I figured I'd lighten the mood here.

What turns you on?  It can be as benign and normal or as wild and kinky as you wish.  Here are some of mine...

- talking science or math (no, seriously)
- foreign languages - but not the typical romance language like French, I tend to especially think that German is incredibly hot, as well as Russian... mmm... so guttural... I even have a very occasional partner who speaks Estonian...
- unconventional locations... for, you know, naughtiness..
- being pinned down
- when a man manipulates my body to get the pleasure he wants (for instance, grabbing my hips or shoulders when taking me from behind...)

...and.. here's the kinda weird one.. I admit it!  I love it when men drink my milk.  Even better is when they reach climax while drinking my milk.  The idea of taking something from me while giving something to me is just wildly sexy to me.

Anyway - what turns YOU on?  This applies to guys and girls of course.

A skirt blowing in the wind to expose a bit more leg.  A nice air of jeans wrapped around a perfect butt. A smile and a laugh, Licking my ear. Licking my nipples, Rubbing my shoulders...

After that the more obvious stuff usually takes over...

I see one lady who is very visually oriented and she loves to watch herself in the mirror. Sounds tame but she makes it very hot.

The right music!

Dirty talk when it's real.

I would really like to experience the milk thing! That could be intense.

Ai Chihuahua !!  Shelby Sinful in the 501 Area Code

Very light, barely there, sheer, no support, bras!!

Giz

The nape of a woman's neck. I love coming up behind a woman, casually moving her hair aside (I also love medium to long hair) and lightly kissing the back of her neck.

The curve of the side of a breast. Laying there caressing her body.

Slight whimpers and moans in my ear. Laying on top of me, slow and sensual.

Hot and heavy dirty talk. Doggy with some hair pulling and ass slapping.

b-

Where the small of the back meets the ass of the woman.  That whole curve thing as the woman bends over.

Sundresses!  A provider met me once in a sundress and that is all she had on.  There is not anything sexier for me than a woman in a sundress.  Life does not get any better than that!

There is nothing sexier than than that little curve between a woman's knee and her calf. That might not qualify, but hey ... it's an open discussion! I'm a leg man. So be it!

As far as being in bed, I absolutely go to the moon when a woman is breathing in my ear. Isn't that strange that something so seemingly "normal" is so hot? Bonus points if she gently bites my earlobe as her warm breath . . .

I need to stop now. Quick! To the reviews and provider contact information!

Goodness gracious ... I can't stop with just one reply to this post, Butterfly.

Red hair and freckles. Yep. Red hair and freckles. That combination will stop any Irishman in his tracks.

Another HUGE turn-on is a woman with confidence. I'm not talking about physical beauty (all women by default are beautiful), but an inner strength. Nothing is sexier than a woman who truly believes that she is special. It makes me want to shower them with affection.

Ah, you hit the bullseye with the "sundress" comment! 100% percent agreement with that.

Sweeping long auburn hair (OK, could be blonde or redhead for that matter) to the side to get a better look at a lovely face.

Seeing a slender, mostly naked, beautiful young woman perched on a bed with her legs demurely tucked beneath her. Waiting for you.

Watching her eyes crinkle up ever so slightly as she smiles when you kiss the corner of her mouth.

Hearing about her goals in life and strategy to get there, so that you know she's got direction, drive, and determination.

Feeling her reach back to stroke your balls at _exactly_ the right moment when you're in doggie.

If you go Greek, that moment when you're suddenly in her, and it feels as if you right there and then know you're in the exact right place in the universe...

Spontenaity in both the event and the place, Imagination and Intrigue are completely sexy turn ons.

I had one lady whisper in my ear at the door, use your imagination and make me your play thing, if you don't hear(safeword) keep going!

I had one lady take me by complete surprise (I LOVE surprises) I showed up in Jeans and a Polo shirt she was wearing a full length evening gown buttons from the neck to the hip where a thigh high split meets them. I look at her and say, I think I am under dressed, you look stunning. She looks at me and says this is the perfect dress for my fantasy tonight.  I say oh!  Yep I want you to tear this fancy thing off me and have your way with me, if you stop to unbutton it I will slap you!  Anyone ever rip the clothes off a lady, buttons flying and material ripping?  It was incredible, the mood sure was set.

This is the reason I love this hobby, so many ladies with different thoughts and interests.  Now to find one or two that can play all these roles!

I love hearing about what makes people tick in the sack!

I LOVE to be told that I am a good girl.

My laptop keeps bouncing up and down, if you know what I mean.

