The mutual agreement is it's the reviews that matter for most of you guys. Let's pretend I've never been here before. I get on here, somehow, because my intent is to see women. There are no ads. Just discussion groups. I see talk, talk, talk. Especially from fuckheads like me. Occasionally a lady chimes in, which is rare, cuz it's a guy's deal.
One of the things I dug about TER was the ladies could, and should, say their piece. Tell me I'm full of shit. Say Jake has a tiny winky or mrfisher is a mysonigistic asshole. Neither are true, but that's not my point...
The thing is, yeah, mr.fucksalot has 200 reviews, and fucking-new-guy can read them cuz he paid his first dues, but wtf? He has to go through each and every one of those and others to see which lady is in his town at a certain day and time?
It fucking sucks
I talked with mrfisher an hour or so ago and he explained to me what was going on. It has little impact on him cuz he sees a lot of regulars. Jake the same, I'm sure. If I went to LV tomorrow I can count on two hands who would be there if I invited them to spend time with.
The thing is, I know better and it will hinder me when I want to see someone new. This place had everything at one time and now it doesn't.
I can give two shits about reviews from strangers, anyway. When one of my brothers say I have to see 'this lady', that's where I go cuz I trust them and they know my taste.
I hope it goes well for TER and the rest of you, but as far as I'm concerned I'll just write here for free and not pay dues cuz I'm not going to pay a premium for half the service.
Seeing as how my posts have to approved every time I say anything is another reason, but we won't go there....