Are guys really into facials, bukkake, and other splooge displays?  What do they get out of it?

As I wroter before down the board, the cum is only the proof that a guy came- not some end in itself.  Or is it?  Do guys really care?

And lady's please be honest- use noms de plum if need be to preserve the fantasy.  Civvy ladies with whom I have discuss/watched porn all tlak about how lame that part of the movies are.  A lot of ladies I have talked to say the explosion inside them, either oral or insertion is really more of a kick.  When guys blast, they can get off from the control of another person more than from any goop flyin'.

For me, if a lady asked for it-  that might be sexy- but why otherwise would I blast some material that can sting in the eyes and dry to a fine glue onto the face of another?

Hard for me to impart how lame and pathetic I find this, yet I am all in favour of poeple feelingh sexy and getting off, so an explanation from a pro-facial constituency might bring me around.

Lord knows my vesuviusalino can blast on occasion and having providers comment on it is sexy, I just don't understand why I would want to aim it anywhere special.  The ceiling is fine, deep in a mouth or orifice better.

You may definatley flame if you wish, as I may have insulted people, but do try to explain also- I ACTUALLY WANT TO KNOW...

I have never liked the concept of facials.  I know some providers offer them to keep away from having CIM but to offer more than ending a BJ with their hand and on their chest.  However, I only see some guy aiming his "vesuviusalino" (LMFAO ROFL) at some provider's beautiful face and painting it as detracting from the overall experience and objectifying the provider.  I know many will feel differently...and I am just curious what it provides them.  I have never considered it, and I find it so much more sexy in a porno when a woman makes him come in her mouth, either from her sucking (preferred) or from him jacking off and aiming well.

I could see it if it was someone you are in a "relationship" with, and it is a role play thing, and maybe that has something to do with it for the people who enjoy it.  For me, though, it would be a totally different expereince to have a woman I was involved with for a while who I repected as a "lover" and not just as a provider and a woman say to me that she wanted me to objectify her.  That would be a mental turn on.  With a provider, though, I want to focus on the physical pleasure, and
the mental would be so much more into the newness, and the lust, and the observing of her abilities, than objectifying her right off the bat.

Don't get me wrong...I mean, more power to those who love it, men and women.  As long as it doesn't hurt someone, all sex is good sex.  I just don't understand the appeal of face painting.

Porn is mostly a visual medium (no one ever buys porn for
sound editing do they?) and facials are very visual.  I
guess some things that are watched on screen are carried over
into real life.

In my opinion, in real life, pulling out is never as good as
staying in.

fr

I've never seen the appeal. For a boyfriend or husband if he were really into it...I'd do it to please him.

For a stranger I just met and most likely won't see again? Nope, I can't see that being a turnon or even something just to be tolerated. But like you said: whatever floats your boat. I think it's just a visual thing for the man.

I wanna watch you jack off all over my pretty face. I want to look you dead in the eye and watch you writhe toward your inevitability. I want to lick up every last drop and and smear it over my mouth as I flip my vibrator to high and thrust myself on your face till you can't breathe.
Sexy is as sexy does. Its a two way street, whose walking with me? Yeah? I'm talkin' tou you!

*...Pitter-patter...*

Isn't that always the case? If a lady asks for it. I think that it might be hot. I doubt many women outside the hobby ever ask for it unless they have a little bit o' kink in their psyche. And thus we come to the crux of the matter. Its the kink factor. If every woman you ever met liked it and asked for it you'd never really fantasize about it.  But if your wife is a WASP and fairly conservative you're dying for just a little raunch once in awhile. I want to give hmy wife a facial not because I have a big thing for facials and for the record I think that's the lamest part of a porn video. But I want to do it BECAUSE I saw it in a porn video and I just want her to be a little deviant. There's plenty of other ways she could be a freak but that one would be a small step, doesn't cause pain, isn't too weird, doesn't involve other people or strange objects. In fact on the scampr-kink-o-meter it's pretty near the bottom. But it's a start!

Do you have to do that, Net?

Third desk I have broken thsi week- all due to you posting or mailing me...

that I love to smear and lick your waste all over my face.

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who has been paying attention to Belladonna's big sister here.

Michelle, one splooge on you would be like casting pearls to pigs...you need to get gangbanged and have about ten facials.  Any volunteers, gents?

"Splooge me, baby"...wasn't that a Traci Lords song?

Me either. I'm not a big fan of facials. Not into it. I hit the FF button when I see that in a p0rN. Matter of fact, I was never into CIM either until it actually happened with one provider. I don't mind having a CBJ but if the provider gives me a BBBJ I won't turn it down but I don't think I could do a facial to a lady. Even IF SHE thinks its sexy. And I try nowadays (since that first provider who introduced it to me) to not CIM.


Guz

Serious question serious answer.
Probably "deep down" it's a control thing. This
beautiful girl who really wants you to bust a
huge coconut down her throat (ok, I only do
facial if she has refused CIM, but it's a
fantasy, right?) loses your big cock - b/c YOU
are the boss. But then you decide, you let
loose a heat-shooting missile launcher, she sees
what will happen to her, she writhes, but she
can not resist staying, she squeezes her eyes
shut to avoid the sting, waits for the
inevitable (see the control fantasy) and then
zam-zam-zam, you are a m-f ing George W letting
loose a thousand billion exploding shooting Chads
all over the target, she doesn't even know how
many there'll be, when to open her eyes, oh god
your the boss p-l-e-a-s-e don't get it in my hair
I'll have to wash it and be late for next gig,
andit's hot and sticky, it's all over her, you are
the Painter, not the painted!

