These kinds of posts pop up every now and then, usually when some newbie finds the board.  Most veterans here have learned that there's more to this "hobby" than the obvious. Everyone's got their own idea of a good time.  In our context, some guys want a quickie at a bargain price, some want an all-nighter and are willing to pay top dollar.  Others may want some kind of a friendship, real or imagined.As long as he's happy with what he got, I say more power to him.How does that make him stupid or a loser?  At least he's spending his money on something he wants.  While I'm inclined to think that guys who habitually go to hostess clubs or strip joints are morons, I realize that's just my own prejudice.  If they don't mind paying that amount of money for the return they get, who am I to say it's not worth it to them?And while I'm on this little roll, perhaps we should re-examine the word "provider."  Should that just mean "provider-of-sex?"  Seems like they provide a lot more than that for some of us.