I recently published my website and haven't started publicizing it much yet - I'm still working out the kinks.

However I got some very nasty emails from a very determined 'man' yesterday. He emailed via both my previous email address and site and the one I have now (the evolution has been documented on another forum, email me if you'd like to know which).

Both of his email addresses are now blocked by me and if he should send from any other addresses I'll do the same as I did with his last couple - read a couple of words and see what he's doing, don't read the rest, block and delete.

MY QUESTION - is this something commonly companions on the web go through? Are there a lot of guys like this?

I'm really not interested in wondering about their motivations, just wondering if this is a common thing - Ladies?

Chloe Kensington xxx

inadequate numbers of reviews for one Katie to have any opinions on the OP's question, and the quality of website for the OP Katie. Mikey, Mikey, Mikey! What have I told you about posting under the influence!

Hey Chloe,

GREAT site! Keep it up! I'm enjoying watching the progression!

I occasionally get mean comments on my site, which I promptly delete. I've even received an odd text message. There are weirdos out there! We get messages from religious zealots and just strange men. Fortunately, there are enough good guys to make up for it!

Kisses,
Katie

One young lady I've seen repeatedly has had several former clients go south on her and become hostile in their communication. Don't know why this is so, but it does seem to occur.  Now if this is someone you've never Meg, then who knows. There are all sort of psychos out there. Block and ignore - block and ignore.  And be very safe!

There arent ALOT of guys like that, but yes, there are SOME! Like the other Katie said, we get all kinds. Dont let them get to you and just keep blocking the idiots! Its the only thing you can do. Certainly NEVER answer them! It just fuels their insanity. Good luck and feel free to email me if you ever need advice, etc. HUGS!!!!

Aww, that's sad! Some of my best clients/friends are in NM. Obviously not this poor sap.

But I've heard of Tito's and may try it.  Usually, I drink Luksusova or Sobieski.  And when I'm feeling flush I go for Ketel One.

I want to see where you rate as far as reviews. There's no link to that.

You said yourself your pix suck. You look squat, though you're 5' 8"? Just repeating what you said.

Also, $700 for the first hour? Really? Hope you get that. I wouldn't pay you for it, but that's just me.

I mean, your photos aren't very flattering. Have no idea about your experience. And right away you posted a thread about a guy that was less than happy with you.

In my opinion, and I know I'm gonna hear shit about this, is you need to justify yourself. Where are your reviews? Who's this scumbag?

Lady, the ball's in your court. You can't 'out' the guy on the boards, but I'm sure there's more than one lady that'll help you make his life hell.

As far as motivations, you give what you get. It's reciprocal.

We're not friends. We're not lovers. We're not a couple.

I pay you to fuck me. And at your prices you better fuck the taste out of my mouth if you want a damn good review....

just been informed about how to keep undesirables off my site (at least one of the communications was through the comments ability on my site) and I'll sort out the technical side of that tomorrow.

Thanks very much for the offers of help both on and off the board, much appreciated!

Chloe xxx

I'll admit, you have more than I wrote. But like I said, you have more than I wrote.

Know what I'm sayin'?

I'd be more apt to take advice from a lady with 30, 40, 70, 100+ reviews....

also you're predictably not getting the point - I'm not aiming at 1 hour meetings. Amongst other points that went way over your head.

I'm surprised someone as rude and ignorant as you is allowed on this board.

Also, if being rude and ignorant would get someone banned from this board there would be almost nobody here.  LOL!  Just take it all with several grains of salt.  Or some vodka.  That's what I do.

I HATE to agree with MP67.

However, your site does kind of suck.

I am a newbie.  Maybe the veterans will disagree.  I am just learning as well.  Everything that I have read about, has gone against the grain of your site.  It just seems that you can't command the rates etc. that you desire.  That being said.  There is someone for everyone.  There just MAY be a provider out there that will see my uneducated ass.

I am not attempting to flame you.  Maybe I am WAAY off base here.  

Just seems that the prices etc.,  are ludicrous w/o reviews.  Especially w/o facial pics.

I do hope that I maybe wrong.  Who am I to rag on someone just starting out?

Maybe you are an exceptional provider?

Sorry for the rant.

And sadly misinformed.

Not everyone does this internet/review thing. I have been a 'provider' for a while - new terminology - in several countries as a matter of fact.

If you are thinking the review/attack model here is the way things have traditionally gone, or a good way to go, think again.

Or whom you're answering to.

It's MP67. Weird is one person's bafflement, and another's lucidity.

The choice is yours....

You've made it clear your relevance is tied to your trade, and took offense in your OP.

Again, the choice is your's.

What did you expect, newbie? Everyone would bow down and say 'Awww. Poor little ho. Let's beat up the guy that did her wrong in her eyes.'....

Not me, lady.

Welcome to the GD Board....!

About the emails, ignore them.

I really believe that what we put out into the world, it what we get back from it...giving negative emails any thought or attention only serves to feed the negative energy... Im sure you get far more positive and productive emails...that is what deserves your thought and energy, not someone trying to bring you down.

On kind of the same note, I will say please dont self depreciate yourself! Especially on your own website! I think you look great in your photos, not squat at all!  We are our own worst critics...you dont even want to know what I think of my own photos!!  lol

Really though, you dont want to advertise that you think you look squat, you want to advertise that you are a fabulous, tall leggy brunette.  That is the impression you want to give guys when they look at your pictures, not leave them with a negative connotation.

