but even then, the hobbyist might be able to figure out if it was him.

Perhaps if both the provider and client's names were kept off, but then what is the point?

Now we're talking!

Yes, I'd like to sign up for your seven day ego trip.  By all means, please include the upgraded excursion package and the complete photo montage.

No, I'd rather not indulge in the truth option, my therapist says it wouldn't be a very good idea right now.  But, I will throw in a few extra bucks for the cute T-shirt and the huge fruity cocktail mug.

Thanks.  When do we leave?

Let's not forget that "White list" has nothing to do with "Tongue Skills" or "Dick Size"

When ladies white list you it means, you are a gentelman and a good legitimate client.

Dear Terrev:
Why don't the women have an underground publication or database that one would have to have special priviledges to use. Then have a providers consortium to maintain the information and update it quarterly. The underlying question is since there isn't a body or a union for the providers there would be any laws to enforce this although since providers are always asking for information this should be readily available within a 90 day time period. The underlying question is what if someone see a provider overseas and needs a reference then you would have to have a translation feature on the database to discern what is being said.    a

I'm pretty sure mine wouldn't. So lets not go there and let me just float in my own little fantasy world.

one of the signs of the apocalypse?

After seeing so many providers yourself, I'm surprised to find you actually believe we only discuss you (hobbyists) in a negative context. Perhaps this is true of some ladies, but none that I've ever met.

While I protect every Friend's privacy, I still make sure to say something good and true about him when giving a reference. After all, if he were a yucky scumbag I would never have met with him to begin with.

I appreciate and utilize blacklists when I have my doubts about a gentleman, but don't focus exclusively on the negative. In fact, it's been so long since I refused to give a good reference that I can't even remember the details.

I really enjoy my good Friends; if I didn't I certainly wouldn't spend so much time with them. There, now you've heard a provider say something good about her clients.

Actually, that's really accurate.

Well, okay, maybe not *entirely* accurate.

Mr. Fisher is really a brunette; the collar and cuffs don't match.

xxxooo
Beverly ;-*

It's an unwritten guy rule that girlfriends and S/O's are off limits. If your buddy has a great gal and having the time of his life in bed with her, you are not allowed to hit on her. Is that not true with women? If a lady has a wonderful time in bed with her man, do her friends actually hit on him?

b-

Personal history regarding this

I have had past girlfriends tell me that they would never tell their friends or sisters what our sex life was like.  When I asked why, they said, in essence, they didn't want the competition.

On the other hand, I did have one ex-girlfriend in college whose absolutely stunning best friend ended up coming on to me.  After our first time in bed, I asked her why she, a girl that could have her pick of any guy, was hitting on me.  She said, I talked to 'Jane'.  She told me about your tongue and I just HAD to find out.

So, I guess there is a grain of truth in this.