I wonder what some of you guys would be like if you were a female and a provider, but kept the same personality you express on TER. Sounds like some of you would be amazing and others a dud. Any thoughts on how you'd be or how another poster would be in this sort of "career"?

I'd probably make alot of money since I'm Asian. From the reviews I've been reading alot of guys love Asian Women.

I've been reading that a lot of people with a death wish love to get that particular service from hookers of any ethnic backround. Or in your case, simply as cheaply as possible.

Come on, fess up and tell us you are really Udo's "Asian brother from another mother" as if either of you know who your mother is in the first place.

Girls who are smart and funny, and not afraid to tell it like it really is. Girls who sound like they'd be fun to hang out with.

I pride myself on being mentally flexible.  But this is just way too much.  After thinking about it for a bit - I think I would join a convent....  

You've certainly posted a number of interesting and thought provoking topics in the short amount of time I've been on this site.  This is probably the most interesting to date.  

As for your male "hobbyist," I think you just described me.

I enjoy using my mind, am an analyzer, and enjoy being different. Of all the things I would hate to lose, my mind is tops! See, now there is another thread topic lol.

I'd never have sex with someone like me, and I"m me!

if you were a provider like me bwahaha. I kid, I kid. I'm a pretty decent and nice but I have no problem refusing to see guys who annoy me, are rude, can't hold a conversation, or pop up red flags.

I think I would probably be the BP troller hobbyist... Looking for the freshest fresh meat! LOL!  
I would be the Captain Save-A-Ho type... I would find my fav for the moment and if she was a young independent, I would give her business advice. In our OTC time, I would totally spoil her with dinners to Ruby Tuesday and Red Lobster and buy her cheap lingerie and perfumes to make her feel "special". Terrible I know! I wouldn't need the companionship aspect, but would get off on her "needing" me for the little material shit. I would like my sex freaky too, probably push some limits and take extras without compensating, she is so hot for me isn't she? LOL, but nothing uncovered or unsafe. LOL! I would be bad...  

I'd probably be so busy trying to figure her out before I'd book, that she'd cut off contact. More of a comfort level thing for me and a little of the analyzing. Then I'd go on TER and ask for advice on why the gals won't see me lol. I would get laughed at and eventually get my head out of my butt and take the plunge. Eventually I'd learn to relax and go with the flow, stop thinking so much. I'd try to get OTC time too but do other things to make it worth it to her, got to feed the ego of feeling like she truly wants to spend time with me. I would only hobby if I didn't have a SO. I don't stay with people if I am not 100% getting what I deserve/want. Pretty straight forward on that. I am sure some gals would take advantage of me once I got comfortable with them.  

That "wall" came down a long time ago.

Don't get me wrong, as a provider, I do enjoy fucking girls in the hobby. I just ask them to do doubles with me. LOL! Best of both worlds and I am getting the girl for free (essentially).  

That was my question in the OP. I understand there are male providers and female hobbyists. Hell, I have even thought of doing some hobbying on the side lol. I just thought it would be more interesting to ask like I did and be less complicated. I would be much nicer as a female hobbyist than a male hobbyist, if that makes any sense... but I chose to write (and joke on some of it) as a male hobbyist and assume all gals would be potentials (vs some providers only being straight or pretend bisexuals. I said some, not all)

None of that "male provider" stuff for me. I am all girl and I would like to keep it that way

From what I've read, most Male Providers see Male Clients. I highly doubt any Woman would pay a Guy to have sex with her. (a.k.a the movie "Midnight Cowboy)

Really cute, sexy, totally bi and loves to go with her boyfriend to fuck hookers.  My kind of woman.  Loves to get fucked by a big dick while eating pussy.

Sure there are far fewer female hobbyists out there but they do exist. Salt Lake for instance I know has three straight male providers. Vegas has a great many more, I know as I had a few flown in for my wife's pleasure. Yes there likely is more work for gay male escorts but a hot male straight escort that knows how to push a lady feel special can make a living doing sex work. I know a few.

Even if I had a vagina. Had it been an option I likely would have done it. I can find something sexy about most women and I do try to please. If I was an attractive woman I am open minded and professional, so I would be a good one. As is I am far to ugly. Ugly people even if female have a rough time making a living selling sex. As a male I would starve as I couldn't give it away.

Http://Www.conciergedumonde.com

She is very open minded and sexually very adventurous . She too is bi. She is a total pervert and proud of it. She is also a proud whore. She is also a loving wife who fucks providers with her deadbeat husband. She is my kind of woman. Glad I married her.

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I don't want to name her handle on this board.  I hope to see her soon, perhaps in a month or so.

I'd pick an older woman, 35+. It wouldn't matter if she had 'another life outside of this' or not, so long as she seemed smart and interesting. And skilled.

except, maybe, (I hope) smart and interesting. I'd also argue that I'm not that superficial, but that's debatable.

When he called asking  why I didn't show, I'd tell him, "Look in the mirror and Fuck yourself"

Posted By: AlexandraMilw

I wonder what some of you guys would be like if you were a female and a provider, but kept the same personality you express on TER. Sounds like some of you would be amazing and others a dud. Any thoughts on how you'd be or how another poster would be in this sort of "career"?  
   
 Be interesting if us gals were men, became hobbyists, but kept our board persona during our meetings with the lovely ladies. What do you picture yourself and other lady posters acting out a meeting?  
   
 Yes, I opened that can of worms and even asked how you'd see other posters on here in this situation It is all in fun.  
   
 I for one think Manwhore would be out of this world and at a minimum, keep the "guys" laughing. He'd probably get 10's for experience just on the personality alone. (Yes I will pick on Gambler first because he'll have something smart ass to say in response lol). Hell, a drunk pussy still works fine, whereas a whiskey dick can't live up to the hype in most cases lol.  
   
 Myself, as a male hobbyist... I'd probably weed out the fakes real quick and be overly nice to the ones who are fun to be with and don't bug me for our next visit. I'd probably wind up with a few BL listings for my mouth. The gals who love their job would appreciate me however. I'd only be happy if I felt the gal really enjoy our time together and she'd have to have some intelligence. I'd probably be the one who wants to meet at my convenience, as I am like that in RW issues and don't like to wait for things. I wouldn't say mean things to the girls and would give a lot of thought before I posted a bad review  if it was a good gal that I just didn't click with. I'd be a dummy and give far too many 9's and 10's if I felt she deserved it.

You'll always be a Queen to us.

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I can only hope I look that good in thirty years.    
 

right arm in the shot.  I'll be waiting in the bedroom.