I am sure as long as there is no mortgage attached, you should do just fine with this kind of offer. If this idea works well, you could try bartering with a new car next.
I think she'd be pretty upset if she found out that the property was auctioned for taxes the day after she moved in.
Thanks for your help.
Seriously, I have a prostitute who wants to barter my time and expertise in exchange for her time and expertise. What's the protocol?
Posted By: GaGambler
I am sure as long as there is no mortgage attached, you should do just fine with this kind of offer. If this idea works well, you could try bartering with a new car next.
...I don't want to pay for it once I got it free and the hooker in question wanted to go back and charge me for future sessions, less the normal negotiated rate of course.
Oh, don't get me wrong, Jack still crushed it like he normally does but prying that dough out of my wallet the next session with her is kinda like paying for that 13th roll in a bakers dozen.
I am sure you understand.
There are programs out there that have barter dollars. Many businesses offer this as well. I've never used it as the options to use the barter dollars was too limited for my use.
The prostitute charges 600/hr and I want a 2 hour. So I look at what she needs/wants from me and it's about 2400 that I would charge someone else. So I've offered that she do 2 sessions with me as an even exchange. She has agreed to do so.
I could just send her a bill for my time/expertise as well. And she can pay me cash. Then I would just give it to her. But why do all that when a simple barter works the same.
I have seen her before this. I will see her after this. We're adults.
Posted By: JackDunphy
...I don't want to pay for it once I got it free and the hooker in question wanted to go back and charge me for future sessions, less the normal negotiated rate of course.
Oh, don't get me wrong, Jack still crushed it like he normally does but prying that dough out of my wallet the next session with her is kinda like paying for that 13th roll in a bakers dozen.
I am sure you understand.
Ive got a gal right now I do "honey doo" fixes for her at her house. I'm the handyman and she's my FWB. works out well for both of us.
Posted By: bbfs4ever
There are programs out there that have barter dollars. Many businesses offer this as well. I've never used it as the options to use the barter dollars was too limited for my use.
The prostitute charges 600/hr and I want a 2 hour. So I look at what she needs/wants from me and it's about 2400 that I would charge someone else. So I've offered that she do 2 sessions with me as an even exchange. She has agreed to do so.
I could just send her a bill for my time/expertise as well. And she can pay me cash. Then I would just give it to her. But why do all that when a simple barter works the same.
I have seen her before this. I will see her after this. We're adults.
Posted By: JackDunphy
...I don't want to pay for it once I got it free and the hooker in question wanted to go back and charge me for future sessions, less the normal negotiated rate of course.
Oh, don't get me wrong, Jack still crushed it like he normally does but prying that dough out of my wallet the next session with her is kinda like paying for that 13th roll in a bakers dozen.
I am sure you understand.
whom i met on sa,
he is a top business consultant in the country with multiple books published about the business strategy. He helps me with my civie businesses, and i keep him entertained. We play chess, watch the Game of Thrones, once in a while we have oral fun. If i ever need money, i know i can call him up any time.
The thing with bartering is that you have to have established trust for it to happen. If she does not know you that well, she might not agree unless you uphold you part of the bargain first. Once you do your part of the bargain, she may refuse to put out.
That's pretty much my situation. I've known this prostitute for a few years now. I can't imagine why she would not fulfill her end of the barter.
I'm not into chess anymore. And I know that isn't her strength either. But she's a sweetheart and I enjoy spending time with her.
I would be very very surprised if she ever called me to hit me up for money. That would be a bummer. I'd have to move on if any prostitute ever did that to me. Friends don't borrow money from friends. They become gifts that are never ever repaid. And often destroy any trust that had been built up.
I would pay someone for sex if they needed money however. Loans in this world are rarely, if ever repaid. Kind of like making a loan to a family member. Best to just make a gift of it.
Posted By: octavia.lexa
whom i met on sa,
he is a top business consultant in the country with multiple books published about the business strategy. He helps me with my civie businesses, and i keep him entertained. We play chess, watch the Game of Thrones, once in a while we have oral fun. If i ever need money, i know i can call him up any time.
