I might act like a dog some days of the year ,but I would always give my GF 100% on Valentines day.

Sorry no room for EOM

means nothing to me. I've never celebrated it. I've never had GF or love in my life - may be that's why. That being said, this hobby is designed around men wanting to get laid whenever they want. In most cases because it is not available at home.  That being said, if you have the itch around V-day then go for it, but don't have to just because it is V-day.

I plan sex 7 nights a week with the SO. Last night it was the Grammy's. The night before we had to get up early to run a 5k. The week before it was Mother Nature. I don't have to tell you guys, most of you know how it is. It is a bitch b/c I still find my SO to be attractive. I may not be the same guy I was 20 years ago, but I take pretty good care of myself and shower frequently.
Now regarding your question, maybe I should schedule something early tomorrow with the ATF!

I hsve scheduled an early morning tryst with my ATF and a late dinner with the SO which will give me adequate recovery time-Couldn't do it every day but would like to !!

cool.

how many of them told me they had husbands or SOs.  Five did.  I'm sure some of the others did, too.  It didn't bother me at all.  The idea of being married to a provider who still worked kind of intrigues me, despite what scoed has said about his situation.

What sucks is many of you guys will go all out to appease your SO b/c you are pressured by a Hallmark holiday that is dictated by the media.  And all around me, I mostly see the same thing every year.  (Most of) you guys jump hurdles to make Valentine's Day a memorable one, but despite the efforts of most of you, it's never good enough b/c she has a friend whose SO one-upped you, so he's the shit & half of you won't get laid after all of that fussing to make things perfect.  So to me, this day is no different than any other in that respect & I fully understand why you guys look elsewhere for passion.  Hell, the initial reason for obtaining a SO is so you'll have consistent intimacy.  But no matter how we justify it, we are all dogs.  I know we all have our reasons for doing what we do... it takes two to Tango (or NOT to Tango, I should say), but we really are all dogs.  What your SO's don't realize though, is they're all dogs too, or we wouldn't be having this conversation.  If I refused my SO sex, I would expect no less than for him to find it elsewhere.  Frankly, I don't know how all the bitching women do is even tolerable when you've been 'cut off' on top of it.

No real issue here. My wife rarely offers any action (at most 2 or 3 times a year), but I don't usually take her up on it. She put on a huge amount of weight, and I'm not into big girls. As sad as it is to say, I'd rather go without rather than sleep with the wife. In fact, I see her as more of a roommate than a wife...