I came across provider on TER (will remain anonymous), young, independent, full service including Greek.  
My concern is for her safety: I reached out and inquired about a date.  She had no system of verification, reference checks, nothing.  

and if you did, did you tell her your concerns about screening?

six-your-old that wants to show everyone in the room the new toy he pulled out of the cereal box.  

1) no, I did not end up scheduling yet, had to postpone a couple weeks due to logistics;
2) sorry for your misunderstanding, I wasn't admonishing the anonymous young woman;
3) I'm reaching out to our community in an attempt to help out a young woman. As we both know, I do not have expert opinions or a wealth of experience to offer.
4) can you recommend a website for general safety tips for the hobby?  Somewhere it's written: "screen potential clients"..

The one who is so proud about the "poopy he just made" lol

validation from the "community" in order to help out a provider that is doing something dangerous?  I help out a lot of providers, mostly by PM, but I don't feel the need to come here and get permission first.  If you're that much of a wimp that you can't just tell her, then PM her name and I'll tell her for you.  Jeesh!  Get a pair!

I connected with a young provider via TER offering full service, including Greek.  She has no screening procedure, nothing at all.  As a hobbyist, I'm concerned for the young lady's safety and well being.

...lol, I did tell her.  Told her I thought screening was something she should do to protect herself, etc.., she said thank you, etc...

A board that you should most definitely start READING, but not on which you should be making admonishing OPs.

Lousy Point: "Leave the advice-giving to the veterans".  Lousy because I wasn't giving advice of any kind, not here.  If you still have your panties up in a bunch over my post from last week, I don't know what to tell you, get help man....

Then date only guys who are members there, because they've already been screened by that site.  She should limit herself to guys with at least 4 or 5 OKs, meaning they've been seen by that many other P411 girls who can vouch for them as being safe.

Just how do you know you didn't unknowingly give her enough info to screen you?

That makes sense, it being against TER policies to list competing sites on the discussion thread.  Was hoping there was a magical bible out there with the 10 commandments: 1) use a condom; 2) screen potential clients;...

Thanks JakeFromStateFarm, much appreciated.  Any idea if there's somewhere I can direct her to?  A website, discussion thread, etc...that simply states, "providers should screen clients?"  

Don't thank that smug douchebag... He is not here to help anyone. You ever notice he knows everything, about everything?!?

How has this denigrated to the position it is now at? Why can't people just SOMETIMES assume that the lines they are trying to read between are less important that what is actually there!

I actually have a lot more than that if I want to.  

Thank you Camille.  I may book with her in a couple weeks, and she may be comfortable then.  Just thought I'd reach out to get opinions on screening procedures, I'm thinking of safety

Is about a girl you haven't even seen yet?  WHO has too much time in their hands?

I secretly wish I was Asian in my mid-sixties with a make believe life - LOL

1) yes, I do have too much time on my hands, and should spend it more wisely moving forward
2) how about you?  Is this a good way for You to spend your time?
3) I mentioned 4 hours ago, when you were active on the this thread, I had not booked with her
4) No, this is not about a girl I haven't met.  It's a general concern for provider/hobbyist safety.  I think that's a worthwhile topic for us to discuss as a community.

and isn't your turn to tell us another "I seduced a provider by NOT fucking her" story?

How long have you building your "character" on these boards? You really think you have "enemies", "friends" and "frenemies" here on the TER "Discussion Boards"? That whole concept seems absurd to me.  

can i come and play in the sandbox too??

did not denigrate to an all out shit show. I probably would not read them.

Sure, come ion in, have some fun.  You know what?  Since I'm feeling friendly, I'll even cut you a deal: I'll waive the admission fee, if you find me, preferably Boston but anywhere will do,  an 18 y/o spinner shorter than 4'9' and skinny who likes Greek travels!

Did you give her a number registered to you or your wife? If you did there are ways to get all your personal information down to where you went to high school. There are tons of way to screen.

So please forgive Conan when he points out that your use of "denigrated" is incorrect.  Denigrate means to speak ill of.  Conan believes you meant to say "deteriorated," which means, er, went to shit.  LOL.
Keep Calm and Carry On.

Nobody was arguing with GaGambler.  

Though, I don't recall saying you were arguing with anyone. Tankbinding though is trying to undermine  sound information. I was just pointing out while an asshole as Tankbinding pointed out, GaGambler was correct.

Whatever happened to inicky....

I didn't comment at all the nonsense you speak of - not undermining anyone's genius post about cell phones...

spotty of the year award or what?

Yum.

I take the threat providers face seriously, I'd hate to find out she got hurt, or wound up dead.  

GaGambler is a complete asshole. I am not defending his numerous personality flaws nor the aggressive nature in many of his posts. But just stating he had a legitimate point. I am defending his point not the asshole it came from.

Busted. It was late and now it's early. I'm crap at a lot of things when I'm over tired if it doesn't involve kissing 😜

I'm asking for it.  I have to believe there is a place she can go where someone will tell her, "you should screen clients before making an appointment."  

I don't disagree with you at all - what's this thread about anyway?!?

Yes they would be crazy not to extensively screen. Some suggestions:
1. Colleague Referrals (TER Whitelist, P411 OK's etc.). Don't forget to personally connect with previous providers to get the between the lines info.
2. Leverage Screening Services that allow newbies to give work and personal info safely.
3. Establish a rapport with potential clients through email communication to make sure they are a "good fit" (I never understood providers thinking this is a waste of time as I think it could be a critical safety consideration).
4. Have a Bad-Ass pimp on hand to put a hurting on any assholes that slip through 1-3 (*Remember GrandpaGambler has a tricked out walker that fires Ruffie darts, tear gas and ninja stars), so tell your pimp to be careful with him)...

I began this thread sharing my story.  I contacted a provider, listed on TER with 1 review, and inquired about a date.  I started by giving her my TER info, I'm white-listed, and she didn't know what I was talking about.  She explained she didn't have a screening process...

I spend about an hour a day total here.  Its my entertainment.  

JakeFromStateFarm, CamilleUK, SashaBenjamin, and now yourself are the only ones who actually responded to the thread in a meaningful way.

When Jake and Camille find out you're putting them in the same class as SashaB and Tank, there will be hell to pay.  Just sayin.

I'm just here to give a few of my favourites shit for being such pompous know-it-all pricks...

No.  
There are No "Shoulds".
Each girl runs their business as they see fit.

You assume too much and you should be concerned about her being young for you own sake.

Think about this:

Years ago I researched a provider honestly can't recall who it may have even been. We must have exchanged emails, email had a first and last name. First and last name came back to a FB page with a pic of her and a BF.  

Remember that one review? The board seems to love shit reviews.  

Once a provider shows you a boyfriend photo, its hard to fuck her without seeing that face in your mind.  We ALL lost interest in that situation.