I hope my id speaks for itself. i have been with PE (Premature Ejaculation) for sometime now, and being small adds more to the embarrassment.

Other than surgery, could you please suggest the best ways to at least increase my penis size.
I am not sure if there is any cure for PE, but if there is please suggest me. I had tried pills, lotions and all kind of stuff to hold on longer, but nothing works.
Seeing all the beautiful ladies out there and the feeling that i will not be able to do anything about it - makes me feel low and wasted.

Please guys, help me out.

You have a PM.

I don't imagine you'll find an answer to any one of these problems in a box, tube, or pill.  I also don't imagine that you will be happy until you accept your body and who you are.  Premature ejaculation is in your head.  Men can overcome it, but I would expect sexual therapy and tantra to be better solutions for you.

Read Beverly Fisher's rants.

I hear a lot of conflicting stories. Some women say size does matter, and others swear that size DOES matter.

Isn't size important though? a 6" weener is long enough to hit the female's G-spot (or so I thought).

Either way, when you see a provider.. it's not really her job to judge the size of your weenie. With that in mind, you shouldn't feel too uncomfortable.

Thanks for sharing my rants, hungry... yer sweet! There's definitely something about penis size there... and, digging deeper, about PE too.

But some quick thoughts about helping prevent and working with PE:

1. Practice working your PC muscles. This is helpful for sexual control and pleasure for men, just as much as for women. Easiest way to practice (though it may seem silly)... when urinating, force yourself to stop the stream. Then start again. Then stop, then start. Practice every time you go to the bathroom. See how many times you can start and stop, make it a game.

2. Once you get an understanding of that sensation, of clenching those muscles, you can practice all day long, in your car, in your chair at work. NO, for all the smarty-pants guys out there, he's doing this part *without* urinating.

3. After you get pretty good at all that, hang a t-shirt or a towel on your erect penis and do "sit-ups." Raise and lower the towel using your muscles. Nothing too heavy!!!

4. Meditate. Focus on your breathing, breathe in through the nose, out through the mouth, very gently. Let all other thoughts flow past you, like you are a rock in a stream.

Once you're feeling very relaxed and focused, begin to imagine that the energy in your body, the blood flowing through your veins, is all white light. Now imagine that all of that light is flowing directly into your groin. All of your energy flows down into your groin area.

Now imagine that energy in a ball of light in your groin area... and then move that ball of energy up your body, into your chest, into your head. Imagine slowly, gently moving it back and forth. Imagine slowly letting it flow out your fingertips or toes.

The idea is that when you are able to distance yourself, mentally, from this energy, you are able to visualize controlling it, moving it, shifting it to other places.

When you combine practice with the physical PC muscles, and the mental muscles, eventually you reach a place where it feels very natural and easy to do these things. And as you become more aware of your arousal beginning to peak, you are able to distance yourself from the sensation enough to use those physical and mental muscles to begin to exert more control over your orgasmic response.

There's a great book called "The Multi-Orgasmic Man" which has some wonderful insight and exercises.

Good luck, and don't give up!
xxxooo
Beverly ;-*