A few years ago I had my prostate removed.  Now I have an ED problem.  My doctor says I need to use it or lose it.
So I need to see someone several times a week -- who doessn't mind working with this situation.  And, particularly these days, I can't afford normal provider pricing -- that often!!!

Has anybody out there tried a surrogate?  Where does one find one?  I'm led to believe that they have the skills to help me.

Without sounding insensitive...masturbate like everyone else does when they cannot afford a provider.

Not sure what the going rate for sex surrogates is but if you want to see them several times a week, that will break the bank too. Sex is not cheap, no matter which way you choke a chicken.

or buy a Flesh-light artificial pussy and watch porn.

So your best bet is an inexpensive provider who really really enjoys your company.

Masturbate in between sessions.

Sometimes providers, if they really like you, WILL cut you some slack on pricing -- especially if you see them more often than once a month.



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Erotic Highway. Find a legitimate sex therapist in your area, and see who s/he could recommend. Just to let you know, it probably won't be any cheaper than p4p.

Your doctor didn't give you the whole story.  My doctor prescribed a penis pump the I am to use twice a day, copay was $20. Technically, no need to masturbate, just inflate.  Keeps blood vessels limber and functioning until you heal, which you will.  I did.

Depending of where you live, you might find someone nearby with the skills to help you overcome your ED problems.

I have sessions specially designed for guys with PE & ED issues and I believe you can find a provider close to you willing to be patient and work with you.

I have few clients who had their prostate removed and it takes a while to regain control of your sex life. Believe me, is possible!

I had guys who did bounce back within 6 months, and others after 2 or 3 years. It all depends on your age, physical shape and mental condition.

Is hard to give advice to you here, because I don't know you and I can't say what you should do.

The best thing is to find a kind, patient and experienced provider to help you.

You might need weekly sessions of one hour each and you can ask her to give you a special rate for it. She might do it for you.

Like I said, don't despair or give up...there is a way to get your orgasms back

Good luck!

Betty

Perhaps you can arrange some 15 minute sessions on a semi-regular basis until your cash situation improves. Don't go broke chasing filet when you have a Champale budget. I know you don't want to wack your weeny as was suggested, but with all the free porn out there, find a way to squeeze one out to relieve the tension. That way, you'll enjoy the times better when you meet that special someone.

Ask your urologist for a TRI-Mix prescription. The stuff is cheap and will raise the dead.

You have a PM. EOM

In CA, one of the few places sex surrogates are legal, they invariably work in conjunction with a licensed sex therapist- usually someone with a Ph.D in psychology or a related field.  This means you'll be paying for the services of both people for many of the sessions, which makes it much more expensive than a provider.

Before a sex therapist would have you work with a surrogate, you'd have several sessions with the therapist to understand  any other issues that could affect performance.

If you think the services of regular providers are too expensive, you're going in the wrong direction with a surrogate.  There are experienced providers on TER that have seen it all and are willing to work with you.  But if you need a sexual release three times a week, I think you'll need to do what 95% of the male population does and take matters into your own hands.