Does it bother you when a regular of yours stop seeing you? Do you reach out to him to see if he is ok or interested in seeing you or do you check to see if he is still writing reviews for ladies and let it go?
Mature and reasoned attitude on this topic. I agree with you 100%.
One of the attractions of this hobby is that there is no long-term commitment. I have girls I have known for 4-5 years where I put them in my weekly rotation for a couple of months and then I will take 6 months off while seeing others before returning for some intense reunion sex for a few months again. Most know I will miss them and eventually return, so they don't bother me about it.
I know I may never see them again. I am thankful that I had them to begin with and know that times, needs and desires change over time.
I try not to bother people unless they have signed up to my mailing list. Or I know it is ok to contact them- which can get really confusing to keep track of since I don't write anything down - so better off waiting for them to pop up again on their own. Honestly - Once in a great while my curiosity may get the best of me and I may peruse my review list to see if someone is still playing and therefore is OK. Because of course I do care about my regulars even after they are long moved on to new providers.
hum. and truthfully, it is a pleasure to have a past regular show up for a roll in the hay or just to say hello. And then I am thankful for that, too!
I wouldn't continue see a lady unless I really liked her. Several ladies that I have seen in the past and really enjoyed sharing time with have dropped off of the face of the earth. It concerned me enough to see if they had any recent reviews to see if they were still providing and to see what type of state they were in but not to stalk them. One of the last reviewers stated that he thought that said provider was having emotional issues and he thought that she should take a break or leave the hobby. She has since had all of her reviews removed. I hope she is doing well.
Plus you never know, the guy may come back some day. I have gone back to a provider now and then after a long absence.
It also cuts both ways. Several gals I really liked over the years stopped answering my inquiries. In some cases I have a good idea why, in others, it's a mystery. And sometimes, out of the blue, they'll contact me again. This, in fact, just happened a few weeks ago with someone I hadn't seen in about 5 years.
I don't let myself get all shook up over these things. It's all a part of this crazy hobby world we play in.
There was a thread about this some time back. Someone asked about the longest interval in between seeing the same lady. Mine was 3 years. In fact, that same lady reached out to me four years after the last time I had seen her. It didn't happen, but I knew she was still out there and interested in seeing me as a client.
Actually I hope they forget me as soon as I walk out the door. I can't imagine they'd remember me for any good reason (handsome, interesting, skillful) and I don't want them remembering me for a bad reason.
I don't like seeing too many women because I like to keep up with my health and where my money is going. I hate to be supporting something like drugs or worse. so hopefully they remember me and when form a good business relationship that is disscert
I would send a text or reach out via whatever means of communication we've agreed on first to see if he is ok...I probably wouldn't check to see if he's writing new reviews until a significant amount of time has passed.
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