I ended up an LA strip joint last night wearing a designer suit and tie (don;t ask). I normally ignore most of the come ons for lap dances but was feeling in an especially randy mood.  So a 'girl next door' type asks me to spend some time with her and I figured, what the hell, let's see how far I can get with 150 bucks.

So I do a 30 minute VIP session with her and was pouring on the charm, telling this fresh young thing how much I wanted to be with her after hours, how much fun it would be and how if we hiot it off how much fun Vegas might be in a few weeks.  Now maybe it was the charm (right), or possibly the suit (probably) or the future cahing -- but she seemd very receptive.  But she got off at 4 am and it was only 2.  So she suggested we get together in a few nights when she's off work.  I was like, yeah, right - say anything now but she grabbed my cell and programmed her phone number in it.  I called her number right there and left mine on her service.  Then I get a call at 5 am when she got home, saying she wanted me to know she serious she was.

So we're getting together in a few nights - and we both know sex will be involved.  My question is - is this stripper expecting to get paid?  When I first mentioned finishing our lap dance after hours she jokening said - "You don't have enough money.." But it was never mentioned again.  But with the suit and the extended dance -- should I be expecting her to spring this little piece of info on me at dinner?

Anyone with experience in this arena?

The only person who would say that you have a "BodaciousBunghole" in Vegas is a Tranny or a blue-balled "Person" after this girl has taken you for all the money you have.  

Believe it or not, by wearing the designer suit you set your self up as a Mark more than the young dude who walks in without shaving in blue jeans.  All she is seeing you for is your money.  

She won't charge you money for sex because the only sex she will be having is with her otherwise unemployed bodyguard/boyfriend.  

Strippers take advantage of horny men for a living!  You can hook up with them once in a while but your odds are not too good.  

Good luck!

If you are not paying now, you will pay more later.
I'm not saying that all strippers are only about money.  I would really trust her a little bit more if you was wearing T-shirt and jeans.  also not to forget that a good stripper  is excellent on teasing skill.  ( that is how they make money without having sex with u)
I had dated two before.
First one, very cool at the begining.  Seeing her outside the club for a while, then she asked me to buy her a car.  I knew it was time for me to go.  Three years later, I saw her again in a different club.  She showed me the new car she got(a guy bought for her $45,000+), she told she did even have sex with the guy.
Second one, very nice and friendly, young and cute.  I got lucky that I saw her on the first night that she started work in the club.  Nerver asked a penny from me.  I tried to pay more on the lap dance, she won't even accept except what I own her.  Seeing her for a year, things didn't work out because I couldn't really put up with her son.
So your situation would be YMMV.  But I would hate to tell u, if u like date strippers, 1 never wear suit and tie in club, 2 never give out your money because she "sick", she "need to pay her rent", she "......"
Last word, enjoy while u can, and the head not the little one.  good luck to u.   And let us know how it goes.

BB's story is sad. His little head is taking all the blood from his big head. Like he's the first well dressed guy who's ever walked into that club or hit on that girl. BB, there are TONS of men in Southern California who make over $100k. Also, after he dropped $150 on her he might as well go get 'ATM' tattooed on his forehead - that's what he'll be to her.

That $150 (plus parking, drinks, etc...) would go a long way toward a session with one of the fine providers.

Dude just play it by ear.. yea most of the time you are a dollar sign with feet, but it depends on the girl. If she drops a bomb and asks for money you'll know wont you. The up side is most strippers wont see you outside the club, if she actually follows through, it may be because she genuinly likes you. People think strippers are all wild and crazy 24/7, Fact of the matter is I have known a bunch that just needed a friend. I know some really rightous people who just happen to strip. Give her the benifit of the doubt, at the very least- spend some time with a hot woman, nail her to the best of your ability, and if she expects to be paid without setting a price and collecting the cash up front, she will soon have to choose a new line of work cause everyone will be fucking her for free and shell be to tired to dance!
I myself am a glutton for punnishment and dont care what anybody says STRIPPERS ROCK! I date them all the time and usually end up an emotional traincrash in a mine field....but oh what a ride...
Best way to avoid getting stung is go with a provider, in the end it will cost you way less and you will get what we all want in the first place.
Lastly, a suit and an extended dance? Not trying to be a jerk or anything, but what part of that equasion says I am a Rockafeller?
If you painted yourself as the mac daddy, and your on a big mac budget, turn and run as far as you can, as fast as you can....Her name isnt summer is it? Sunset blvd? If so, leave the country and establish new Identity now to save yourself some time....Hope it goes your way

Yes you should expect to pay for her time. Offer and if it is declined then you save some cash.

i agree be a gentelman and offer it up front before things go to far. if she says no then you know she likes u for u. but don't try to get things for free nothing in life is free you pay some how.

feel free to find out for yourself ... the hard way!

