My wife gives me oral about once a month, and she's good and usually enjoys giving.
What seems funny to me is that, if during our foreplay, my cock has rubbed up against her pussy, she is very adamant about getting a wash cloth and cleaning off my cock before she puts it in her mouth.
When I hobby, I notice that most providers have no qualms about moving back and forth from pussy to mouth with my cock (covered) and that its common after I give a girl DATY, the girl often wants to kiss me after and almost wants to make the extra effort to lick her pussy juice from my face or hands.
SO, is it that the providers, know that this is erotic to most guys and are trying to enhance the session, is there just individual variation, or is my wife strange, in that she doesnt want to taste her pussy?
Poll question: how many providers either enjoy tasting themselves, or tolerate it, or will not do it?
Side note: after my wife has taken my semen in her mouth, I do not want to kiss her, until she's brushed her teeth. I dont want my semen near my mouth.
If you get knoggin once a month, that to me would be very strange if my wife did that!
If it is good enough for you to eat, why isn't it good enough for her to? That was the way I always felt about it. If I know I am clean, why would I care?
You both don't like tasting your juices.
Every woman is different, and some just don't enjoy/like the taste of themselves, or others for that matter... you stated yourself that you won't kiss her after you've come in her mouth. I think providers in general are more comfortable with their bodies, and everything that comes along with it... and on a general basis, are also way more hygiene conscious than your average civie. Your average civie, will take her 1 shower a day, and be done with any other type of personal hygiene... your average provider is taking numerous showers a day constantly cleaning her nether regions, etc. Maybe try taking a sensual shower/bath beforehand, get really scrubbed up, and try seeing if she's more open then?
Me, personally, use to be the same way with my husband(now ex), but have 360d since I started providing...
Sounds like you and your wife are a perfect match.
She don't want to taste her pussy and you don't,
want to taste your own semen...
Personaly I love to taste myself
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Gracious!!! You need to have a chat with her about the frequency - forget the strange anti-pussy behavior!
I like the taste of myself, and see no reason to waste it. I also enjoy women as much as men.
Maybe she is copying your behavior of avoiding?
You BOTH are too blame for depriving yourselves by allowing them not to happen, starving yourselves not healthy at all!
I love the way I taste. I love the fact that my taste alters somewhat depending on where I am in my cycle. After realy good DATY that gets me soaking wet, I love to reach down, get my fingers soaked with my juices, and share the taste with my parther. Its not just sexy to me, its very tasty LOL
Side note to your side note: You may have your answer about your wife if you actually insist she brushes her teeth after oral. It may be that she's just doing tit for tat. For my part, if a man is squeamish about a smooch after CIM, its the last time he'll ever get CIM. If I can take it, he can take it :P
My wife loves giving oral, and as a result I get it much more than once a month. So, either she doesn't enjoy giving it that much, or you don't ask for it more. And, she doesn't seem all that persnickety regarding switching between oral and vaginal and back again.
Blow jobs are rare at my house and no coming in mouth. Providers/ dancers love kissing when coming up for air. Now i will admit I have no inerest in a snowball but once she spits or swallows it back to kissing.
so... like what 8 times a year she does it and "enjoys it"?
Don't kid yourself. Your wife or not, that is not a woman who enjoys sucking cock. At all. Ever. Not really. Huh-uh. Nope. I'm sorry.
HalfHour
My longtime girlfriend is very much against tasting herself. Our sex is fairly infrequent and rather straightforward, but the last time she tried to bj after i was inside her, she literally could not do it. She apologized and finished me off with her hands, but I don't really find it that strange. I think it's a little inconvenient for me, but not enough to really cause a problem. I think that the extreme level of sexual comfort from the posters on this board(Not that it's even remotely a bad thing) is not exactly indicative of the "norm"(but i could also easily be the crazy one. I would think it wouldn't be a problem for most girls but who the hell knows? I've never had a girl try to snowball me, I think I might be into it, I don't really know.
Idk....Most men say I'm sweet.....
I dont mind when Im at home as its apart of foreplay and makes the experience more pornographic...lol
if you are not willing to taste what comes out of your own body, you shouldn't expect anyone else to.
Personally, I love a good cum-pussy juice cocktail shared between the gal and myself.
So the taste is blissful heaven, to me!
I can understand your wifes' issues, though! I have known maaaany women who were like that! Odder still, I have had my share of threesomes where the women didn't mind performing on me, but didn't want to taste their own. Some people have mental hangups about it, as though they had decided long ago that their own fluids were somehow slightly disgusting to them and have totally turned themselves off toward the idea!
I know to each is own, but if it seems like it really bothers her, were I in your place, I would at least as her why. I think it is important to know about a partners' strange or illogical actions, just so can keep an idea of where their head is at! I dont mean that to be amusing, as funny as it sounds; I am entirely serious.
Dani
wow...once a damn month??!!!!! i'll say this much....i'm an EXTREMEMLY oral person. im bi as well so juices from either her, him or myself is such a turn on!!!!
YUMMY!!!
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