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inicky46 61 Reviews 284 reads
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His situation re not wanting an employment check is understandable.  So, yes, it sucks to be him, but for an entirely different reason.  It sucks to be ass-calade because he's a monumental tool.

escalade19641765 reads

Escalade,

What do you do for a living?

Does this question many seem to always ask have an impact on your date?

Your thoughts if any?

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inicky46475 reads

and I never have.  But you, who claim to be so sensitive to the needs of providers, fail to realize they need to do what's necessary to feel safe, and that's one way to do it.  No two girls screen exactly the same way. Feeling safe is their right.  They are about to get in the same room with someone bigger and stronger.  And it's your right not to provide that info and move on.  It's really pretty simple.  I have found plenty of ways to offer them enough information so they are comfortable seeing me and have never been turned down.  And it's really not that hard.

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escalade1964451 reads

I was talking about after they have fucked my brains out. LOL

But thank you so very fucking much for the security lesson.

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inicky46414 reads

You are really consistent.  Always a tool.

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Dr Who revived362 reads

And from what I hear you're not that bigger or stronger than most hookers.

But who knows to what extremes a stalker will go to to get his prey!

Posted By: escalade1964
I was talking about after they have fucked my brains out. LOL  
   
 But thank you so very fucking much for the security lesson.
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inicky46368 reads

Oh, fuck!  He really did that.  What a putz.

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PenleyDuke320 reads

But I ask almost everyone I happen to have a conversation with.  Yesterday I met a school teacher and a train mechanic. These are non~hobby guys that were in line at dunkin donuts. I am in Boston A LOT and see these guys 4-5 days p wk. We have talked about random bs a few times. So what's the harm in asking?

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scoed318 reads

Posted By: escalade1964
Escalade,  
   
 What do you do for a living?  
   
 Does this question many seem to always ask have an impact on your date?  
   
 Your thoughts if any?
But I know my boss is a dirty old monger (me). LOL As far as it effecting my dates, well one lady successfully bartered an exchange for goods and services, and a few opened up because I was so forthright with whoI was. I get most can't afford to be as open as I am. Sucks to be you.

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inicky46285 reads

His situation re not wanting an employment check is understandable.  So, yes, it sucks to be him, but for an entirely different reason.  It sucks to be ass-calade because he's a monumental tool.

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AlexandraMilw371 reads

After screening and such (P411 doesn't disclose what you do)...

I typically ask "What do you roughly do for a living"... why? Because it makes great conversation and for me, it is interesting. Any guy that doesn't want to say, no big deal. Never happened though. I like learning new things. You guys always ask me personal things ... Do you do anything beyond this? What types of jobs have you had? Any children etc. All sorts of things being asked about me. So I only feel it is fair.  

I don't do it for digging on your personal life, but rather great conversation. I don't ask where you work but rather what type of work.  

I loved talking to a Doctor. I have the brains for that career but not the stomach/heart. So to me it is interesting.

Personal favorite? Talking with the Lawyers. I can hold my own reasonably with them. I missed my calling :D

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anonymousfun287 reads

who gives fuck? Most Large companies use 3rd party for employment verification. I don’t see a problem with it.

Don’t believe any reputable providers is going to call you HR and  

“ I am an escort and I have request from Joe Blo for date, does he work there?" "Is he safe to see?”. If you work for a small company, different issue altogether.

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inicky46287 reads

Right.  Hookers aren't that dumb.  They call the switchboard and say it's some dentist's office reminding you of an appointment.

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WondersOfTheWrld248 reads

truly what you do, I'm sure, but they're trying to come up with things to say so there's not uncomfortable silence for you after the sex. Also some guys say they like conversational escorts, so they're making conversation. I would just tell them a) something fake if you don't want to discuss what you do. If you've always wanted to be a doctor, go for it! b) the general field you work in OR c) that you'd rather not talk about such trivial matters and would rather have your lips on hers like NOW...pull her close to you and have fun!

-- Modified on 6/19/2013 6:52:53 PM

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