Ladies and gents,
I posted something on the NY board (don't look for it yet, or it'll spoil the fun), where I answered a question based on the following characterization of the TER hobbyists:

The Bad:
x% are idiots
x% act like newbies (only x% are actually new)
x% don't know they're idiots (not completely overlapping with newbies)
x% want more of a "connection" with the provider than they deserve for the money they spend
x% don't act like newbies, but are still fools when it comes to women and life
x% are creeps (misogynists, time wasters, etc.)
x% are dangerous creeps  
x% Other:__________________

The Good:
x% are pretty decent guys (we ALL want to be in this group)
x% are dateable IRL (again, the if we didn't meet you this way question...looks and personality)
x% Other: _________________

Curious if your world is different from mine. Now you may look at my other OP if you like (link- scroll down for the "good" part). Don't ask for clarification, just explain anything you think is interesting. Obviously just hit quote to start the game.

Thanks for playing, ADJ. Your free gift is in the mail.

-- Modified on 2/5/2014 11:44:38 PM

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i think this guy needs to find a fucking life..

Roughly 80 percent were great guys, and the other 20 were still great guys but some were clueless, boring, or demanding. Most of my issues with clients were eliminated along with the hourly rate to be honest. I can't say the last 3 years of my time was anything other than peaceful. Most of the things providers complain about regarding clients are an easy fix, but not everyone can afford to take action. No phone number on the net, no last minute, no short dates, etc. saved both my time and sanity, and I discovered that early on, thank goodness.

I venture to say it's the vast exception.

So, if I read you right,
20% idiots
100% decent guys

Would buy you a gumbo anytime. And you're on my FMM (Fuck-Marry-Maim) list.

(aka As You Like It)
Granted, my OP is not attracting that much interest, but not every thread can be a victory lap about a second visit to a provider. Yay, Ukraine. You never explained what a bath bomb is. LOL.  

Ladies, take note. He still has $1500 burning a hole in his pocket. I suggest he just blast mail another cadre of girls. Review number #3 here we come. Lol.  

If you find yourself in Florida or Nola, you let me know and I will do the cooking. We will have to find you a hooker though lol.

I have not had one bad experience on here.I have not had many bad experiences as a whole in this.  
I want I'm have a guy leave with the money but again he was very young and I was 27 and it was a long time ago.
I had another guy continue to short me and one of my girls I had working with me back then.
I would tell him over and over and over how much it was and he would always push it and want to give less and get more
the worst part was he was a Millionaire
let's see I can't really think of any other times that I had bad experiences
I have had appointments go not as good as I would have liked them too but I can admit it's always because I am in a bad day
if I really look at it I can usually say that I wasn't at my best that day anytime that it's been less than amazing
I have met some that are dateable but I've come to realize that I am just not the dating type that can be happy in monogamy
the excitement of the $300 along with having $300 put down everytime I go to have sex or encounter a Man
I suppose to me that is just a bonus and it makes it hard for me to hook up with people for nothing in my free time
where I have a lot of things I want to do and as well as that I have fibromyalgia if I do have any free time the last thing I want is to be having physical contact with anyone.
or especially have to talk to men I love what I do but I'm pretty much always in survival mode trying to get my rent in hoping to get my apartment looking nice
I always say if I find a man that treats me better than I treat myself I will marry him
I treat myself way better than any man ever has or ever will so far as I'm concerned I don't need one
and everytime I go to have sex I end up with 300 bucks in my pocket after which means I can sit around and do nothing for the next couple of days
or just do stuff that I want to do like watching Anthony Bourdain reservations or mysteries at the museum and do tons of Pilates DVDs and bake brownies
I also buy myself a big bouquet of flowers once a week
I take myself for massages all the time and facials
and I live in like the coolest apartment in the world with the best view
plus I wouldn't want to go be with a guy and then get stuck with him with no money and have him bail on me or just stop liking him
all the dates I've ever had they get really boring after a little while and I don't get excited with them after while and I start wanting to leave them and go back to escorting so I get bored
I kind of like the awkwardness of meeting up with a complete stranger and I end up kind of getting a little excited I get really bored with the monogamy thing its boring I don't like normalcy