i would think that a man, regardless of age, who is a genuine gentleman would best suit most women sexually but i will not attempt to speak for them all.

speaking sexually, i like to build up to a rousing mutual crescendo.

Squeezy, are you just wanting to hear young girls say they like to fuck you so you feel less like you are buying it and more like you are being generous because you can?

Women chose to fuck men because they are hot just like men do, but women turn down hot men for one reason or another whereas men never turn down a hot woman.

Women chose to fuck some men who are average for reasons than the man is hot; he could attract her with humor, personality, status, power, money, of even if he is simply getting attention from ANOTHER hot woman.

Men chose to fuck an average woman, because he is horny and see is available. If she is getting attention of ANOTHER hot guy, a man moves on.

I think you may be trying to see iof a young woman will express something in a way that is meaningful from a man's point of view.

Are you asking if she actually likes the sex? If you are over 40 you should know. I'm older than you and I can tell when a young girl is really into it.

Are you asking (between the lines) that if she is fucking you, is she getting turned on by you paunch, your visible nose hair, your slightly enlarged ears and nose, your bald top, your moobs?  Probably not.

She MAY be getting totally turned on with how her sexual power has the ability to make you grunt and gasp.

I had this SUPER hot woman less than half my age look me in the eye and tell me that when she knows a man wants her so damn bad that he is willing to pay her hundreds, she gets completely  wants to fuck his brains out! nd she did mine.

If she was thinking about a foursome with her, Ben Franklin and his two twin brothers while she was cumming in my mouth, well all I got to say is:

LIFE IS GOOD!

I am not a young provider, but I do play with one in front of the TV.

Squeezy, are you just wanting to hear young girls say they like to fuck you so you can feel less like you are buying it and more like you are being generous to them because you can?

Women chose to fuck men because they are hot, just like men do. But women will turn down hot men for one reason or another, whereas men never turn down a hot woman.

Women chose to fuck some men who are average, for reasons other than he’s hot. He could attract her with humor, personality, status, power, money, or even by simply getting attention from ANOTHER hot woman.

Men chose to fuck an average woman because they are horny and she is available. If a woman is getting attention of ANOTHER hot guy, a man moves on.

I think you may be trying to see if a young woman will express something in a way that is meaningful from a man's point of view.

Are you asking if she actually likes the sex? If you are over 40 you should be able to tell. I'm older than you and I can tell when a young girl is really into it.

Are you asking (between the lines) if while she is fucking you, is she getting turned on by your paunch, your visible nose hair, your slightly enlarged ears and nose, your bald top, your moobs? She’s probably not.

She MAY be getting totally turned on by how her sexual power has the ability to make you grunt and gasp.

I had this SUPER hot young woman (less than half my age) look me in the eyes and tell me that when she knows a man wants her so damn bad that he is willing to pay her hundreds, she gets completely WET and wants to fuck his brains out! And she did mine.

If she was thinking about a foursome with her, Ben Franklin, and his two twin brothers while she was cumming in my mouth, well all I got to say is:

LIFE IS GOOD!

I actually read it and enjoyed reading it. I need to get to Philly.

I'm his stunt double , call me.

Feel free to use an alias as you answer this question.

My guess is the average client is 40+ years old, like me.  We're a little balder and flabbier than the guys you're age.  Many of you are smoking hot, and if you weren't a provider, you probably wouldn't give most of us the time of day if we were your age.  In light of that, do you really like having sex with guys like us?

I more or less asked one of my providers this once and she said "I like older guys.  They can go longer with sex without orgasming right away.  Some of these younger guys cum within 5 minutes of seeing my tits and then get all possessive and start following me and wanting to be my boyfriend.  I don't need that".  Good answer.

Your thoughts please.  Again, feel free to use an alias.

The idea that a provider in her 20's likes clients who are in their 40's is because their better in bed, is something you;re using to boost your own ego.

If anything a provider in her 20's or any age for that matter, whats you in & out, once she gets the money. She could care less if you come in 5mins or 20mins , or if you come at all. All she wants is her donation.

Some providers have told me, they like dealing with clients 30+ is because the maturity factor is a bit different from a guy in his 20's. sometimes. Also a higher precentage of guys 30+ tend to have their money a better together. But at the end of the day, if you're a client who has his money together, is nice to her, and don't try to go over your time, you're the ideal client she wants to see.

However there are just as many crazy ass, trying to haggle the donation down, wouldnt know dick how do put his dick in a pussy, and hit it correctly 30+ and 40+ clients out there to. It isn't just the 20's

respectful,generous and passionate!I love guys of all ages and being a provider I keep an open mind and always focus on the good qualitys about a person!

Speak for yourself, pal.

I get told all the time I don't look 44, provider and civvie ladies. Guys too, for that matter.

Sure as shit don't act like it, lol.

I am 23 years old . My boyfriend is 31 . I will not give guys around my age ( so in their 20s) the time of day. Guys in their 20s have zero bedroom skills. They just like to bang fast & and done.  I prefer older men . Older men are usually nicer guys & they definately have more skills behind close doors then younger guys do.  For me its not all about the looks , its more about their personality.

I have met some very attractive older men. I love it when a man has a a shade of grey Silver Foxes are very attractive.

Is rich, smart, handsome, great in bed, and hilarious, I could care less what a guys age is.