How's Irene and the counter-terrorism going?

I love those books.

Bukkake is when many guys dump into a woman's mouth.

fr

Geez, am I the only one ??

I like them because I enjoy watching the ever-unpredictable male ejaculation.  It's fun to finish on her breasts, her ass, her neck, or yes, even all over her face.  And I like to see what a mess I made.  It's not because I have domination issues, I do not objectify the women I see, I just like to get a little kinky every now and then.  That's all, nothing else.

Where does it come from ??  Probably from watching a lot of porn, especially the legendary Peter North.

And, oh, by the way, click on the link below to learn more about bukkake....

--Placebo

I don't mind facials because they're harmless, and if the client really enjoys it, why not? I do feel like a porn star when they do it, and that's usually a fun feeling.

However, facials are messy and I have to wash my face/hair and redo all my make-up, so I usually don't volunteer for facial fun unless he asks first.

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OMG!
(sigh)

PLEASE direct me to the physical products of your writing style... published somewhere, yes?  I love your erotica... oh, was that just a simple post?  See what I mean?!?  I'm off to visit a PocketRocket, but an extended version would keep up with the Sybian.  What'd ya' got for me?
; )

If I don't get to my room...quick...!

Does a solo act count for spontaneous sex?

/Zin

Okay, this will probably be a ramble... my thinking on this not completely rational on this.

In porn, they do facials a lot.  Probably because cum-on-the-inside is not that visually spectacular-- unless the BJTC was being done by Annie Sprinkle, who, with the right camera man, could still make it spectacular.

We're visual creatures.  In primate brains, visual interconnections go everywhere.  Long after the pleasure sensations of sex have faded, you are left with the pictures of what happened.  They can trigger and prompt other experiences, echoes.

For a powerfully erotic visual of a woman placing herself at the center of your orgasm, welcoming your semen, giving it her intimate blessings, a facial probably has no equal...

But if you can't get into that, perhaps no words can get you into that.  Maybe you're either drawn that way or not.

/Zin  

Have only done this very rarely, only in cases where the provider requested it...  As I've admitted in previous threads, for reasons I can't explain, having a provider slowly and encouragingly finish me on her bosom holds more appeal than facials for me.  (blushing)

I just copied the following from my reply in another thread a few months ago:

As for what has often been said about being demeaning to the woman...  I hate the idea that a provider (or any partner, for that matter) would ever see being cummed on as a gesture of overt or subconscious disrespect on my part.  Quite the opposite, there's an acceptance aspect to it that is actually kind of humbling to me.

If you think about it, the psychology of it all has its roots in practicality.  My "stuff" is always something that's had to be protected against.  Between birth control and STD prevention, there are multi-billion dollar industries built around protecting the world from my stuff.   Being that my "stuff" is the ultimate representative of, well, me, it takes on a subconscious value to the guy that may not be readily understood.  Enter a willing partner who's response ranges from "not really my thing, but I'll go along with it for you" all the way to "give it to me baby, I want it"...  Doesn't matter whether he knows she's just acting or not, the stage has been set for it to constitute a turn-on.

Facials: a turn off for me

I remember getting it in my eye, and it stung all day long. I love getting it on my breasts, and I actually find that more of a turn on, than on the face. Just my opinion

Mel

Booiiinnnngggg!...drool...SPLATTTTTT!

The two way street just got mighty slippery...lol

Have a great safe trip back to LA La land...

Belladonna awaits...lol
Hurry back!...VR awaits...


Cheers!

of acceptance of the man, when she enjoys this.  It has emotional roots.

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I have a thing for CIM and NQNS. Facials are up there too.

Having thought of the subject in light of my own fascination, here's what I've come up with in terms of an explanation:

Imagine being walked in by someone while masturbating (let's say your mother). You'd probably be embarrased. Now imagine the same situation happening the second you start shooting the "stuff". Would you feel more embarrased? Probably.

Perhaps there are people for whom this is about control. For me, the turn on is far from being a gesture of control- it is about the tabooness of the whole thing. Its about opening one self up (almost literally), being in a vulnerable position, and having acceptance for it (literally as well).

Here you are making a mess, or having them consume something unpleasant, but they care so much for you, that not only do they accept it, but also enjoy it (or at least make pretense).

Sometimes I almost feel embarrased after being completed like this, almost like a child who did something really bad but received only love in return from his parents.

Weird, huh?

I'm willing to venture and say that people with this sort of fascination are probably more sensitive, especially in light of what other people feel and think.

Porn is not necessarily a reason for this fascination as it is a reason for it's discovery and reinforcement. It is definetly a visual thing, but so is a large part of sex. Perhaps, if porn didn't exist, I would have figured out what turns me on much later and after gaining a lot more experience.

What I really would like to know is the flip side of this.

For women, what does it mean when they enjoy CIM, NQNS and Facials?? Is it possibly the inverse?- that they are in control in a way. At least one provider has indicated this sentiment. Would very much enjoy hearing from providers on this.

We'd do a heck of a lot better if AG Asscraft and
even Big W himself would stop with the gaymarriage
stuff and pay attention to 'Sama Yo Mamma himself.
  But I'm just testy b/c I've been trying to get
some from Dr. Kennedy for years now ... totally
no soap. I mean, Anna is hot but she IS my S.O.,
what's a Ripped and Toned Scourge of the bad guys
supposed to DO, jerk off 4 times a day?
                      Regards, Iron Man