Are there signs that you can tell if a girl really loves you or is there no such certainty?

You know you shouldn't respond, but you will.

Pop the corn, crack a cold one, settle in, cause the show's about to begin!

It's easy......

When SHE calls YOU and asks YOU for a date.  YOU say "But honey pie, what about the envelope?"  SHE says, "I don't want an envelope...I just want you."

Then YOU will know that SHE loves YOU.  

Now for our next subject....."When Pigs Fly"

If your still paying her for time then its probably an act I'm sorry. But if not and you guys are casual theres no real way to know if somebody loves you even if they have told you that. Actions speak louder than words and just remember love means respect. pm if you want to give me the details for a more accurate answer

Wait a minute, the little slut told me I was the only one!!!

She gives up one of her dreams for one of yours.

-tessen

P.S. Watch the movie "UP." Seriously. Makes me cry every time!

Nope! Hanging wit my dog Rick, and we've come to the conclusion women are fucked up.

Plain and simple.

You seem to think that love is a constant state of feeling and behavior. Good luck with that theory.

but isn't it possible that she wants your baby because your have the genes that she thinks will be good for the baby but she might not necessarily love you for that?

she doesn't love their daddies. She needed an income.

If she puts your needs before her own needs, your dreams before her own dreams, and your wants before her own wants, she loves you. This does not mean she lets you walk all over her. It means she puts you first in her life. Note If you love her you would put her before your needs and dreams. Real love is a choice and a pattern of action more than an emotion or a single act. Love is not sex, lust, or infatuation. Love fades when put on a back burner. It takes work and real sacrifice maintain.

Go see a movie and jack off.

Seriously, don't spend a lot of time thinking about it. If she does, she'll let you know by doing those things others have already mentioned. Meanwhile, enjoy the ride.

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I am sure there is some essence of love to it. How much is the question; a question very easy to answer. How much "fun" money you got to spend? There is your answer.

Except instead of saying "fucked up," I'd say "incomprehensible to men and quite often even to themselves."

However, I am working on it. LOL

One day I'll build an artificial intelligence that fully simulates the way females of various personality types interact with their environment and make decisions.

Guys will pay me a fortune to figure out what their wife will be doing next. LOL

Get into a shit-load of trouble and then see if they are there for you.

It ain't rocket science.

There's an old saying about friends and true friends that fits:

If you get into a bar fight and LE comes to haul your ass to jail, a friend will come down to bail you out; a true friend, however, will be in the next cell.

(Ain't that right MP67?)

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then ask her out off the clock, if she declines she is a great provider and made you feel something incredible.  The problem is once you KNOW will you see her again if she doesn't return the feelings, will you want to see her again?  If she does are you able to support her if she doesn't want to do this anymore or you do not want her to?

If she is not in the industry, pick something to do on Saturday night that you like to do the you KNOW she doesn't want to do and see if she goes along with it.  The stronger her feelings for you the more likely she willbe to want to make you happy and try to understand the things you like.

... You mean infatuation right?

If you substitute the word love with "Infatuation"
you will both have plenty enough of that, to go around and no-one will be lacking ...

Love is fleeting moments of infatuation, never a constant. ... enjoy the moments.

A few degrees of calm, relaxation, will increase the levels, however.

At least that's what we all said growing up.

There's obviously no way to see inside somebody's head or heart, but if she honestly seems to miss you when you're gone, enjoys being intimate with you and cares for you, I'd say all signs point to love.

But mostly I think you just feel it when they do. Like a sixth sense.

Why would she want yours?  Seems to me that most women would prefer the genes of someone that is somewhat, well, male!  Not, a sniveling, whiney, invertebrate, that gets on HO boards asking pansy ass questions like this.  I'll have to assume you are filthy rich.  That can blind even the most hardened female to the point of not only marriage, but even having sex with her new found "soul mate"  I'd go for that one, if you gots the money!

Without shape, smell, and taste. Cannot touch or feel. Some say, they can feel but seems fade over period with or without reason. Overrated probably, cliche for many irrational human behavior. Some do crazy things including committing crime in the name of Love without thinking consequences. Some profess love and ignore and or leave whom they love.

A term with an awful lot of power and influence over human beings irrational behavior. The more of it one professes, the more irrational their behavior.

You will make best of the moment and live happy, if you don't get tangled up on the term "Love".

Read Kamasutra!

how are you going to find someone that can  actually beta test the damned thing?

by now, assume she doesn't.  If you ever doubt it, she doesn't.  If you have to ask, she doesn't.

I don't think "True love" is possible between 2 3rd density beings on a 3rd density planet, such as Earth.  Hence, the divorce rate, prevalence of infidelity, deception, manipulation, and the hobby.  This also explains why the institution of marriage is such a joke.

However, if you are 2 4th density souls volunteering on a 3rd density planet, that might work, but I don't think that's the case here.  If it were, then you'd know and wouldn't have to ask on a public message board.

Don't worry, you'll find true love eventually.  It might take another 50-1000 incarnations though!

Hope This Helps!

Thank you! I so fucking needed that right now!