If someone tells you outright that they have an STD, would you still have protected sex with them

The problem is alot if men either dont know they do or dont do anything about it. When I work at the brothels most have a "dick check" before you collect any money and basically you inspect it and check for bumps and squeeze the tip to make sure the fluid is clear. If you had any suspicion you had to tell them they wiuld need to go to the doctor before they could come back and you wouldnt believe the number of people who had to leave. Thats why I always have and always do cbj.

That's scary. If you went through a date and a guy said this to you, please blacklist him and note his std in the report. Health is #1.

Don't Blame just us Guys for getting STDs. Women can give us STDs too.

Condoms are great at preventing HIV transmission, but nowhere near as good for other STIs.  Why put yourself at such an increased risk?

Thanks for the feedback. The reason I asked is that the person was up front about it, I personally decided not to but they came back with the argument "you have protected sex because you don't trust the other person is clean so if I tell you from the start what's the difference".

I'm assuming you already know the answer to your question since you are asking

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There was a girl from MN claiming to be a nurse (lol) who said she knew for a fact a guy had herpes but rather than offend him, she put a condom on and gave him a BJ. I would like to know what nursing school let her dumb ass in.  

Otherwise known as "Hooker Math" in some circles..

Good on him for telling you, but Herpes is not to be trifled with.  Chances of catching it when he has no sores is very low but not zero, and it can be transmitted through much more than just bareback sex.  Sad for him to have to struggle so hard to find a sex partner but apparently there are positive groups that can help with that

Out of a car, no less but still. She's a courtesan, so don't call her a hooker!

Ah, there's nothing quite so romantic as being parked under an interstate ramp, with the sound of semi trucks rolling overhead, trying to straddle the center console, banging your head on the roof of the car, watching for cops, and getting a half-assed BJ and herpes at the same time. But for $15, it's worth it.