If anyone out there sort of knows me through previous posts I like to throw out questions that border on the esoteric/absurd - sorry, just how I roll and think. So, have any of you "reviewers" ever looked at a "provider" and said to yourself, Wow! I want that woman! But am I qualified to see such a woman of this beauty and talent? Got a message and a pic from a lady who will be visiting my area soon and she is amazing! Oh, we will meet for sure but I almost want to sit back and enjoy her for the presence of her company and not necessarily the physical thing. Please, this is not a question for the slithering snakes out there but true responses would be welcomed. So, court is in session - how do you feel? gf60

in this hobby (at least in los angeles) i have found that none of the ladies ever make me feel that i am unqualified to see them.  and if they don't feel that way, i sure don't feel that way.

if you've got the $$$ you are qualified.  and they will love it.  or at least, pretend to.

And not necessarily the 'physical thing'. If that is what you want to do? Do it.

It's your time. It's you're money. It's your criteria. Do what you want (within boundaries, obviously). No need to apologize. No one has any place tell you otherwise.

But, in your OP you give the impression that you may be ....well....maybe a bit unrealistic in your expectations of this woman. Realistically, you have not even met her yet so,.......maybe you meet her first before you declare your undying love?

This is supposed to be uncomplicated.

I haven't seen her yet and i don't like to post reviews but her pics are classy. She doesnt show her face but looking at the pics on her website i imagine things and think myself she is too classy for me to see her. I saw one hot classy lady sort of pin up girl in the mags, got scared at the prospect of seeing her but eventually i did and it went surprisingly smooth and it is the wonderful experience i ever had.

...hair stylist, etc.

Did I forget to mention Photoshop?

... I was born with a set of balls so I have no idea what you're talking about. Obvioulsy, this question is for the mangina crowd. Maybe lungman or macdaddy can help you out.

Yes, she is extremely beautiful. Even more beautiful in person, but if she can make a socially awkward person like me feel special, then she can make you feel special.

then you should feel like we've been friends for ages from the start, and long as you're being respectful everything you do or say is the right thing. That is the beauty of these arrangements, every meeting is it's own solitary experience. It isn't like a regular date where the woman is judging and evaluating you the whole time to compare you with other dates, and decide whether or not she could have a future with you. Everyone just gets to sit back and enjoy what transpires without pressure or expectations.

I find it hard to believe that I rendered someone like you  with your knack of diarrhetic verbosity speechless! No sweat brother: brought a smile to my face. gf60

I was intimidated at first.  I am a shy, quiet guy to begin with.  Hell, I lost my virginity at the age of 22.  I didn't feel I was "good enough" to see the higher end ladies.  After the first year.....fuck that.  I'm just like any other guy.  If you got the cash, you fuck like Peter North.  Treat the gals with respect and they don't give a shit how good you are, or if have the bod of a pro athlete.

There have been a couple of ladies that I thought were way out of my league, but I've never felt that I'm not qualified to see them.  For most of them, the qualifications are spelled out in plain English on their website, and it boils down to cash and an OK reputation.

With that said in every instance, once I met the 'out of my league lady' any hesitation was gone.  That's why they are called professionals.  

It's more about my attitude, but when they meet me it is the one thing they say they love the most. I don't pull any punches, refuse to back down from anyone, and don't suck up or say what others want to hear. For some men, I am simply too much, but there is a method to my madness lol. I attract exactly the kind of men I want to meet!

If you have chatted with this woman via pm or email, that is the best way. I cannot count the number of PMs I get from both guys and gals, saying I am harsh but they wish they could say what I do, or would love to meet me.

I don't think you should ever be intimidated by how a woman looks, because as someone else pointed out...smoke and mirrors. Looks are only a small part of what makes an experience. Personality, and connection are what keep you going back.

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Sorry, but that is the nicest thing I can think of to say.

Honestly Graywolf is just the latest in a long line of manginas without a shred of dignity or self worth. He makes dungman look like an Alpha Male.

it can be changed.  One just has to make conscious effort to stop pitying oneself.

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Hi gilxner

I am sorry that you feel as if some providers pretend to enjoy someone only because they have money. I can't speak for everyone, but I know there are other providers including myself who
don't pretend to enjoy someone's company only if they have money. It is always an honor when
someone wants me to hang around longer to converse those are the people who respect a lady in
this industry as we respect the gentlemen who contribute to the "cause" so to speak. I have never
felt that I had to pretend in any one situation. And when someone like the OP likes her for just
her and is willing to compensate her for just"being there" that's a great compliment to be honored
and appreciated .

Angela

I wouldn't be intimidated by you or anyone else, whether for their looks or for their -- whatever-thing-you-think-you-have-going-on.

Anne Curry is the only woman I ever really wanted.  When is she going to start paying attention to me?

of secure MEN, I like spending time with. If a guy is intimidated by a woman for any reason, I would probably scare the crap out of him.

The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it.

FLANNERY O'CONNOR, letter, Sep. 6, 1955

The truth ... is a beautiful and terrible thing and should therefore be treated with great caution.

J. K. ROWLING, The Sorcerer's Stone

Whoever undertakes to set himself up as a judge of Truth and Knowledge is shipwrecked by the laughter of the gods.

ALBERT EINSTEIN, Ideas and Opinions: Based on Mein Weltbild

There you go my little truth teller.  Now when can I find out just how tight that little pussy of yours is...

your a softie and u know it....
like a little girl with pig-tails...

LOL wow she's getting the plugs for spending SO much time here  They do whatever they can ay?!

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innocent??...maybe not
cool.
pretty.
funny.
intelligent.
witty.
charitable.
a person others are glad they met.
etc
etc

ps, or, your a very good actor....lol  

Give it a rest man, your becoming stale. ( what u say about others, reflects an image of the kind of person u really are )  Not in a good way either!!!

Money?

for a woman to act normal?

thanks for the tip.

I like the fact that I can be inspired by a provider to try to bring out the best in myself.    I may not fully succeed in the attempt, but it's lovely to want to make the sincere effort.

Some people just aren't cut out for trash talking, and you are just one of them. It doesn't make you a bad person, just a mangina. Just go on and be the best mangina you can be and leave the trash talking to those of us better suited for it.

humans. Very nice post.

trash=trash.

Overwhelmed, entranced or bewitched?  Sure.  

Intimidated?  Not for a long, time in any sexual or lust context.

it was a throw away joke.  and you should just throw it away!

You are cool....good response. gf60

Awwwww - we all strut with such an air of self confidence, don't we? There are some of "us" that just need the release of a quick piece of ass and then there are some of us that like to extend the moment and make it special even though it is limited and paid for. So, self image is not the issue, it's the beauty of a woman and what you can give and receive in such a short period of time that is meaningful. Sorry if I've gone over your head so just fire up another NASCAR rerun and pop a Bud. gf60

Ga -being a mindless ass doesn't make you anymore of a man.  This "mangina" term shows your low level of manly maturity and class.  What type of ladies do you attract, btw? Maybe not the best kind and this would be why you have to pay?    Impressive!

You're not gonna hit it off with everyone every time, and that's fine.  I don't take this stuff personally.  Girls have a right to choose, as just as we do.

So no...I don't feel that any provider is overwhelming.