(Except if he's extremely young or extremely old.  Like under 30 or over 65.  I can't go there.)

even when i was a teenager, i was totally unattracted to guys my age.  they were pushy, rude ("omg, you're 15 and still a virgin?  that's so weird!"), and immature.  i crushed on my teachers, my doctors, and even one or two of the guys my mom brought home on dates (my stepdad was never among those crushes, thank god, or that would be a little awkward -- i love him like a father, nothing more), but never on a guy my age.

i didn't even start dating until i was 18 -- i waited until i was old enough (legally speaking, anyway) to date a much older man.  the first man i dated was 49, and he was such a breath of fresh air.  he was kind, loving, funny, smart, and patient with me.  he would drive 2 hours to my home, drive me back to his place, and cook me these fabulous dinners, and not once did he try to pressure me into having sex with him.  he obviously wanted me, and we fooled around a little bit, but we didn't make love until i very clearly signaled my receptivity and desire to him.  at that point, we had been dating for 6 months.  his patience was legendary.

not being visually motivated, a man's appearance is immaterial to me.  none of the men whose lives i had bonded to mine in the past were good candidates for a GQ cover shoot, but to me, they were the sexiest men alive, because they ignited passion and dreams for the future inside of me.

my particular fetish is responsiveness (and a sort of low-key sensual domination -- what i describe as passive domination, LOL).  when my fingers run gently along the lines of a man's neck, shoulders, and back, and it elicits a little gasp, and he turns his neck this way and that to further accommodate my touch, that is sensual nirvana to me.  when i am with a date and we finally shed the last of our clothing, and skin touches skin for the first time without so much as a molecule of air between us, i melt.  i don't care what you look like or how old you are -- demonstrate to me through your body language, the pattern of your breathing, or even with words, that you enjoy my ministrations, and i will be in heaven.  i love to render a man utterly helpless using the power of pleasure; his physical trappings, outside of his receptivity to sensual touch & kissing, are meaningless to me.

#1 i'm a young hobbyist and i can by far know for fact that i cna last longer then 3 hours it's actually happen where i didn't bust after 3 so she just used that phrase to make you feel better

and you believe what they say?

I prefer gentlemen ages 40-55. They are usually accomplished and confident...but have lost that annoying-as-fuck cockiness some (again, some. I am stereotyping, but here that seems to be common practice) younger gentlemen have. And a few individuals from that particular age group have done the most delicious things to my body....ah, sensory memory.

I like older men because they tend to be more loving, mature, and caring then younger guys. Sex wise they have more control and actually care about me getting off too (this is all from my experience though).

You sound like the ultimate courtesan. Do you ever come to New York City?

The ladies I pay? The ones I don't pay? Or the hetero guys I know that are secure in their masculinity to give another guy a compliment?

What are YOU trying to say?

Don't know what it is, and really don't give a fuck, considering the source...

Lucky bastard...

my bf is in his 40s so am i but hes not gorgious, hes probably average in looks.
hes one of the nicest ppl I have ever met.
he treats me well very well and he loves me for who i am.
looks have little to do with attraction in the end for me. i have dated some beautiful ppl in my time its whats on theninside that matters.

this is a job dont forget that, you are a client. your looks dont even come into play here. i am at work.

I was the guy walking down the hall and when I saw an underclassman getting picked on by another guy I'd walk up, grab the bully by the neck and slam his head into the lockers. Tell him the guy he's picking on is a friend of mine and if he had a problem we could go outside and settle this.

I had anger issues back then, but then again I never could see some guy getting beat up cuz he didn't want to fight. Just me, but when you have a talent....

I thought I was special....

But an entire post that is almost unreadable is another.  Question: if no one can actually understand your post, why  bother?  It was only one fucking sentence long.  And you couldn't take the time to read through it before hitting "send?"  STFU, please.

Do you have a fucking mouse in your pocket?

Bald and flabby, speak yourself, couch potato.

I am older than 40+ not bald (have head full of salt/pepper hair), height/weight proportional, fit and muscular.

Stop thinking that everyone 40+ is fucking flabby couch potato like you to make yourself feel better. Get out and run a mile or two couple days week!

Chill out spaz.   I was generalizing.  I'm not bald or fat either and exercise plenty.  I meant that a 40 year old fit body in general still doesn't look as youthful as a 20 year old fit one.

"Short Bus"special.  And I say that fondly.
nick

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We are an atm machine. most answer to this post that came from the ladies included words like Generous and rich.

No need for this one. When you communicate what you mean it gets through the little mistakes. This was very well said!

... to me it's all about :

• chemistry - how do we get along when we both still have our clothes on ? Are you confident ? Respectful ?  Funny ?
• personal hygiene - very important, yes you can be a bit flabbier / older etc. but you do take care of your body by smelling great, clean clothes, matching socks, underwear without holes haha,  fresh breath etc.
• our chemistry in bed - it just blows my mind how much fun I can have, having sex for the first time with a stranger, you know when it just 'clicks' and it can be any scenario: super sexy, goofy, wild, or just taking our time, it's about quality, not quantity and if someone pops super fast, well then there is always round 2 . On the other hand, I have had an experience or two with guys who just laid down and I had to ask if they were OK because I felt I was almost forcing them. Funny thing is, one of them became a regular, so I guess that's just how he rolls.  

generally I prefer guys 40+ and that goes for my personal life as well ! I am pretty consistent like that.

♥
Estella

they are in for the green most do not like older guys...

That negates out that other stuff! LOL!

you ARE one of a kind.

cheers, no chains,
Jabba

Or the imaginary voices you hear in your head that you think you heard from those individuals? clarify for me I'm not following what you're saying

....in civvie life i've met that i'd do if weren't a provider. I've messed around with 2 guys that were never clients that were both well over 40.  First reminded me of Steve Wilkos (lol) the other didn't look like anyone famous per se but he was 47 and barely looked 34/35.

Oh, my God! I'd run to you right now!