This is the premier review site on the net. I don't always agree with the way they do things, hence my comment about being rebellious...
But as far as you're concerned, do you place ads on your local TER board? How often? Do you post a lot, but not too much to sound pushy, putting yourself out there on this board as well as your local one?
You know, a lot of guys aren't just attracted to a lady's 'outer' beauty. They dig the inner one as well, meaning, the wit and sense of humor that a lady might display when she posts on the boards.
I'm not sure what you have to offer besides what I could read on your profile if I had VIP, but it sounds like you're concerned and serious about your business, which is good. But you gotta have fun, also, or it'll seem too much like work and not fun anymore then that'll show up eventually. Know what I mean?
Just my dos centavos, and you're more than welcome to tell me I'm full of shit.
my clients to review me on TER? or get more TER reviewers to see me? I have like umm 302 reviews on ANOTHER local northern calif review site but for some reason I dont get reviewed on this site, even though I do want to
advice?
It is a no-no to offer something in exchange for a review. Guys naturally want to help the lady, so you might as well ask. I'm sure they won't object if you show your appreciation at the next date.
Sometimes offering a discount to guys with more than 3 TER reviews gives them a hint.
So I'll just say out loud for everyone else to see.
Do you meet guys from TER? Why don't you just ask them to review you? And if you have already, why not?
Seriously, are you hurting for biz? You have 300+ reviews on another site so it sounds like you're busy enough...
But I can understand that someone might want reviews here, or write them here. In my limited experience, and total sense of being a self righteous asshole, I took another stance. I don't need, nor want, clarification in what or whom I set my mind to do. But that's just me.
If I was you, and it was that important to you, ask the guys to write one for you. And if they say no, ask them why not. You never know unless you ask. Then you can get a better feeling on who you want to market yourself to and why.
ok because I like TER guys and it is a better clientele and I dont see enough of them because they dont know about me I think because I dont have get many reviews? Sure I get clients from the other site but they are not the same.... well you know what I mean>?
This is the premier review site on the net. I don't always agree with the way they do things, hence my comment about being rebellious...
But as far as you're concerned, do you place ads on your local TER board? How often? Do you post a lot, but not too much to sound pushy, putting yourself out there on this board as well as your local one?
You know, a lot of guys aren't just attracted to a lady's 'outer' beauty. They dig the inner one as well, meaning, the wit and sense of humor that a lady might display when she posts on the boards.
I'm not sure what you have to offer besides what I could read on your profile if I had VIP, but it sounds like you're concerned and serious about your business, which is good. But you gotta have fun, also, or it'll seem too much like work and not fun anymore then that'll show up eventually. Know what I mean?
Just my dos centavos, and you're more than welcome to tell me I'm full of shit. ![]()
lol j/k
I post on the local ads about once a month, I am not all about business I love fun too but I have posted here to talk and get to know guys then get reemed for posting too many questions! ack! a lady cant win
I've decided to stick to the boards to find date, it's allot more fun, you get a peek at the girls personality and the ones I've met on the boards are generally more fun and engaging than the providers I've met that don't post at all. Also, my last three dates offered discountS to TER members with reviews. VIP has it's privileges !
I'd agree that it doesn't hurt to ask. I find that if I ask 10 clients, maybe one will actually write it. I think most guys are busy or lazy or want to keep the experience private. Others dont want to piss off their ATF, etc.
A VERY small percent of men will voluntarily write one without you asking or review every woman they see.
I'm fairly new to the hobby, and have a small handful of white-listings. But, an equal number (or more) have promised them, but never followed through. C'est la vie, I guess!
i white list any guy who deserves it and asks me!
well you at least wrote ONE
Folks may be writing reviews but it may not get published for numerous reasons, only TER knows. It is also quite time consuming process so, people get fed up of wasting time writing and not getting published.
You can always put url for the S.Cal review board on your web site
Tour to an area that only or mostly uses TER. Somewhere that no other site is really available.
If you don't want to go on tour then simply just ask everybody you see in your follow-up email. (If you send one) For every 10 guys you ask at least 2 will write a review.
What seems to be a very clear request from a female perspective will often seem to be just a vague allusion or expression of general sentiment from a male perspective.
So the best way to get reviews is to explicitly ask.
"I don't have many reviews on TER ..." is not asking.
"I wish more guys reviewed me on TER ..." is not asking.
"Guys just don't seem to review me as much as I'd like ..." is not asking.
"If you enjoyed our session PLEASE REVIEW ME ON TER, I would really appreciate it!" is asking!
"What? I knocked your socks off? I curled your toes? You've never had a better session? That's great! But it would really help me a lot if you would PLEASE SAY THAT IN A REVIEW ON TER! Thank you in advance!" is asking.
The single best way to get what you want from someone is to ask. It is no guarantee, but doing so raises the odds of the preferred outcome dramatically.
Some will and some won't ..
No harm is asking....
Since I became a TER member, I've written a review of every session I've had.
The only review I wrote that was rejected was for a provider I saw in San Francisco. Unfortunately, the only place she advertises is on a site that is a competitor to TER, so I couldn't put a link to her ad in the review (I'm guessing it's the same site you're already on).
My area has a severe shortage of reviewed providers, so I rely heavily on providers who travel here.
I generally won't see a provider who doesn't already have reviews, although I'm considering doing a few TOFTTs with some of the providers who advertise consistently on my local backpage with consistent phone numbers and pictures.
Because some providers get upset if they read that the client is seeing other girls. Crazy, but that's how it goes...
I have gotten a lot more requests as of late from women I have seen in the past to write a review. Not sure why that is. Is it because business is really slow?
no but I definitely love the TER clientele just a WEE bit more lol and you get more TER clients by more TER exposure.. i.e ... reviews
Wow, that really is crazy. I kind of like the fact that, when I see a provider, it's basically out in the open that we're both fucking other people. I even like talking to providers about other providers I've seen and other hobbyists they've seen. Getting shit for fucking other people sounds way too much like marriage.
of messing them up by trying to influence future ones in your favor, imho.
thanks guys.... I was just worried because MOST of them were from when I was more active on her that guys would be like WTF?