I've found many men enjoy getting their c*ck spit on during HJs and BJs. But perhaps I shouldn't assume? Does it ever come across as offensive?

Saliva can be delivered in a less grotesque manner.

to Me just don't really care for it.

I don't mind if you spit on it either.  It's very PSE.  Some guys like it, some guys don't.  If you don't like it, fine.  Just don't judge the guys who do.
Oh, and honey, you can spell out "cock."  Don't go all London on us.  This is a fuck board, after all!

Up yours! I don't spit, but I do drool and let it drip off my bottom lip onto the weenie. There...no need to block out a letter in "weenie."

also depends on how you do it. Some women look sexy when they do it some look funny.

Just my opinion but if I'm having a session that leans more toward the PSE side of the book then I find spitting to be extremely hot.

I just love you refined Southern Belles!  LOL! One of my ATF's favorite pictures is one I snapped with her phone "whilst" she was giving me a BBBJ.  She's smiling, her blue eyes are twinkling with lust, and there's a 6"-long string of drool from her lower lip to the tip of my cock.
Thanks for reminding me!

I don't find it to be a turn on.

Spitting turns me off...I'll swap saliva kissing but spitting has always been a sign of disrespect....and my cock is very respectful.

It all comes down to how good it feels...

As long as my friend does not spit on his hand and touch me or spit directly on my girl parts.. All is well. I find that to be a disgusting act......especially,, when I am plenty wet naturally and there are other readily available accessories.....

Spit on it, drool, when you gag on it and that extra spit gathers in your throat...yea spit that on my cock and go right back down on it. Now that's fucking hott.

Deff can be hot with the right person, but not something I go around doing with this gig...sorry gentlemen. LOL  

Don't quite get it why some people don't like it. Your dick is deep in her mouth which is full of saliva so what's the difference if she spits on you?

Spitting it ou is NOT.

i absolutely love it..there is nothing quite like having your cock..balls and ass crack covered in hot saliva..and that is even before she squirts..i love getting drenched..