Variety is awesome but I'd like to find an ATF. That way, I know each time is going to be hot AF. I don't have a money tree in my backyard so I want get a great bang for the buck (pun fully intentional).
The trick is to not develop any feelings/attachment. I failed at that with a mistress / fuckbuddy and it ended rather badly after a couple years. Lesson learned.Largely in response to the thread below, I was curious how many here are hoping for that Pretty Lady outcome versus purely interested in the NSA relationships this world offers.
I'm gonna have to charge you extra for that though.
I came fairly close - twice - to meeting my unicorn thru TER. In both cases, we had great 'relationships' for 2+ years each. I realized both times that it was an unbalanced relationship - they meant more to me than vice versa. Since then, I simply don't let myself get too 'attached.' It's on me - I ain't never been good at relationships - ask my Ex!
Now, I keep asking myself, 'would she even be seeing me if it weren't for the $money.' They answer is always 'no.'
Could-it, might-it happen? Anything's possible, but, I doubt it. The $money thing complicates it for me
Just my $.0
are huge attractors for women.
They exchange their thing of Value
for
your thing of Value.
Of course it's ALL about the money. For them what NOT to like? a steady healthy stream of income MINUS the baggage of a real relationship partner
Same can be said about a girl that's not a provider. Either way Sex is going to cost money in one form or another.
Variety is awesome but I'd like to find an ATF. That way, I know each time is going to be hot AF. I don't have a money tree in my backyard so I want get a great bang for the buck (pun fully intentional).
The trick is to not develop any feelings/attachment. I failed at that with a mistress / fuckbuddy and it ended rather badly after a couple years. Lesson learned.
Or did you mean "Pretty Woman"?
In either case, unicorn doesn't mean what I think you believe it means.
And no, I'm not searching for a unicorn. Funny thing is, I'm pretty sure I've found a great candidate, if I were searching for a unicorn.
Thanx Yellow! - I had never heard the term 'Unicorn' before. I guess I've been living in a cave for too long....
I have no, zero interest in a Unicorn now...I like one-on-one fucking...if/when I get bored of this, maybe I'll try a Unicor
Yes, thanks for the correction -- should have been Pretty Woman.
I'm using the definition of unicorn that seems pretty obvious from the prior post of the guy who described fining a something equivalent to what some call "soul mate" or "other half" -- he certainly didn't seem to talking about an ATF.
Moreover, it seems his hopes were to find just that and the hobby was something of a filler as he'd given up on getting there after failures in the usual routes. Then it shows up here -- if he'd really come to the conclusion that such a relationship was not a reality for his life he simply would not have found it -- unicorns don't exist so he would have still seen the relationship as a P4P situation.
In either case, unicorn doesn't mean what I think you believe it means.
And no, I'm not searching for a unicorn. Funny thing is, I'm pretty sure I've found a great candidate, if I were searching for a unicorn.
I have never felt a connection with a P4P girl. I dont fall in love easy. Only a few times in my life have I really felt love for another person. Thats why its a gift/special. P4P is obviously transaction based companionship. There is no fantasy of a real connection. Soul mate never comes to mind. I see it more as a business relationship...like a friends with benefits coworker. Someone I know well, who I trust in a professional capacity and really enjoy in short time intervals as an acquaintance, who I am physically attracted to and bang with out attachment.
Its all very superficial to me and I'm sexist in my thoughts. I know going into these situations I'm looking at the girl as an object of my desire and want them to dress a certain way. I want a GFE sometimes, because I need to feel intimacy, or PSE sometimes, because I want to fulfill a fantasy. I think by nature of it all, its all about me. All of my friends who claimed to have a 3-some with civi girls said the girls were into each other and he was there for the show and got a little action. When I did a 3-some with two providers, the girls focus was 100% on me. Thats what I pay for really, is to be treated like a king for a little while.
My unicorns are the ones who are what I consider to be 'super hot', who can make me feel like its not a service and fulfill the fantasy I have at the time. There is a lot of unicorns LOL
Maybe I'm spending too much time reading the EH board, but OMG is the term overused!
Seems any gal over a RL 7 (ie. TER 8-9) in looks and will fuck for $100 less than the average TER escort is a Unicorn.
All that aside, no I'm not looking for love. Chemistry and connection are all part of the experience along with (for me) finding someone I never tire of repeating with, but fairy tale endings, I don't think so. I prefer to have my cake and eat it too.
Today the term unicorn is many times in reference to "the hot vs. crazy matrix ' video on youtube. A unicorn is over an 8 hot and under a 3 crazy. Good looking and totally chill. She should be captured and saved for further study.
I don't want my chick's having a horn.
The majority of animals that have horns, also happen to be male.
When someone finds there precious unicorn, she most likely will have a penis.
Unicorns do exist! Bi-sexual, Open minded, Poly-amorous, No Jealousy, Nudist, Swinger, etc...etc...
Xox
Elle (The Sexy Swinger)
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Like a true unicorn.
You are correct young lady.
By the way, according to the legend about unicorns, they can only be tamed by a virgin.
Just sayin'