I've decided to make this post because many providers I've seen just don't understand this important point: for many middle aged gents, it's all about that second pop....The first pop is good of course. On a scale of 1 to 10 for me its usually a four to six. But the *second* pop is where it's at, and from what I hear I'm not alone.... 7 to 10 on the "dickter" scale. After the first, I achieve erection again pretty quickly. I do not require any more effort the 2nd time around - often less. I need at least a thirty
minute interval for that 2nd pop to be earthmoving. An hour is better. I'm sure someone else can explain the biology involved. Though I have had plenty of 2 pop sessions in one hour, I go with the flow and do not push for this in that timeframe. However, in a 2hr session there is plenty of time for GFE/BFE, licking her to a nice O, our favorite positions and 2 pops for moi, one in the first hour and one near the end.... So ladies, if your middle aged gent is too shy to bring this up (I'm not!), *talk to him* - you'll be doing both the gent and yourself a favor. The way to becoming the object of his affections (ie regular biz) might just be that 2nd pop....

My experience has shown that two pops in a single hour are actually quite a rarity. Though not unheard of, certainly. I'm always more than willing to give that second effort if time allows, but find that more often than not, the refracory period (time between pops) is simply too long for most gentlemen to pop twice. I always give them a big grin and say "well, its still a heck of alot of fun trying for it anyways".

However, when a man books 90 minutes or 2 hours with me, I've always just assumed that at least two pops were a given. I myself don't see why a gentleman would book 2 hours unless he knows he can go multiple rounds and is expecting it.

Your post leads me to believe that some of the women you are seeing expect to only go one round, regardless of how long you've scheduled with them, and that honestly surprises me. Multiple pops for a multiple hour session just seems like a no-brainer to me.

Couldn't have said it better... the "hardest" decision for me in an hour session is whether to have one fast and try for a second (which might be questionable in an hour), or just enjoy the hour for the first one.  Several ladies in Dallas have 75 or 90 minute sessions which are perfect.  Of course, it's all good... only wish that I had to make that decision much more often!

I always go in hoping for two cups for an hour session,but realize it's not always in the cards.I agree with SinsOfTheFlesh on two counts,it's still fun to try!and for a multi hour session it should be a given.I'm on the north side of the big 5-0 but my "little friend" still thinks he's in his Twenties!

2nd pop.  When I first started hobbying nearly 6 years ago, I always wanted to get 2 pops in a 1-hr. date and 3 in a longer date.  Well, Sometimes that happens and sometimes Mr. Happy just doesn't cooperate.  

It is NOT the quality of the lady.  I have been with some gorgeous ladies who get the 2nd pop from me on one date and not on another.  Sometimes I think it is diet related.  I try to montitor what I eat 48 hours before the date.  I am not a scientist.

Any ideas?

but I've pretty much gotten away from eating heavily recently and have dropped that 25lbs I picked up when I retired from active duty. Also I find it important to be adequately hydrated. I really have to make a program out of that - I often do not drink enough (water, that is....). Alchohol? No effect that I can determine.....

Amen Brother.  I don't have much hope for two pops and I stopped putting that sort of pressure on myself years ago.  I still book two hours most of the time and I am certainly in no rush.  The big one comes and it is VERY big. Honestly, the last thing on my mind is trying to get it up again before my time is up.

Different strokes for different folks...

If you have booked for two hours, then there shouldn't be a problem, unless you're having dinner with her or spending too much time conversing.

I always try to go for more than one round, but I usually can tell if a gentleman only wants one. If not, then he'll tell me he's done. All you need to do is have better communication.

Remember, darlin':  Some men feel awkward if you ask them to go another round. They sometimes feel inadequate (although they shouldn't)if they can't get it up twice in an hour.  So, it's really up to the gentleman to ask if he's not receiving what he expects/wants, especially if young ladies are a bit shy that way. I'm not sure who you are seeing, but anyone whom I know has always offered more than one pop in two hours. If you cannot get the feeling for at least a half-hour inbetween, and you've already spent 10 minutes talking, then another 40 minutes in the sack, then you won't have time for another one in 30 minutes. Afer all, most of us are not time watchers, but we do have hourly rates, hon. But I get your point on the two-hour date thing. You need to see other people, love.

Hugs,
Ciara

Love to get that third good one out of you in an hour!  My mouth is a machine *lol*.

It looks like I fall in the majority, as well.  Two pops in 1 hr. is a rarity with me and I probably fall in that "middle aged" category ...LOL.

Also, I've been known to book 2-3 hrs. with some providers because I enjoy spending unrushed intimate time with them.  For me, it's not just the number of "pops" that counts.  I enjoy our entire journey together, even though we may not always get to that final destination in the end ...LOL.

-TheKarateKid-

I find that the best way to get me back up to speed is to act real nasty.  A good show is better than trying to revive the pooped snake orally.  It's too sore from the first pop to appreciate a good oral, but what makes the l'il champ rise to the occasion is some stimulus, and a horny, nasty demeanor works for me (maybe not for others).  So dirty talk, wantonness, unbridled horniness works well with the biggest sex organ (the brain).  Then, when it's hard, no problems going for two.  I'm guessing I can go for three or more if the lady is willing to entertain.

I'm not sure who this gentleman is seeing, but I've always offered more than one if the gentleman can manage it and wants it.

Here I sit, scratching my head.

Hugs,
Ciara

It usually takes a hour for me to pop once. For me its the time spent getting to the pop that counts. what sucks is when time runs out and she has another appointment. so you can't go longer and leave without a pop.

LOL Amen to that!

For me and most, by the time you hit mid-50s, its one pop a day, if lucky.  Nonetheless, I love to book 2 hours, but because it gives a chance for extended foreplay, then a period of kissing/cudling afterwards.  What I hate is the provider who jumps up after the pop and expects you to leave regardless of the time - I only repeat with those who are willing to extend and lay for a period and recover slowly - ideally with mutual kissing and massage (all within the time rreserved of course).