This is the thing that caught my attention.  It really is not impossible to go out with a girl who happens to work as a stripper as well.  However, she set the tone of your relationship when she refused your first advances.  It seems to me that she was more interested in the trip to Vegas than you.

Yes I know I was a target with the suit-I was coming from dinner, stopped off for a drink. I'm not that niave.  What I was asking essentiually is are there stripper/esorts in LA?  If so- this girl was very very fine and I got to see her-all of her up close and personal- got a whiff of her personality - which was my type- so really, Iauiditioned someone I'dlike to spend timewith.  Am I really a sucker if I end up paying her for some fun adult time?  Is there a class struture now with hobbiests- we'reonly legit if we buy it from legit escorts?

I know one guy who actually finds the thrill of getting a stripper in a club to give him a blowjob in the VIP room even if it costs him 400 bucks.  Sure, he could have picked up a phone and called a TER approved escort and maybe in a few days after the screening process and the drive to the incall and wondering if LE is around, he'd get laid.  But isn;t the hunt part of the fun, even if it does cost a few $$?   I think it;s kind of funny that a few here say run away because a stripper will want cash and cars,etc... isn't the quest of most escorts?  Isn't that what the term "hooker" means?

I was just curious if anyone had ever had a successful escort encounter with a stripper WITHOUT paying.  If not,okay...

providers. Am earlier post suggested that you ask and then you'll know right away. I have had limited success in that arena - so I do know that it works.
good luck!

here's an example of what i mean:

http://theeroticreview.com/msgBoard/ViewMsgBody.asp?BoardID=23&Messageid=14617

I have been dating a dancer since the spring, pretty much on a weekly bases. We are usually together for 90 minutes to two hours. I pay for the hotel room, buy the champagne & pay her 500.00. She's toootally hot! It works out to 3-400 per hour. Pretty much the same rate as a provider I would say...

Did she ask or did you offer?  On the first "date"?  

Thanks

The difference is that unless something goes horribly wrong between a hobbyist and a provider, he gets 'satisfaction'. With a stripper you can go a long time and get nada. There are a lot of strippers who do not like men and enjoy draining them of cash without putting out.

Again, you thinking that wearing a suit makes you some Stud is amusing. This is LA - there is cash everywhere - if this were on the Mayberry RFD Board then you'd have a point. If she's as hot as you say, she's not sitting home alone without a date - unless she doesn't want to go out. She can put a sun dress on and go to Trader Vic's in BH and can be sitting in the passenger's seat of a Ferrari heading to a mansion in less than two hours.

Who the hell said I was in a suit to be Joe Cool?? I already stated that I was at dinner and afterwards stopped off at a strip club.  I fucking understand LA and it's shit chick dresscode - that's not what this was about.  Christ man, get your head out of ass and try and understand a post before you get your know it all red neck inflamed. I may have been wearing a suit but you've got poser wanna-be plastered all over your personna.  What's wrong, they didn't take your two for one coupon at the Sky Bar again?

Wow, calm down. From your post I'm surprised you're old enough to get in a strip club - come across as about 16. I'm hardly inflamed. More like amused. What's a "shit chick dresscode?" Interesting language you speak. I'm a 'poser'? That's funny. You're the one bragging about trying to get a super hot stripper outside of the club. If you could, you'd be too busy enjoying the fruits to post your tale on this board. I didn't say you intentionally wore the suit to look cool; just the fact that you seemed to think the suit 'elevated' you above the rest of the patrons of the club. Not everyone with wealth wears 'designer' suits.

I, like many of the other respondents, are just trying to warn you against wasting your money. As you kids say today, "whatever".

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Relax Joe Cool; no need to be offensive. YOu posted the original message and you should expect some constructive feedback. I think everyone "understood" your post, perhaps you should take time to think about what they are saying before lashing back at some of the comments made. You did afterall ASK for feedback. I dont think anyone said to you to "get your head out of your ass" when they politely and constructively shared their (sought after) opinions. [EOM]

Right from the start she stated a private or one on one dance would be 300.00, anything goes would be 500.00. When we began this in April the time was about an hour. After a few meetings it has become closer to a two hour meeting. She usually emails or text messages me about getting together now. She is a petite blonde 21 year old. She is very hot!

I never wear suit in the club, and I just could get rid of those  strippers that keep coming back.  So wearing suit in club usually made u look odd.  not a good start.  But again, anything is possible.

I used to be a stripper before I was a hooker and went home with guys for free all the time. God was I ever an idiot. If only I knew(charged for) at 21 what I know(charge for) at 31. I'd be a gazillionair!