Here is a different type of question.  What about guys that want to enter the business?  Especially in the Los Angeles area.  

Here's my situation.   I am always called a 'nice guy' by ladies.  Due to having owned a business and military commitments, I have not had a ton of success in meeting women.  Yet I truly enjoy the company of women of all types.    

While I would love to be a hobbist, the difficulty in getting ahead of the money curve here in LA prevents this.  I would love to trade photography for even time talking, but I don’t want to come across as a cheap SOB.  (I’ve done photography professionally for over 8 years)  I understand the value of time and won’t insult someone by suggesting such an exchange.  (THEY can suggest it)

Lurking for some time, I've read many of the threads for new providers and am coming to understand the some of the difficulties.  

So, what about a guy looking to enter the business?  Where would a guy start, since TER does not have male providers.  Or is this just a fantasy that I should lock up?  

Here’s throwing myself out here to the group for thoughts and suggestions.  

PM me and I can provide more information, etc.  

Thanks
David

Well I saw an male escort's ad on citysource. I don't think there are many male escorts outthere, but I do know some that combine with other female escorts as a couple...

just dreaming.

I know a few men who do this.  From what I know, there are two main clienteles in search of men.

One, other men.  If you're bi or bicurious, this is hands down the easiest and most lucrative route.  Men I know who do this, can make as much as the ladies.  It is pretty simple to advertise in gay papers.  From what I understand, the advertisement can get blatent with little or no interference from LE.  

Two, older, financially secure women.  Would you be able to charming and perform with enthusiasm for a less than attractive woman in her 50s?  Not to say there aren't some that are younger and attractive, but if you're serious about this, you need to know if you can perform for someone more typical of the clientele.  As a man, you can't exactly fake your performance.  Especially if you're requested to do so multiple times, and trust me, that will happen.

In terms of how to approach these women...the men I know who do this regularly are exotic dancers/strippers so it's easy for them to find clientele.  They also advertise in local papers..although that seems to attract men too, just as an FYI.  One I know is something of a golfer and approaches women at a country club in a very discreet fashion.  I don't know how he does this, but it seems to work for him.  That is obviously riskier, but he is a very charming and good looking guy, so he makes it work.

a male entering into the business would have to see men as clients

for the most part, women do not pay for this service, although a few do, it is rare

I actually have a ex boyfriend who is GORGEOUS and women throw themselves at him, I wanted to try to get him in the business, but the only people who answered the ads were men

a) provide for men
b) provide for extremely unattractive women

Your dreams of becoming a provider are exactly that, "a dream". I don't mean to be harsh, but WTF, you can't even get laid for free, how do you expect to get paid for it?

Unless you want to spend all your time eating the pussies of old fat women, I would suggest you put your energies into either improving your game or increasing your income.

even extremely unattractive women and old fat women can get laid EASIER than any man on any day

any kind of woman can walk into any bar with a short skirt on and yell "I need to get laid" and have 4-5 drunk men standing in line to DO her

You need to work in the right place.  My first summer after graduation from high school I work at a summer resort in the Catkills Mountains where young families would go for a week vacation. During the weekdays (M-F) the husbands would return in NYC leaving their young wives alone with the kids.  Several of us bus boy and waiters made more money servicing these ladies than we did busing tables.  Since we would see these ladies in the dining room 3 times a day we could screen out the ones that we were not attracted to. Thanks to these ladies I paid for my first year of college.

According to a recent study (http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/uk/science/article5537017.ece) a woman experiences more orgasms depending upon the size of her male partner's bank account. Sorry, but it is true.

Obviously, this doesn't apply to *all* women -- some may even have a fetish for (for example) struggling artists and stuff. But, realistically, being too strapped to afford $200-$300 likely translates to women not having orgasms and thus not being satisfied with your service. (It also translates to cuckoldry. 10% of babies born to married couples are the product of the woman cheating. Almost all female cheating is with a man of perceived higher status than her husband.)

If you've got a hot body; and especially given your past military experience, I'd recommend offering your services as a personal trainer as a side job. It probably won't get you lucky; but it will give you the extra $$ needed while keeping you in shape.

I do stand behind my actual point however. The OP is delusional at best. lol

Depending on what part of the country you set up shop in....If you are bi-sexual, gay, or gay for pay you will make a ton of money, your phone will never stop ringing.

If you are very straight with no chance of you ever allowing a man to touch you intimately...you may want to look for a Sugah Momma.

Seeing couples is a rare thing for a guy...single men on the swing set are a dime a dozen and the next 5 dozen are free....

Getting a female bi-sexual provider to work with you is a money maker as well.

They wear dresses and snap their fingers a lot.

"Unless you want to spend all your time eating the pussies of old fat women"

Now there is a nightmare scenario! LOL!

Probably should change that alias too -
Like , what did you test Type A for ? LOL

I live in the real world and I know exactly what type of woman would be willing to pay for my company. I don't even find most women 15-20 years my junior attractive, I can't imagine myself servicing 50-60 yr olds. Yeech

And we'd be dipped in soup and hung out to dry..

hahaha
I didnt mean "every "
My bad -

but if a guy really thought about all that it entailed, I doubt that many could deal with the realtities of the biz. My hat is off to you ladies for the very reason you mention. lol

I had a similar experience, only I was too young/naive to know I could charge.  During college (athlete and below 5% body fat), I worked summers as a teaching pro at a resort - I was hit upon by what I then considered middle age women (usually 35-45), but usually quite attractive, and succumbed to a few, - but I never thought to charge a fee, though a few regulars started scheduling two hour lessons (and at 50/hour, the rates the resort charged for my time were not cheap) and had me meet them at their rooms to start - other than tips though, it never occurred to me to charge - I was just a horny college guy

One person at work, who is nearly morbidly obese, and dumber than a block of cheese, always has some guy hanging off her.  not literally, as they are almost her size.  Yea, the thought of servicing THAT made me gargle vomit.  

But heck, I love the idea of working with someone on this.  Alas, will probably never work.  But if you never explore ideas, nothing will come of anything.  

Thanks Guys.