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What's up with some escorts not taking off their underwear/dress during a session?
RKR 1322 reads
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I've had maybe 4 experiences where the girl didn't take off her underwear as we were well into the session, and had I not said anything, she would've never taken them off.  I even had one escort not take off her skirt during the session.  And again, had I not said anything, she would've went the entire session with her skirt on.  Amazing.  Only one thing comes to mind with that.  It tells me she's trying to get off easy and not have sex with me, as she figures to herself, "Well maybe he won't say anything about me keeping my underwear/skirt on and I can get away without having sex with him".



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Huh.... that IS odd.  I will occasionally keep my stockings or shoes on...okay....sometimes even my little black dress but it isn't to "get off easy"....it is to get off because I want to!
Perhaps, in my case, it has something to do with being very tactile, as I have blogged about in the past...

But the panties are coming off because I sooo plan to do unspeakable things to you down there! lol!

I don't care how it starts, but after a very few minutes she's gonna be wearing nothing but thigh-highs (and possibly a garter belt), plus stripper heels.  Guess I'm just an old-fashioned guy!

I like screwing with half clothes on, lifting skirts an shirts is hot.  Pulling underwear aside and dining, then screwing, is hot.  A lot of the ladies don't see it the same way.  Ytmv

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I enjoy the tactile variety of running my hands both over and under her clothes (tops and bottoms) while going at it.  God bless the man who invented short skirts!  And I'm not a breast guy, so I honestly don't care if I see them.  To me, the right outfit is sexier than the naked body.  Even simple stuff like a sports bra, tennis shoes, and a visor adds a solid 1.0 over pure nude, in my book.  The tennis shoes alone add 0.5 to cg.  Make it a ponytail, tennis shoes, sports bra, visor, and sunglasses propped up on the visor... in cg?!?... holy shit, where was I?... oh yeah, I'm back now, sorry...

Anyway, my point is different strokes for different folks.  The OP likes to see skin; whereas I honestly prefer the fantasy (and sensations) of being only half-naked.  But how is a girl supposed to know that?  Either she reads your mind (which some of these girls, I'm convinced, can do), or she makes a lucky guess, or you communicate and tell her.  If your preference is strong, I say just tell her.  At least it's easy for the OP... he can always say, "Take it off."  It's a little more awkward for me to say, "Put it back on."  :)

Ohh, and there's something hyper-sexy about gripping a tight fist-full of your partner's clothes during your own climax (and I've met some women who clearly agree on that one!)... much like gripping the sheets... Hot!!

The other great thing about a round of half-naked sex?... You still have something left to peel off during round 2!

(this reply unintentionally turned into my own little Tribute to Sex With Clothes On.  I guess I need more action soon...)

HalfHour148 reads

For me there is NOTHING sexy or erotic about stepping in the door and having the lady strip naked... Zzzzzzzzz. BORING!

A kiss, hug, grope, flash or whatever as a welcome is nice. But I enjoy coming in relaxing, having a drink, catching up, flirting for a HALFHOUR or so, to get the fire going.

Even then prefer, the make-out session, slow reveal, bit o' tease... The clothing being pushed aside, frantically pulled, etc. etc. is all part of the heat.

:)
HH

alias.4.her.benefit295 reads

One of my favorite girls on our first date, showed up not waering any panties, that was nice...
                                                   
                                        So happy ever since I found you
                                         
                                         just like a kid who found some candy

                                          let me feel and find your panties

                                          take em off take em off take em off

I know during role-play sessions, unless the guy requests otherwise, I will keep on the outfit.. sans panties of course, lol. There's also the article in every Cosmo, where one of the guys fantasies listed is "we were so turned on, we couldn't even get all our clothes off"... so maybe they were young, and trying to spice up the appointment.... I dunno?

...so long as i'm not wearing anything underneath (and i virtually never do)!  in fact, i've had some great impromptu experiences that way.

....they feel that your NOT going to review them anyway so WTF.

Good Luck with that !

I've done it plenty, and I see it happen all the time. The reasons to do so are numerous, but in the context of P4P I'd most often chalk it up to her having some imperfections she wants to hide, or shit, mabe she's just cold. Who knows. Don't let that stop you.  

a fifteen minute struggle to remove a gorgeous Japanese gal's panties.

Her taunt was that if I wanted them off, I'd have to fight for it, and fight I did.

We ended up in a mirthful session of indescribable ecstacy.

I saw her two more times and then she disappeared, oh cruel fate.

There's sort of a song about this from Randy Newman, a link to which appears below.

It's the best I could find, there being no studio version on You Tube.

And I f*ucked her good...the only item present was the condom, but that's a safety item none of us should have an issue with....

lilli162 reads

i have never removed my clothing for a gent without being expressly told to do so. the idea of stripping myself naked without provocation would just never occur to me. maybe it has something to do with my being submissive, or possibly with my being shy. it may also have something to do with the fact that i like aggressive sexual partners...someone who would feel too uncomfortable to even undress me for their pleasure is clearly someone with whom i'd be a bad match. fortunately i have not come across this issue in the hobby.

Your reply, from the provider perspective, is fascinating because I have similar feelings, but from the hobbyist perspective.  I deliberately wear extra clothing items, because I want my companion to take them off of me.  I love it when a woman unbuttons my shirt and unzips my pants, and I deliberately leave those tasks to her.  If I'm hobbying, then I want an aggressive lady -- since I have to be the aggressor/initiator in 100% of my civie encounters and frankly that gets boring, tiresome, and slowly erodes the ego.  (yay marriage!...)  It's a nice ego boost when the girl makes the moves, and I think many guys would agree.

I guess that is still entirely compatible with what you said, though, because the gentleman and lady can each undress the other.

I think they expect YOU to unwrap the presents.
But it may also be practical. Some women are paranoid and expect to have the house raided at any second or perhaps the wife may come home and you kick her out the window. If she has the majority of her clothes on at the time she is better equipped to walk away quietly, as if nothing horrible just happened. Ditto why she may also wish to get the money before hand, keep everything in her purse and keep the purse in plain site at all times.

I dont blame them. A little paranoia is healthy in an escort. If they were too trusting I would wonder about them.
Also, if the paranoia gets to be a real problem with enjoying sessions then I stop seeing girls for a while until the heat dies down. If one particular girl is always stressing about following the rules and protecting herself and I can never enjoy her, then she's not my provider any more.
I have had PLENTY of women like that. Better to simply not see them then get into an argument. Eventually she will run out of clients and leave the business, which is just fine by me.

AWomanLikeNoOther158 reads

Sometimes I keep my stuff on because it makes me feel sexier, but if you want it off just say so.

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