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saturnsky 340 reads
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When I am with a woman I don't want any distractions. I would hate for you to be left out. Nothing personal. Some of us ladies who love women just want the touch, taste and smell of a woman...selfish I know. I get plenty of dick on the job, if this ever went down it will have nothing to do with work as far as I am concerned..

Since there have been instances in which some clients have fallen head over heels for an escort and vice versa, would anyone ever consider this?  Would like to hear from providers as well. Just reading articles in which some escorts have been interviewed about their lives in the business.

Wall street male, meets a beautiful young escort.......why wouldn't it happen.
No different than them meeting under different circumstances....IMHO.
Some times, boy+girl=love. ( that's life ) No great mystery.

Sometimes lawn boy meets girl and becomes the envy of many of us, but without the marriage and commitment thing

-- Modified on 9/25/2012 12:13:38 AM

saturnsky323 reads

Pity we don't live in the same state...

saturnsky341 reads

When I am with a woman I don't want any distractions. I would hate for you to be left out. Nothing personal. Some of us ladies who love women just want the touch, taste and smell of a woman...selfish I know. I get plenty of dick on the job, if this ever went down it will have nothing to do with work as far as I am concerned..

Bill, you need to post more my man! Sorry I missed you last time..boy am I ever lol.

-- Modified on 9/24/2012 6:14:39 PM


I met and fell in love with a client, and vice versa.  Our relationship lasted on and off for 4 years.  I loved him deeply.  What broke us up is his substance abuse problem.  It makes him paranoid, abusive and he lies.   The issue became worse as our relationship went on, perhaps he just couldn't hide the addiction as well in the long run.

Had he been willing to stop the drug use and get to the root of why he was using, I could have imagined us married and happy.  Life is not always perfect and I don't expect that - abuse is not something I will ever accept.

So to summarize, our breakup had nothing to do with my being a sex worker and him being a client.

Would I consider getting involved with a client again?  Absolutely if its the right person.  People are people and I see a lot deeper than a label; client or sex worker.  We are talking about human beings.   How two people meet who fall in love is not important - its only matters that they met.


Madison





Posted By: geronimotorq
Since there have been instances in which some clients have fallen head over heels for an escort and vice versa, would anyone ever consider this?  Would like to hear from providers as well. Just reading articles in which some escorts have been interviewed about their lives in the business.

pixiestick306 reads

to fall in love or marry them.

imo not possible for me with an escort.


the only lasting contact might be How ya doin emails couple times a year to a favorite but she would have to initiate.

Posted By: geronimotorq
Since there have been instances in which some clients have fallen head over heels for an escort and vice versa, would anyone ever consider this?  Would like to hear from providers as well. Just reading articles in which some escorts have been interviewed about their lives in the business.

Some of the providers I have been with are the most incredilble women I've ever spent time with. Now I'm not naive, I understand that they are getting paid to spend time with me, but you can only fake so much. An added bonus is that they are great lays and you know they'll do the things that you enjoy, and that they are secure enough in their own sexuality that they won't be shy about asking you to do what they enjoy to get them off. The confidence that they generally have from having men pay to spend time with them is incredibly sexy too.

saturnsky293 reads

A woman is paid to go through the menu of items she either enjoys, can do but not necessarily her fave or does for the money, that can certainly change once the money is off the table.

We are on our best behavior when working and will deal with somethings that we would not put up with in our private lives.  Just saying...

Such foolishness should be avoided at all cost.
I will avoid any escort that I start to have feelings for.
Learned that the hard way.


if she fell in love, but if this is a life she needs to feel good about herself, you can't touch that mentality. I know very few women who are here for the sex and attention, and those are the ones that seem to be in the business for a very long time. The ones who are here to further a career, education, etc. can leave and never look back. There are some women who really are at their very best being hookers, and it gives them a sense of security and self worth. I never got that, but I have seen it happen.

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Posted By: London Rayne
if she fell in love, but if this is a life she needs to feel good about herself, you can't touch that mentality. I know very few women who are here for the sex and attention, and those are the ones that seem to be in the business for a very long time. The ones who are here to further a career, education, etc. can leave and never look back. There are some women who really are at their very best being hookers, and it gives them a sense of security and self worth. I never got that, but I have seen it happen.

crazyshit288 reads

There are several girls who worked at the old Jillian Bradley's down on Wall Street that married their clients.

If this is your social outlet, then guess what?  That's who you are gonna get to know.  Same as work.  People spend more time at work than any other place in their lives, so it's not surprising that work spawns relationships.

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