I created a free account. I'm now flooded with offers of meeting for sex.. supposedly from local women. To respond, I have to put in my credit card & buy message responses. It feels like a scam to me.. too easy.. but who knows.. wondering how many if the women are providers too.
LOL come on dude. This has happened with almost every adult dating site. Adult Friend Finder and Ashley Madison should have taught everyone a lesson. They have a lot of bots on the site that make you think tons of women want to have sex with you. Then you shell out money and realize most of the profiles are fake. Like come on guys. If women aren't going out of their way to get your attention in real life, why would they do it online?
in real life than through intermediaries, but with real life, comes real drama, so I'm always open to new ways to meet potential fuck-mates with minimal commitment up front, but as you and others point out, 90%+ are scams from the beginning.
used by the AM site. You pay to be able to read the responses. Most of them are AI generated nowadays, so you will be corresponding with a robot. I started on AM before I learned about TER. Some will be providers, but most are homely, fat, old, women, or a combination of all three. After a few meet and greets, I realized what the scam was and quit the site, forfeiting a few hundred dollars I still had on account. I'd rather spend my money here where I know I will get value for it.
i have had great success with Secretbenefits which is a sister site to seekingarrangements ... now its possible that some are bots, many are obvious pros but there is a significant percentage of real woman, many with real lives , looking for some side action. the downside is, its takes time to weed through all the profiles and responses that go nowhere.
but i have found some real gems, just takes some time, so that's the trade off vs a TER provider which takes one phone call
SB is another site supposedly for guys looking for sugar babies. It's pre-purchased coin-based. To contact a woman... 10 coins... to look at secret pics (usually tame) another 10 coins... to send a photo thru the site... 10 coins... to read secret answers to questions posed by the site... 10 coins... etc. A few are escorts but most are hustlers. Don't waste your money.
everything has a cost .. the cost with SB and SA in general is time more than the few dollars it costs to contact a girl....i have had great luck on those sites but yes it takes time! met some amazing ladies .... but you have to contact 15 to get a reply from 1 ... benefit is when you do find the right girl its a much more passionate / intimate encounter vs the mechanical times up at 59 min of a TER lady.
so pick your poison and priorities .. like anything else in life there is no one size fits all. if you have patience, then a SB site i think will wind up better ... if not the TER ladies save time and energy ...and they are a sure thing
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