In my case, it was the first and second....

Your posts are usually very interesting, Haley.  One of the most memorable experiences I've had was a first and second meeting.

She texted me her room number.  I was nervous and excited.  She was a well-reviewed beautiful lady.  I was fairly new to the hobby, and had no idea what to expect, except what I read in the reviews.

I stood in front of that hotel door for what seemed like 5 minutes.  My heart racing, I knocked on the door.  God, I hoped her reaction wasn't one of disappointment.  I'm not a great looking guy, but I'm not bad.  

The door opened, and there she was, in her nighty.  It flowed over her smooth skin.  Her bright, cheery smile greeted me.  She invited me in.  She could sense my anxiousness, and she talked to me and touched me to calm me down.  She really took her time with me.  It was pretty much what I expected, but a little more, and when I left, I couldn't help but wonder what might have happened had I not been so nervous.

I decided to book with her again.  We exchanged some emails, and had some god conversation in them.  This time, I couldn't wait to see this beautiful woman.

I wasted no time knocking on the door.   My imagination wandered, picturing what might happen.  As I walked in, I couldn't have been prepared for the magic that was about to happen.

I think we were just in the right mood at the right time, and we both connected.  Had I had any idea what was to happen that day, I think I would have died waiting.  I walked out of there thinking, "Holy crap...did that just happen?"

Believe it or not

I have never had the door open and thought "Well, she looked better in her pictures". Honestly, it is almost always "Man, her pictures really didn't do a great job of capturing her beauty."

Now, maybe that is primarily due to the difference in the "Two dimensional" versus "Three dimensional" experience. I think part of it is often pictures show poses/angles/shadows which aren't naturally encountered in real life. Being a 'connection' person, relatable pics convey more multi-level beauty than studio shots.

Also, in many lady's pics, her eyes and smile are hidden or partially obstructed, and to me that is the most beautiful part of a woman, so when we finally do meet, if she is smiling I can't help but be pleasantly surprised that she surpasses her pictures.

and read a book.  I had seen the lady several months before but when I saw her for a 2nd time she had gained a good 25-30.  Previously she was "curves in the right places" but on the 2nd date she was heavy.

is a magical moment for me. In most cases with the agencies I frequent I find that the lady looks better in person. Of course I expect it to be the other way around when a lady's website features glamour photos - I've been in arelationship with a lady who modeled for a living and know the dif between glamour and real life lol....  

but a big factor for me is that I grew up on 60s playboy. Those girls were *real*. Not glammed and photoshopped to the point of incredulity. And I never have idolized pictures. To me, a lady in person, in real life, is always more interesting.

I have had the exprience one time of seeing a lady whose pics were way out of date and she was obviously older. However I found her even more attractive so not an issue.

I have seen a few ladies whose pics were taken with poses designed to camouflage defects. Yet again in real life, with their engaging personality and other charms, they were overall more attractive than their pics.

I don't worry that I'm going to be disappointed. I concern myself with being focused, upbeat, positive, appreciative and complimentary. Ladies respond to that vibe and give you their best. Especially critical with some of the very new agency girls I see from time to time but every lady appreciates being appreciated.