A question for you guys out there, I have seen about 5 providers and have noticed on a few occasion some of them seemed to be experiencing "aunt flow..." riding the red wave, you get the picture! It did not bother me but I was surprised, do the girls take a week off a month or what? Or like i experienced do they just work through it, and should they tell you, do most guys just deal with it....interesting obviously DATY was out, but sex still ok, hmmmmm, just curious how others have dealt with this. I did not want to be rude should I have asked for a discount, ignored it, what would you do? Thanks

This issue has been discussed in detail before.

I would suggest that you do a search  to find it. I believe that you will find most of your answers there.

Honesty is always the best policy

I think it's dishonest to meet with a client, while "Aunt Flo" is visiting, and not give him choices to see the provider or not. Now mind you, there are men out there who like the idea of a woman going thru the "changes", and would love to see her still. To each their own. As for myself, I have yet to find a man who has this particular fetish. If I had appts. for that week, I do let my clients know that I cannot work because of it. I will then take the week off, and treat it as a vacation lol

Re:Honesty is always the best policy

I agree ... it is dishonest to withold that information.  I always take those days off.  Although one month 3 differnt men requested a meeting specifically during that time because they were into that.  I did it just that month and thereafter stopped the practice because I didn't enjoy it(I am big time into DATY and that isn't possible.)

The girls want us to be safe (i.e., condoms) to protect them, but they're not willing to be safe (blood contact) to protect us. I realize that not all providers are like this, and most will reschedule or say they're not available.

Re:Honesty is always the best policy

I always take that week off too. And I'm honest with the guys as to why I'm either not taking appts or had to cancel because Aunt Flow showed up a few days early. I know they appriciate the choice, because none of them have been interested in a "threesome with Aunt Flow" LOL

Personally, I would LIKE to find a fetisher or 2 for that time....I'm not into it myself, but hey, I'm washable! LOL

*smiles*
Jan Brady
Kansas City

The three providers that have responded so far all favor restricting business during menstuation.  That has also been the case with the providers I have seen, and I would assume with an overwheling amount of providers.

If you "realize that not all providers are like this" (unsafe), what is your experience that are a significant enough number of them are to make a statement like "they're not willing to be safe (blood contact) to protect us" under a subject line implying that there is a possible double standard in place, and not just a few bad apples, which only the initial poster has encountered so far on this thread?  That would be like providers complaining that we aren't willing to be safe with them because we don't demand they perform only CBJ.

Of course, this doesn't even address the concept that a woman can't ALWAYS predict when she is going to spot flow or spot due to vigorous intercourse, but that is a whole other subject entirely.

Take a few days off? Never! I loose too much money. I just wear a sponge inside. Feels real natural to the man. And never tell him. If you are clean, he'll never know. As long as he keeps his fingers on the outside.