I was thinking that taking a provider on a 3 day cruise would be a lot of fun. Of course it would be with a provider who I'm very comfortable with and vice versa. Three days of sex, sun, food and relaxing would be hard to beat. I was wondering if anyone has ever done this and if there's any big drawbacks to this...Thanks
Interesting problem. I suppose if you don't have an ATF you have the option of picking the type of cruise (location vs. activies) and finding a provider to match or picking the provider and then the two of you figuring out where and what you want to do.
Also as opposed to staying on dry land, once the boat leaves the dock you are stuck with each other. I might consider doing an overnight in a hotel before venturing onto the high seas.
Hope you have a great time and a report would be welcome as well.
I've never taken a provider on a cruise, but I have taken them on trips. While I've had some good times, most of the trips were something of a letdown. (I once took two providers who were good friends on a trip. It was a big mistake. Before long they were having a great time, and I was the odd man out.)
The downside is that although she is your ATF and you've had some great times together in the past, that after a day of two you will find you don't have as much in common as you thought. When that happens time will really start to drag. Also, it is very hard for a provider to stay "in the role" for an extended period of time. You may find both the quality and quantity of the sex isn't so great as time progress. While I've had some nice trips, my general observation is that in the beginning things are great and then slowly go downhill. Good luck.
I am meeting my ATF for the weekend. We have spent as much as 4 days together (live in different cities so one hr encounters not a real option). You need to plan inadvance whether you plan to spend every minute with her or just meet her for bed and meals. You may find she doesn't want to hike the glacier, go into town or whatever activity you want to do so be prepared for some "me" time. Again a trial overnight will let you know if she snores, makes funny noises, or all the other little things that make you want to kill someone when you stuck in a 8X8 foot room for three days. LOL
Actually for me the quality of the sex went up as we tried different positions and assistive devices to keep things fresh. Also you know what works and what doesn't work.
My ATF and I were sitting talking to some guy who was mentioning the great time he had on one of those singles cruises. Apparently had 3 different women on three different nights so you might consider jsut going by yourself too and see what happens.
Go on a single cruise, alone. Taking a provider on one of those is like taking sand to the beach, as long as you are in good shape.
She said that there were so few eligible men on the cruise that she ended up sleeping with one of the crew members, which she said was strickly against the regulations. She thought that added to the adventure but the way she told it he was pretty nervous about it.
Incidentally, she was an absolutely gorgeous young woman.
Coach, make sure that you are not going to pay her for her time or have some agreement as to what you will pay. If she feels the same way about you that you feel about her , go for it. I did a similar thing three years ago, and it was heaven. I told her up front that she would not be on the clock and I gave her 800.00 that she could spend any way she wanted. She saved most of it.
I took her to the Grand Cayman, we scuba dived in crystal clear waters for three days. It coast me 4K, but we both had such a good time, it was money well spent. GO FOR IT, you lucky bastard!
Make sure you really get along well together in between the "fun" stuff. You've never seen time stand still until you're stuck in a room with someone you aren't able to converse with. Longest night of my life!
Having gone on extended trips with a provider, one way out of state for several days. I can agree with some of the comments here. We had a great time, not just based on bedroom activities, but we also knew each other pretty well and travel well together. Do your homework first and you should have a great time.