The thing with bartering is that you have to have established trust for it to happen. If she does not know you that well, she might not agree unless you uphold you part of the bargain first. Once you do your part of the bargain, she may refuse to put out.
I never called up for money for my Fwb...chill...I gave him plenty of sex that if I ever need anything he will help
She hasn't asked me for money for a few years now and we have had plenty of sex. She will spend several days with me at times. Yes, I have given her money in the past, and yes I met her as a paying customer, but she quit charging me years ago. Like you though, she knows if she needs an ace in the hole, I am here for her. The fact that she hasn't hit me up for money for years now kind of proves she doesn't look at me as just an ATM.
Anyone knows anything about Jack knows he doesn't do anal, he doesn't pay to watch hookers sleep and he DOESNT do "books." LOL
Said she was a psychology student, I think she only told me this because I asked, after one night she mentioned something about school in the morning, I was just making sure she wasn't refering to HS.
... is there some kind of standard operating procedure manual these young ladies receive?
That was all the proof I needed that she was at least in the 13th grade. 
Jack will do incall for the dorm sex, but not the outcall for the conjugal visit sex. 
It was obvious to her you were mentally challenged. She was reaching to get you help. You blew it.
I'll have to check in with Tobi and Hotplants to be certain, but I am pretty sure we are back to RA-tard. 
And if we aren't, I don't think either will quibble when it comes to Fat Vern. LOL
What will "those" retards dream up next?
I wanted to reach out and slap the dope who was talking about micro aggressions.
Anyhow I always like the RRR label, who ever uses it can't help but look a fool.
yes
i am in similar situation)people who have met know more than once know that $ is not the important to me
i have come to realize not that long ago, while money provides security and stability and sexual pleasures and attention of others, the ultimate happiness is when you find the right person to love and to be loved by ...
Posted By: GaGambler
She hasn't asked me for money for a few years now and we have had plenty of sex. She will spend several days with me at times. Yes, I have given her money in the past, and yes I met her as a paying customer, but she quit charging me years ago. Like you though, she knows if she needs an ace in the hole, I am here for her. The fact that she hasn't hit me up for money for years now kind of proves she doesn't look at me as just an ATM.
What is it with providers and lawyers, why do they seem to always be in some legal trouble?
but it seems that many providers are always in need of legal council .
Why is that?
a.) If they screen properly they aren't going to need a criminal defense attorney.
b.) If they aren't facing any criminal charges, why are they involved with so many other legal issues?
Just my preference I don't like to mix money if anything I'll pay for the service. I feel cheap exchanging services for sex. Don't think so. But that's just me.
The mere fact that you're on the board seeking counsel indicates that you've thought out the likely downsides of such a proposition. I have an ATF who found herself in need of what I'll refer to as 4 hours of services that I could provide. The twist is that we've become a sort of friends off-hobby, though definitely not FWB. Other than the not-insubstantial benefits of comaraderie (spelling?). We've been careful to respect the boundaries, and work through the meaning of that on an ongoing basis. It's actually ridiculously simple: boner = $.
Anyway, her approach to the situation was, "I pay for stuff I need, people pay me for stuff I sell". A totally workable approach, and I respect that she understands it with such clarity. In our case, both of us 'did without'. And we're still friends off the clock, & lovers on the clock. Repeatedly.
You already know what to do.
for a date. His idea is brilliant, get a $200 coat on sale and then use it to pay for a dinner date package. I wonder if that means that the lady has to pay for the entire meal since she is getting a $700 coat, or something in that order. If it works for him, I am thinking of making the rounds at thrift shops so that I can pay in coats, shoes, used brassieres, the possibilities are endless...
We barter my service for her service. It worked out for about 6 months and she stopped working and we stopped the barter. If it work for the both of you it's great !!!
I have a provider friend who bartered her services for the services of one of her clients. It worked well for both parties and they were both happy with the situation.
