting bookings from there.

TER VIP gets you access to full reviews and PMs, amongst a few other things. What in the great big blue fuck does that have to do with a provider not responding to a reference request?  

Noted, but if you read the post instead of hurrying to flex your vast knowledge of the hobbying world, then clearly you would have seen that I was asking a question, not soliciting a troll response.  The purpose of the post was not to bring light to the fact that she did not respond to reference request, I was asking if she indeed has access to post ads, respond via PM and read reviews and know what Whitelists are, then why can that knowledge not be used to verify clients?

Can you not work that out from her response to you asking for different references means that whitelists don't mean anything to this provider? If you want to see any provider, you either meet her requirements for doing so or you don't. Clearly you didn't. Good grief.

Thank you Nina, that is all I was asking for, your insight is greatly appreciated!  To counter what you wrote about the Whitelist referral.  I have done the same thing previously and the other provider contacted me immediately saying that she did not need to do a full verification because I was Whitelisted.  So I guess I took that to mean that being Whitelisted carried a little more weight than normal.  I also understand that that may just be due to the comfort level of some and not all providers.  Thank you

I hadn't heard of any problems.  Do you have any more information?

Even though being white listed does give some assurance it is still not the same as a site that runs your background and fully screens you therefore additional information will usually be needed depending upon the provider. Even if another provider did vouch for you and or you were whitelisted that provider could have different standards than the provider you are trying to see. In my experience just being vouched for can sometimes cause problems. I had another provider give me a reference on a client and withheld a lot of information saying that he was okay and there was no problem... When I met him he was batshit crazy/poor hygeine lol therefore I have to refuse service so just because her standards were low and that was okay to her she was giving me the go ahead.....more screening is always better..

As I said previously, your point is noted, and if you have nothing that will add to the conversation then exit stage left, I don't need the negativity and or back and forth.  And if you were trying to be helpful, then a PM explaining the differences would have sufficed.  As to earning troll responses, there is no such thing, because at the end of the day, you made a CHOICE to reply to MY post about the question I was asking.

Two references are fine in most cases, but only if they both respond back to her.  

Well now let's see... I started civilly enough stating I didn't understand your indignation; that I didn't understand why you were upset that TER and DC/P411 are completely different services. You proceeded to then imply I was an idiot AND a troll, so guess what amigo, if you don't 'need the negativity and or back and forth', maybe you should start looking inwardly. You did this to yourself in quite literally every way; both this post and the situation you found yourself in that caused you to post it.

Thank You GaGambler, my mistake.  As I said in an earlier post, I thought that being Whitelisted was a sort of automatic thumbs up amongst the providers. Especially since said provider I am Whitelisted by is reputable, has her own website, and is also a highly sought after published model.

Apparently I did not know that the services were completely different as they both serve similar capacities within the hobbying world.  What was not to understand about the question I asked?  You should replace the word civilly with arrogantly or ass-holishly, it fits better.  I don't think I said once I was pissed or upset about the requirement of said provider (maybe it was the emoji), nor the fact that TER and DC/P411 were different services.  But as I also said, you seemed so very anxious to respond in a manner that would make my question look idiotic and clueless, and at the same time pedestal yourself as the great guru of hobbying that you are.  Google internet troll, it fits you well

The majority will only treat a WL like any other reference and will wait to her from her before accepting her as a reference.

Thanks, will do

a "Reference" site. It is a "Review" site. 411 and DC are Reference sites.

Agree. I have 411, DC and TER Whitelists. Why? Because I want to make screening me super easy for providers, and I want my email asking for a date to stand out as a "serious" request from the other 300 emails a provider gets.  And I have NO problem getting dates with providers I want to see. Do you want to be taken seriously?

A screening site makes screening for the ladies easier by providing a list of people to check you out with. A review site is one way we make screening easier our date for othe hobbyists.

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..Nina Simone. Or maybe you are just a fan. Or both.

Sorry but I disagree.  TER is a reference site as well, sorry if you all disagree.  According to the the definitions of said words.

BUT it is not the be and end all.

If you have no proof then that statement is irresponsible. Also, I see that you are a member of P411. If it is unsafe why are you still a member? I am sure that Gina at P411 would take issue with your statement.

Look up Dumb ass in your dictionary ...