I am 5'7" and have normally kept my "dates" to that height or less.  There are so many really beautiful women that are taller than this.  Plus with the popularity of really tall heels, a 5'5" lady with 6 inch heels on stands almost 6 feet tall.
My question would be for the ladies or gents, does this bother you?  I know the ter answer will be that the only thing these women care about is the size of your wallet, yeah yeah.
If I feel like a 10 year old hugging his mama, do the tall ladies feel like mamas hugging their lttle boys.
Should I tell a 5 foot 9 inch tall girl that I am two inches shorter than her IF she answers the door barefooted??

Spud

She was totally cool with it. Wore sandals and looked hotter than hell. We were both dressed very casual as our date was.

I'm not into the pretentious shit. I want to be relaxed, as I hope the lady is also.

Wouldn't be the first time I was wearing cargo shorts, T-shirt or a tank top, running shoes while they were in something just as relaxing.

The way I see it, all of that shit will be in heaps on the floor in a few minutes anyway....!

I have been with some women that were taller than me w/o heels, I'm 5-8, and some that were taller when they had heels on.  Didn't bother me either way.  Once you're laying down, it makes no difference, IMHO.

However, if it bothers you then by all means, ask her not to wear heels.  The alternative is to only seek out providers who are short enough so that wearing heels is not a problem.

Swim

At this point, I have given up being hung up over height.  WHO GIVES A SHIT?  This is the hobby...height for men here is only an issue if you make it so.   Some of my best lady friends are much taller than me, yet they don't turn me away over superficial suxh as height disparity.  You need to get over yourself....an treat the ladies right...

to get over your inhibition and phobia! This is not the civvie world where height definitely matters. After all, it is all biological and in the female DNA to seek the bigger and the stronger "looking" males, rather than the runts. Pretty much for the same reason that most men are naturally more attracted to the bigger bosoms in a female (sign of fertility and maternity)

Look, you are not playing with civvies in a bar where you can be looked down upon, only if you let them. It is true that many women are "heightist" but it does not matter when you are horizontal and specially when in this P4P field. As long as you do not have the dreaded Napoleon complex that many short guys suffer from, it will not be a turn off to escorts. If it really bothers you that much, wear some "prince pumps"

I am 6ft 0 and have seen 6ft girls nive not bending down or haveing to get trouble getting lined up for 69.  Have also seen a 4ft 9 girl and that was fun too.

I also don't mind if they're taller than me as a result.  I'm 6' so it doesn't happen often.  When it does it doesn't bother me a bit.

I am 5'8" and (hobby) dated a girl 5'11", plus she wore 5"? heels (did not measure them).

When I entered the room, she bent down to kiss me.  That gave me a flashback to first grade when my mother bent down to kiss me goodbye my first day in school.  Had a great time with this girl.  Truth is stranger than fiction.

Now that I think about it, there was this other one that looked down on me when I entered the room.

But it wasn't long before she was looking up at me.

I've never had that problem, being 6'2, but if I did I'd just wear heels like Prince does. And I bet if you stripped down to nothing but your heels and belted out 'Pussy Control' you would win major cool points with her.

Or you could just make her kneel the whole time like Kelly McGillis in Top Gun.

But if those options seem too extreme then just enjoy being one of the little people and ask her nicely for a piggy back ride.

have the opposite problem as I am 6'4". some of the providers that I have met seem like children when i bend over to kiss them !!!

I'm 6'0", all my hobby dates have been between 5'0" and 5'7", and I've specifically got on my to-do list some lovely ladies who are around 5'11" or 6'0" in their bare feet to have that different experience.  If she liked her heels, she can wear them for arrival, introduction, but I'd ask if I could slip them off her PDQ.

I am at 196.5cm that's a little over 6'4" without shoes, and I have yet to meet a lady that is at or over 5'9", either in the civi or hobby.

Most of the ladies I have met are in the range of 5'0"-5"6', except for one Brazilian lady, I think she was close to 5'9"; but I have been with a couple of ladies that are shorter than 5'.

One lady was at 4'7", and petite built at 84lb. My first thought was, that this was not going to work. We discussed the situation, but she insisted on trying. It turned out great, although a little awkward at times, especially in the missionary position.

But mostly around 5'1"-5'4", and it is awkward in that first initial hello kiss.

I would really like to find a lady that is taller than I, or even the same height would great.

I would also like to hear the ladies input.

tell you the name of the provider.

...with hands wandering as XXX stood on her toes (I’m a a foot taller than she is). Gentle kisses quickly led to LFK which led to DFK. XXX is a very good kisser. We entered the bedroom and XXX stood on her knees on the bed while we kissed some more....

Also, I had another shorter provider (around 5 ft.) said to me, "Height doesn't matter when we are horizontal."  So true.

I have been with short hotties, tall hotties and hotties in between.  All are beautiful in my eyes.

I just love the welcome hug which puts my face between her boobs!!   She bends down, kisses me on the mouth & we go from there.
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I know the ladies don't care at all.  So if that's what you're concerned about... don't be.

But I'm 6'2" and, by quirk of luck and choice, most of the women (civies and providers) I've been with have been 5'7"+, which is on the slightly tall side, but is almost perfectly physically compatible with my height.  (everything just "fits" right, etc...)

That's great, but lately I find myself yearning for more variety.  I'm looking for my "shawty," but can't seem to find many in my area.  Where's a good 5'0" cutie when you need one?

We have a surfeit of spinners here!

In my real life I like taller than 6ft. Im 5ft 7 and love to rock 4/5 inch heals. Have a tough time finding a guy taller than 5ft 7... I have a complex with standing 5 inches taller than my man..

For this job I dont care, its not about me its about pleasing you. How tall you are does not matter.

Im 5'10" and can top out at 6'2" in heels..  I love the body Im working with and that I am so tall, I dont at all mind being set apart from "average height" or average....anything!

I find it incredibly sexy when a guy has no issues with our height difference (and Im used to it...there usually is a height difference)  A guy who is confident about that generally is the sort who can let go and have fun.  Thats what its all about!  

It is saddening when I can tell the only thing thats putting a guy off of me is my height..especially when we meet and Im sitting down, and then when I stand up, I keep going and going as one guy told me lol!  But I still wouldnt trade being tall for anything....my legs wouldnt be so incredibly long if I werent! =D

Mr Prick, you are a funny guy.  Maybe I could bring Tom Cruise's wardrobe people with me to my next date.  Would you recommend open toe, or closed toe for and evening date??
Kelly McGillis on her knees sounds good even for the "Pit Boss".
A piggy back ride, with Randy Newman singing in the background..........damn now your talking

Spud

That's pretty much my point.  You say you love your height, that is good BUT yet you have a complex standing taller than your man.
I was once told by a girl that had fallen for me, she was about 5'7" also, that she didnt know how this happened cuz normally she doesnt evern look at a guy under 6' tall.
AHH, it is what it is....for me it's that initial contact just feels like Im kissing my kindergarten teacher, or she's kissing me. Que sera, sera.

Will get back to you with a full report.  If all goes well I will work my way up the ladder....any 7 footers out there??

SPUD

OK, the dirty deed is done.  She was gorgeous and 5'9" in barefeet.  It was a little awkward while she was in heels.  Once off, meh no biggie.  I think the biggest problem with a "big" girl is, they make my Johnson look smaller.  Maybe Ill stick with the 5' to 5'6"