TER General Board
Talking about TER in flagrante delicto is WAY TMI
One does not talk about TER except in abstract, impersonal tenses.
It's way uncool, not good form. It should remain unspoken - otherwise it contaminates both the session and your reviews. It degrades the fantasy, and distracts from life's moments of pleasure.
Now, if you want to talk about the OTHER people on escort boards, or the M&G arrangements, that's another issue.
Just don't be inferring that you're reporting on her, any more than you'd comment on the contents of her wastebasket. Not unless you want her comments on your um performance.
If you really HAVE TO, you guide, you say, "try it like this..."
If not, have you noticed a difference in performance/enthusiasm etc..
One does not talk about TER except in abstract, impersonal tenses.
It's way uncool, not good form. It should remain unspoken - otherwise it contaminates both the session and your reviews. It degrades the fantasy, and distracts from life's moments of pleasure.
Now, if you want to talk about the OTHER people on escort boards, or the M&G arrangements, that's another issue.
Just don't be inferring that you're reporting on her, any more than you'd comment on the contents of her wastebasket. Not unless you want her comments on your um performance.
If you really HAVE TO, you guide, you say, "try it like this..."
And indeed most providers accept to see me after just talking to them on the phone without asking for references. I find that the best providers, while certainly expecting to be paid, 'perform' better based on my courtesy, respect, and gentlemanly behavior. It is as simple as that. The few that want the great review are usually not able to really get one in my mind.
was that a mistake or did u say most providers see you after just speaking to you on the phone without any sort of reference or check u out?
if your that good why not just stop in a local womans dress shop of beauty salon and just work ur wonderful talks on them?
also would like to ask how many guys have met LE when they are accepted with no verification just sweet talk.
-- Modified on 6/19/2008 5:38:54 PM
But it is not sweet talk either. I think in reality verification is not that easy to do. I offer references but I find that they are rarely followed. I think most people, and maybe women in particular, can read a situation. Is it safe for them or me? I am not sure. I hear your point but I would say verification by the provider takes place less than 80% of the time. I am no Don Juan but I can put someone at ease. Remember, they always have the right to just offer me their company (happened once).
I see many threads on the process of verification, how much info to give, etc. It just has been my experience these many years that this rarely happens. The thread was on the provider bringing up reviews during or before a session. I find this tacky.
I threw in the towel dealing with references a long time ago. Far too much hassle and takes too long.
I do what xenopus does too. Very often you can put the provider at ease through written and verbal conversation. And it also give me some insight into her demeanor as well. If the girl is adamant about references I simply don't see her.
I have revealed my TER handle AFTER a session, so obviously it had no impact on our date.
When speaking with several ladies, they do check the interviews to see what kind of guy you are, what you are into, how you write your reviews. Word does get out who "is naughty and who is nice."
First, I don't consider myself in any way special and most ladies don't either, dammit.
Second, if the lady has done her homework, she has read my reviews and knows my status, likes, dislikes and so forth. Few go this extra step, but the first-tier ladies often do.
I won't see someone without some sort of verification that they have seen others and they are in fact still alive and breathing .I find one of the ,least intrusive ways for me to do this is it read your prior reviews and then contact the ladies you have seen prior so i can get a feel for the person and their interpersonal skills . If they have no reviews much like you guys here it's TOFTT and like most of you I'm reluctant to do so . I do this for saftey reasons . I don't kid myself into thinking that becuase someone is capable of writing a letter that it somehow means they aren't capable of bringing harm to me .The boston strangler was never found and I'm guessing he lives somewhere . Maybe even near me . I don't think it is tacky to want to verify at all I think it's good business . I do understand some peoples reluctance towards it but if they aren't comfortable then i wish them well and hope they find what they are looking for .It is not at all personal it's a policy .Just a way to try and reduce my chances of me becoming a statistic. I do think the people i personaly see want it that way tho most of them are on the same page as myself in that they are also quite concerned with saftey . This isn't high school and we aren't somehow cooler if you are willing to throw caution to the wind your ,just risky .I also think if they are willing to take this risk it may indicate to me they are comfortable taking other risks as well it maybe a theme and i'm not all that into the theme in general.One of the most shocking things i have been approached with is men , risk taking type people ,who try and convince you to have relations without protection , I assume if you are willing to take the risks with the no screen policy you are going to be the same guy who gives me jip over protecting himself and me during a session , I'll pass but thanks for asking , no . I don't mean to sound aweful but if i am not comfortable it is nearly impossible for me to make you comfortable, so i think it is to your benefit on so many levels. Kendall
I can only relate my own experience, but in 20 years of seeing escorts, not one has ever asked about what boards I visit, what name I use, etc. And I've never felt the need to offer such information. Seems never to have mattered at all.
However, ladies I get to know over time, tend to come across the information anyway - just by way of the things we talk about over the long haul)
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