Here's a fantasy of mine that's a bit hard to pull off for obvious reasons, but that doesn't stop me from enjoying it.

I want a sexy woman who is a complete stranger to me to come silently into my bedroom while I am asleep and wake me slowly by seducing me with every accoutremnent of hers that she has at her command.  The room must be pitch dark so that we never see what we look like. We then make love passionately without uttering a word till I am totally spent and collapse back into Morpheus' arms.

In the morning I'm never sure if it was a dream or reality.

I find the whole concept of utterly delightful.

-- Modified on 10/4/2008 6:41:06 AM

Thanks!  I've ripped clothes off of dates before (always bring an extra, matching shirt, lol), but never had it done to me...  I think I need to go shopping this weekend.  GOD, that sounds hot!  Being thrown against the wall, manhandled, DFK, all the while having my clothes ripped from my body.  Then thrown on the bed to be devoured and used as his toy for the next 2 hours....

Ok, I need to take a care of something else before I go shopping....

Kari~

My turn ons:
-soft whispers in my ear
-licking my ear and fealing your hot breath there makes me shiver all over!
-feather light tender kisses on the nape of my neck literally makes my toes curl
-being told what to do to you in bed
-there is this one little place under my right breast...........oh god!!
-passion, confidence and strength in both men and women turn me on
-being told I am beautiful
-a good, hearty, robust, and real laugh out loud!
-sex in a snow bank
-watching!
-having a man hold my long hair out of the way
-teasing and touching and caressing until I beg for his fingers, tongue, anything THERE!
-and, don't laugh now....KEVIN COSTNER.  The man totally gets my juices flowing.  Don't know why exactly....

...just with less "consent." *blushes*

Seeing the "smile" in the woman's eyes;
Caressing and lightly touching her body and hearing her moan;
Spontaneous Sex (my experience was in the pool of a resort);
Reading Erotica;
Being told what feels good and what turns her on;
Deep sensual kisses;
Holding her hand and spending a quiet moment together;
Feeling her soft kisses on my body (sends shivers down my spine);
Looking in her eyes when she climaxes.

I also like some that have been mentioned here especially, the dress being ripped off the woman - hot!

Great post...sure lightened up my mood (got me a bit hot and bothered, in a good way).

Currently, eyes scent and sound.

Watching 2 beautiful women making love....then i come into the picture when we are all nice and aroused!
Girl on Girl.....DATY.

- Kissing, DFK especially.

- A beautiful woman speaking Russian or speaking English with a Russian accent. So hot.

- A very vocal partner in bed really makes it hard for me to hold on.

- Also just pleasing a woman, especially orally.

- Ass slapping and hair pulling.

- A little more taboo, spanking or whipping. Nipple pinching or biting.

- And finally, a rape is my ultimate fantasy and turn on. Especially if She really plays into it with the struggling, saying no, crying, etc. (Don't crucify me, it's common in men and surprisingly very common in women. It would obviously be 100% consentual and with a safe word. I have yet to experience this fantasy but I hope to find someone that's into it someday.)

Damn is it hot in here or is it me? The ripping the clothes off thing I have to try. I love the little spot between my breasts being kissed and that area between my ass and leg but only if you are an ass man. I did a very bad girl strip tease for a dear friend and it was smoking hot for both of us. Talking dirty always gets me. I am a bad girl and I have surrendered to her. I like to look up at you and see you looking at me. Something so good about that.

Confidence...
Figure-flattering cloths...
Heels...
Stockings...
A brunette in red cocktail dress...
A blond in a blue one...
A redhead in a green one...
A woman in glasses...
An inadvertent flash of leg...
The outline of her thong under her business suit...
The smell of her perfume when makes up some silly excuse to stand very, very close...
The face-down photograph of her husband on the nightstand...

You are distinctively bad

Very sexy high heels attached to a great pair of legs.

Having those legs rubbing on my back as I go down on her.

Feeling her response, body movement, little sounds, eyes, as she orgasms as I go down on her.

My favorite scenario is to kiss and touch and caress and massage and lick a lady (everywhere but there) and of course allow her to return the favor, until we are both tingling and aching at the same time. I try to hold off until she says that she has to have it. Then, hard and fast, and explosive. And REAL.

the list goes on. I really love the professor type.

But as far as even more specifics that arouse me - dressing up in stockings for a lover, getting or giving a massage, hot weather, an excellent meal- great conversation and wine.

Hmmmmm...kinkier fare as well at times.