Something we rarely or never discuss on this board is what providers might be working on in their personal lives...For example, I hear Jacqueline is in grad studies but I don't know what she's studying and what she intends to do when she completes her studies.

I'm curious...if some providers would care to speak. Are any of you working on your education, maybe run a side business, have a regular job, have a very interesting hobby or some particular focus of your time when you are not escorting? Anyone travel crazy? What are some of your goals? Are there any woman that are using this field to find a man to support them so they can leave the business?

Guys can respond here...the ladies that you have seen...what are they doing with your gift? Do you ever wonder?

Love, Heather

ps. If I write anything here about my goals, I will be accused of self marketing so I'll just post the question.

I own my own business, its in the real estate field.  Its very slow and nothing like I was up in northern CA.   Hence this business on the side.  I have been in the Real Estate Field for over 10 yrs. I don't like takeing orders from someone else.   So I work for myself.  I have 2 degrees and both in the real estate field.  I ended in Southern CA by way of what I did up north. I was offerd a job to Open up and run an office down here. Right after I moved down here, the gentleman that offered me the job, lost his capital to get it off the ground.  And yes I knew this man well, knew his business and have done business with him for about 5 yrs and know his wife and kids.  Wonder why I didnt move back home?  Well I'm not one of those people that run with my tail between my legs and run home.  I made a change in move my life to down here and no matter what I was going to make it work no matter what I had to do to survive.  Moved down here not knowing a sole and trust me there has been a few times that I have come very close to moving back home but I think I have finaly made Southern California my home.  And you know what?  I do like what I'm doing.  I like meeting all the different types of men and I learn new things everyday.  When I stop learning things then I will change to something else.

Hope I didn't bore you.  
Happy New Year Everyone!!

RED

Most of the ladies I have met have or are in the process of acquiring their Realtors License. The donations us clients give them will be and has been used to acquire properties for resale, rent and live in purposes.

Others are using it for paying for their Online and Regular Education as I was told. Some of these ladies are studying to be their own Webmasters, others are studying to be Data Base Administrators and a few others are taking Acting and Singing lessons.

The minority uses it up in cloths, fast life, traveling and partying.

The Good Doctor
PS. Heather, I urge you to express your opinion relating to your goals in life since you are entitled too as this a "FREE" Country were Freedom Of Expression Is Still Possible.

Anyone who complains is just showing their jealousy. People who are driven and successful should not have to hide their abilities.

Most of hte ladies I see are (or claim to be) students. Some I am closer with I encourage to pay attention to their education and not to get sucked into the (easy?) money they are making now, leaving themselves eventually in a position where they have no skills and a lifestyle they cant afford. I also encourage them to save their money (defeat the dreaded marginal propensity to consume which will suck up all their cash if they dont watch it) and invest some.

One of my fav's always has a bunch of businesses she is starting. Very resourceful driven woman. Respect her lots. She wants to settle down and move to a less stressful work. She is very entreprenurial.

I've heard the "Student" thing before as well--don't always buy it though.  I think a few providers toss this about hoping to cater to their clients "co-ed" fantasies.  I've met Heather and have posted before that I wish I could make the kind of waves in my world that she makes in hers.  I too would like to hear what her goals, as well as the goals of others are.

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Certainly, the "student" thing is sometimes BS, but sometimes it's not.  A couple of the ladies I have met have been graduate students in fields related to my profession.  In the course of our conversations, it was clear that they knew enough to be graduate students in those fields.

Yeah, this one girl told me she was a student and I ended up dropping her off afterward at her school (College) with her textbooks, so I guess she was legit.

After you had given her an education no doubt...

Thanks for sharing your story Red.
I have been in this Biz for 10 mths, I feel very proud of myself for I have been able to purchase my first home( 4/bedroom 2bath), put my kids(4) back into private school, and start my company. I have taken refresher courses to upgrade my skills and market my company on the internet. I do not know how long I will be in this business........the one thing I do know is that I have met the most wonderful people. I will always be greatful to all of you who have treated me with respect and affection.
Happy New Year to all of you,
Kisses & Licks..........
Mara

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The reason it's not discussed more is, I believe, that providers don't want to publish too much about their personal lives.  Who would?  That's why most (you included) use fake names.  I think it goes both ways.  If we as customers want to guard our own privacy, we should respect the fact that the provider wants to do the same.

Maybe it's just me, but I don't particularly care to hear or know the private details about someone's life.  That's not to say that I want a session to be businesslike and impersonal, I don't.

I think giving too much information is a bad thing on both sides.  Relationships, no matter the kind, can change for the worse leaving both sides exposed.

Just my thoughts on the subject.

Since most providers ask what I do, I like to ask what do you do besides this? and sometimes if they seem comfortable how did they get started?  I would say 40% are in real estate but need a litle help, 20% are serious students at a university, community college or vocational school.  I'd say  the remaining 40% are just providers without a plan b who fell into this line of work beceause what they were doing before wasn't working out.  some are divorced or victim of lay off, tired of dead end job or boring job. and a friend or friend of a friend told them about this hobby.  Many providers are dabblers where they are constantly changing their vocation or they don't get into it enough to make aliving at it.  A few providers have jobs and just work as providers for the extra lifestyle it provides and they like to socialize and have sex with men.