Be descreet but open and honest. She will either say yes or now.... Very likely yes. If you guys got off on her, chances are fair that she got off on you.

Okay, take things SLOWLY. First, are you sure that she is interested in other women and not just turned on by the fantasy of being a stripper? It is a big question.

If you are sure she is interested, I suggest you try going back to the stripclub with your wife. If you can, try calling the club ahead of time and seeing if the same dancer would be working that night. Your wife is interested in this lady so try not to confuse the field. When you get to the club, approach the dancer where she can see your wife and hopefully remember you both, making her more comfortable. Explain to the dancer what you would like, just be circumspect so she remains comfortable. IF she is okay with it and most likely she will be, then let the ladies set the tone.

I do suggest you don't try to surprise your wife with this encounter. Actually, treat it as a date. Have her dress in a dress, that short and sexy. Have her wear sexy lingerie just as if she planned on having sex for the first time. Encourage her. Your wife needs to be very comfortable and turned on by the whole idea.

I think you will find that the public nature of the club will be more comfortable. If things become too intense for your wife she can always stop the dance and/or leave. This would be much more difficult in a private setting.

Over the years I have seen some ladies have very intense lap dances from dancers. The clubs as a rule ignore any contact between female customers and dancers as long as no one complains. Some clubs are more private in their lap dances than others. However your wife has been comfortable so far, so I suggest you stay with the setting you are in and see how things go.

Please let us know how things progress. You can always contact me by clicking on the envelope next to my name at the top of this post.

Good Luck and be very patient.