How many of you guys would be happy if you were a provider (men or women clients)?
How would you handle your businessIt is funny how some guys think they can just start a biz, and have woman clients.
I know for a fact. If I wanted to make money turning tricks..
I would be sucking dick, and having weird objects shoved up my ass.
I don't need the money that bad.
But after thinking about how not fun that would be. I got a small perspective of how some of the ladies may feel.
Not that it's that horrible. It's just a job. I get it.
I laugh my ass off when a monger wants to be a gigallo though.
Most guys have no clue. So keep your head up.
Some of us know that it isn't all high heels, and dinner dates.
But if I became desperate. I know I could make a shitload of money with an experienced escorts help.
And yes. I would have to service men. I'm not at all interested in dick..
But if the money was right, I may be able to fool a few.
I would just have to ice up my asshole every night!
The reality of it.. Gross, weird, but true.
I'll bet all of the homophobe mongers shit when they see.
But 99% of these men could not handle the lifestyle you wind up living when you escort.
Take it from a guy who will literally do anything just to say he tried it.
Would I be happy?? Depends on how much money I was making..
Most providers I know do NOT tell others outside the hobby what they do, which in turn can breed a kind of loneliness and isolation.
I can only imagine if I were a provider listening to some idiot in the women's locker room complain about how her boyfriend took her for a $300 dinner, then dropped $300 on a club and had the TEMERITY to expect a blow job that night must shake her head in wonder and quietly think (a) that's why your boyfriend's calling me and (b) if you could only see the guy I had to deal with last night you'd realize you have nothing to complain about.
As for me I think I would last about 4 minutes as a provider: "You want me to do what with that 12" dildo?! Sorry this date is over."
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Would be very selective in who I choose to share my time and companionship
Incall Only
3 plus references
Independent
and would always appreciate tips but would never expect the
I am amazed that women can do this. I could never "service" all the women that would likely show up for a gigalo. I know I am far too superficial and fixated on hot, sexy, petite ladies. If someonw like mama june showed up and wanted me to fuck her...and go down on her...etc....
Close your eyes & ride the wave in...
No real clue as to what it takes for women to jump in both feet first. We all have our needs & wants that drive us. Could I do it...reality check...no. I'm sure there are some clients that make the "job" easier and even fun & enjoyable. I don't know if I could deal with the (majority) ones you just gotta suck it up & finish the time with.
So if I was a provider & unless I can check out reviews & pics of potential female clients I don't think I could quit my day job.
Hell, can you imagine female hobbyists posting about "dick" on this board? They'd be a lot more brutal than what the guys write.
A provider has to be "on", all the time she is with a client - even the supposedly "off the clock" times.
I'd find this very challenging mentally.
I like my privacy, and I'm basically a homebody who get his kicks once a week and that is it.
Providing is for those who are extroverts, and feed off of that energy.
You'd be surprised at how a few ladies are introverts that do this, my being one of them. I am somehow able to be more outgoing when meeting in this line of work, but sometimes it can be taxing. I am quite a quiet person in RL unless I really know someone. It was harder in the beginning, when I first started. Now not so much.
For me personally, I'm definitely an introvert.
I'm not a fan of big groups of people and can get pretty uncomfortable in those situations, but having one-on-one time with a single person gives me life. I get energy from those encounters. It's a bit easier, as an introvert, to deal one-on-one.
I don't think providing, or being successful at it, depends on being an extrovert. One may be better at mixing and mingling, but I'd say (because I'm a biased INFJ) an introvert is better capable of providing a deeper connection in an experience.
But ya know, not everyone's looking for that!
Because, yeah, it shows you guys the reality that it's not all fun 100% of the time - it actually IS work. And yeah, sometimes you deal with clients who are just really difficult and expect you to go to the moon and back for them or they really just do nothing for you sexually but you still have to be "on". Not every person is a match for you and sometimes you just have to go with it anyway. So next time you see a Provider, just be mindful and truly respectful of her time with you.
Great thread Alexandra ![]()
about how hard it is for providers to muster up the ability to continually operate at a high level. I could never do it. I admire the ones who love playing the game, get off on living on the wrong side of the law and society and just flat-out love sex. I am fortunate to have know a few of them, and I'm hoping you are one of them.
Hint: I've seen your gifs.
I would be VIP and charge at least $500/HR because I'm college educated and can engage in deep conversation. For my safety I would require 3 references, social security number, and your employment information.
Only the most respectful and generous ladies would get appointments. It's not about the sex it's about companionship and establishing a deeper connection. If they wanted to tip or give gifts I would be sure to include that section on my website.
If the ladies didn't post reviews of 9's and 10s I would not allow them to review me and if they gave me a 10 they would get a 10% discount off of the next session.
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