Of course he ment to, he booked it, showed up. You didn't seduce him. The problem is, his change of heart puts you at risk! If he gos back & confesses all to clear his guilty conscious, the shit falls on you. Be very careful. The dummy probably used his real phone too.
The best spin you can put on this in the moment, is P4P isn't for everyone. If he's had a change of heart, he's learned something about himself. HE should learn the lesson & never do it again. But hopefully he's no longer sitting in your parlor... try not to make him feel worse...
Two hours after he left the session his balls were recharged to 100% and he's wanking himself to the image of the next session.
That's what happens to a young guy who accidentally trips with an erection. Young guys are so damn lucky!
that is one reason some ladies will only see 'mature gentlemen' over the age of 40 (or whatever number signifies a lady's arbitrary cutoff for 'mature').
Although no younger (or older) guys have cried with me, a few younger ones have behaved the way yours did... letting loose emotional revelations during the date. Coincidentally, those emotional revelations have tended to occur at the point when I was trying to break away. Like:
Me: 'It's been so nice meeting you, I'll get going and I hope you have a a great night!' ).
Him: "I just broke up with my girlfriend of 15 years today. She broke my heart. And I was once verbally abused by a great-uncle. I just started dealing with the feelings. That's what led me to call you tonight."
That kind of attention-seeking behavior tends to disappear as age increases (but, it doesn't ever seem to go away entirely).
Posted By: Zak0326
Is it ever OK to cry in a providers arms?
Posted By: LondonBay
Ever dealt with a crying client? had some 19year old come see me.after the session he started crying because --snip--
London, it sounds like Zak paid you a visit. He's not 19, he just likes to wear his letter jacket to appts, lol --z
This is a business of great intimacy and clients cry for different reasons. I've had clients that cry as a physical relief from a deep orgasm, heck I've cried after an extremely intense orgasm. It was more of a crying/laughing overwhelming type experience.
But, I feel a part of my job is to listen and be as understanding as possible. I offer my ear and my shoulder. I offer compassion, not just sex.
So, I look at this business as part plaything, part friendship, and sometimes part shrink.
Who better to confide your deepest fears and insecurities than a woman who isn't going to judge you and isn't going to tell on you?
I think it's beautiful when a client can be that open and real.
As for the original poster's client who cried because of feeling guilty, that is something he should stop and think about. This shouldn't be a source of internal conflict. If it is, it needs to be examined as to why do it if it is a problem for you?
I think I've mentioned before that I was a detective after I left the Army
Had ten years on the job before I transitioned to business (thanks gawd)
I see things from a different perspective often.
In this case, as a provider, you should run away from a client like this.
Young or not he's unbalanced. And that can manifest itself in ugly other ways
Your safety should always be your first concern and emotionalism as outlined here can become dangerous
Posted By: LondonBay
I had some 19year old come see me.after the session he started crying because he said he never meant to cheat on his gf.Any providers had something similar happen like this?
People cry. I think that men usually try to cry in safe hidden places.
Posted By: LondonBay
I had some 19year old come see me.after the session he started crying because he said he never meant to cheat on his gf.Any providers had something similar happen like this?
