Surfing around some porn, I came across  sites called Sexually Broken and Sex & Submission, which places women in bondage, often some rather elaborate rope setup or a bizarre purpose-built contraption designed to immobilize the women while exposing her pussy and/or ass for use.  The women are then teased, vibrated, penetrated with dildos, fucked, etc. to the point of exhaustion.  

She is a sub through and through.

I like to watch but, HECK NO you ain't gonna get me to do that EVER

As a lifestyle player and professional BDSM practitioner, I have found enjoyment in both having these experiences and helping people experience some activities akin to this.  But please note that why people partake in these activities isn't always for enjoyment, and what you see on kink.com websites like Sexually Broken and Sex and Submission are incredibly well orchestrated scenes that have about a million safeguards in place to keep those women safe and uninjured. Also do realize that specific riggings, poses, camera angles, and staging choices are made specifically TO BE APPEALING to said viewer.  Being suspended in the air in some massively complicated rope pattern isn't comfortable, and certainly often not enjoyable in and of itself. It's porn, after all.  The main focus of any shoot is to make it appealing to the viewer so the product gets sold.  

I know those two site and they are beautifully done for the viewer.
Many women enjoy being "restrained" with instruction not to move her hands or very light restraint with easy to undue cuffs or some enjoy real restraints (but using comfortable padded cuffs and collars,) when these restraints are coupled with specific things you know gets that person very excited (a vibrator used in just such a way or oral sex done just so or whatever combination does it for her and also coupled with some denial, (slowing and stopping as you feel her get excited) and being finally brought to climax after asking over and over to "be allowed" to cum.
Many women like verbal "abuse" i.e. as she is trying to control her climax being told what a naughty girl she is or what a slut she is or that she is you slave--depending in what turns her on.
I do find that no matter how light or heavy the lady likes it, words of deep affection and praise and physical affection after climax makes the experience richer.
There are a small group of women who go for much different and more "severe" treatment, tho the after love is still important.

I've shot for Sex and Submission before and had a blast shooting for them.  I'm a natural sub and have had a vast amount of experience with bondage and other forms of BDSM in both porn and my personal life. The differences between a BDSM scene in real life and a BDSM scene in porn is:
- many times in porn you don't have the emotional aftercare that is needed as a sub
- the positioning for sex in porn is not what you would experience during sex in your personal life and occasionally isn't as pleasurable as sex in your personal life (that isn't to say that porn sex isn't still pleasurable despite the odd positions)
- the "stop and go" in porn BDSM scenes can really screw with being in subspace
- during a porn scene you are normally surrounded by at least two people (director, cameraman, etc.) that aren't interacting with you as part of the BDSM play scene (though I rarely notice them when the cameras are rolling)

I doubt any of the porn is real, but many of the women I've dated IRL have asked to be tied up. It's all good, healthy, fun.

enjoyment of physical pleasure, and enjoyment of physical pain.  Both are possible.

Agree - for subs sometimes it's about pleasing more than our own pleasure... but if a trusted and enthusiastic person considers my comfort when restraining me, it can be awesome. If comfort is not considered, it's more of a game of pain at that point, and then you'd need more of a masochist than I am to "enjoy" it or want it for more than 5 mins!

I've got to get my ass out to Phoenix

I think you may know Bob.

As the female half of this couple, i am LOVING it.....just ordered new rope kit as well as some different types of restraints, hubby is in awe of me!!!! Lol. I have always been the submissive one so being even more so is such a HUGE turn on. But to each their own.

Over the years I've had plenty of fun with women who were interested in being played with such as what you've described.  My favorite types over the years were the strippers who were young, hot and really flexible.  And since they didn't see that scene as prostitution, they were OK with it.

I have put 40 providers (submissive) in various restraints for pleasure bondage. Chaining them to the bed is a regular thing that I do with regulars. Some let me ballgag them and blindfold them. I use spreader bars to spread out the ankles and wrists. It is funny to see the reaction they cum and can't move, lots of screaming a good reason to use the gag. The first position is forced missionary where the ankles and wrists are locked together. The 2nd position is chained lapdoggie style. If the provider is into greek, I will fuck them in the ass while chained to the bed. I also have hair clips to pin up the hair, that makes it lot easier to put the ballgag with out the hair interfering during the restraint process. I do that after putting on the blindfold. I ask them to open the mouth and slip the ballgag in quickly. The gag is lockable. I don't twist the nose like they do in the BDSM films to stuff the gag in the mouth.

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Let's see....we know you're Chicken Little.  So how do you bring all those spreader bars to her incall?  And since we also know you always bring all the used condoms with you when you leave, how do you carry all that stuff?

I have some suitcases for my equipment. One time at the airport I had to rearrange stuff because of the 50 lb per bag checkin limit.

Because it is.

Some for short appointments, other for those appointments that last a week (suitcase with rollers).  It is always fun the see the inspected by TSA tags when I get in the hotel room. I get a laugh about what they must be thinking. I have small gopro tripods and a larger tripod for filming the activity for those providers who let me make a video of the session.

Maybe the next time we meet.  

...with the right person/chemistry.  I'm really a masochist/ painslut but I'll do what I'm told no matter what.  Love to be pushed in this manner