I think your site looks great btw...! Best of luck

Her question is to other providers, trying to get a measure on the prevalence of weirdos that stalk over email.

Your site sucks, and your attitude is worse.

Tried to give you constructive criticism and you shit allover me.

I wouldn't piss on your ass if your guts were on fire.

You think you're entitled, and that's your first fault. Cuz you spread your legs? Please!

You have no idea how many wonderful ladies inhabit this site that don't take their customers for granted.

I'd like to meet the guy or two that gave you carte blanche, telling you you were the shit and educate their dumb asses.

I'll turn you on to something. This is my decorum. I would totally lay into into your ignorant ass if I wasn't muzzled.

What you see is cuz the mods let it be.

If I had my way, I'd lay waste to you and your attitude....

Thank you Nicole, that makes sense!

Actually I've been having big problems with my browser and know that a lot of things I see are stretched out horizontally. I'm not sure how to fix that but I guess I better get to it.

Incidentally I think the photo of my legs isn't way off at all, I am leggy but that's not the first thing that people notice about me.

OK I'm in a movie break so I'm off but I'll attend to these things quickly, have a great night!

Chloe xxx

Posted By: NicoleSaunders

About the emails, ignore them.

I really believe that what we put out into the world, it what we get back from it...giving negative emails any thought or attention only serves to feed the negative energy... Im sure you get far more positive and productive emails...that is what deserves your thought and energy, not someone trying to bring you down.

On kind of the same note, I will say please dont self depreciate yourself! Especially on your own website! I think you look great in your photos, not squat at all!  We are our own worst critics...you dont even want to know what I think of my own photos!!  lol

Really though, you dont want to advertise that you think you look squat, you want to advertise that you are a fabulous, tall leggy brunette.  That is the impression you want to give guys when they look at your pictures, not leave them with a negative connotation.

I think your site looks great btw...! Best of luck

Consider the emails an "occupational hazzard"!  Take the good with the bad...personally the good I have found definitely out weigh the bad!  

Lemme 'splain sumthing to ya.  This board is a free-for-all/food fight.  And you're new to it.  So my friendly advice is for you not to get too combative or defensive in your responses to replies you don't like.  Also keep in mind that it probably won't help you attract more business.  Please take a deep breath...and have a nice evening.

Per the opening page of the Discussion Boards section; "Please don't post anything that is simply being mean, uses foul language, or that gives out sensitive information about someone. These posts will be deleted."

Apparently the moderator is asleep at the wheel, because if your were on the fringe in your OP, you crossed the line with this one.

then I have bridge to sell you.

Really, I'm watching.  That header says nothing about kissing ass or being kind.  MP67 is as entitled to his opinion as you are yours.  Misguided isn't against any rules.  I'll let you decide which of you I'm referring to.

Now, back to the blackjack table.  They're waiting for me to deal.

Anyone wanna educate her to my status as a poster and why...? lol!!!

but in your defense she doesn't handle a disenting opinion very well.

If you have something adverse to say, count to ten(lol)and then deliver. Take into consideration the arrogance on both sides of the coin here before you berate someone.

Her site doesn't SUCK but i've seen better also. I wouldn't see anyone at those rates either but someone MAY. Ain't no thang.

Hate being muzzled, and giving you a reason why.

Never complained about you being fair or just, and actually have to thank you cuz of the alternative.

After you leave the BJ table go hit the Roulette. Put your money on the third and a side bet on '0'.

Don't have to tell you about the line on Craps...

thats part of THEIR reason for posting....ie to get free advertising. Pretentious as hell(not to mention they feel entitled).

It presents a certain sophisticated image but there isn't a lot of content of who you are and what you offer. Your rates are over twice what I normally pay and that may piss someone off.

But if see a site and it's out of my price range I just move on, no reason for me to get upset.

so given that there is no way for me to establish an opinion. Venomous to one is matter-of-fact to another. Some ladies determine anything that doesn't litterally kiss their ass as venomous and rude. I'm not here to kiss anyone's ass or their toy to make jump through hoops.

If her fucking question was directed to providers, she could've, should've posted it on the PO board.

Another, you know as well as I do if anyone asks a stupid ass question, I'll jump their shit.

Grow the fuck up.

I drink, I'm tired, and have no patience for idiocy.

Wanna hook up with her no-review-ass, that's your gig.

Otherwise, STFU!!!

I'm right, and that's all there is to it. Fucking lady, and I use the term loosely, is testing my ire.

She's new, don't know shit, and she needs to get her stripes just like everybody else.

Tell me I'm fucking wrong!

There are some not so nice people that contact us ladies.Just keeping doing what you have been doing and blocking his email addresses and do not respond.Eventually,this person will give up if they are not getting a response.A few times I have gotten some very rude emails thankfully this is not a regular occurence.Every lady has been new at some time and had to start at the beginning with pictures and a website it is a learning experience.I would think if there was constructive criticism of her website why not pm her?Instead of going on and on about something that had nothing to do with what she asked.She did not ask anyone for opinions regarding her website like some ladies have done here in the past then by all means be honest.She asked us ladies about a guy being nuts and sending nasty emails.
Chloe,unfortunately not everyone on this site is nice there are some that are very rude you have to have some thick skin while dealing with some on this board.
Good luck to you!

"Some ladies determine anything that doesn't kiss their ass as venomous and rude ".


 I agree while adding, some guys are much more defensive and similar to ladies, never stopping until their last persnickety word, especially noted with guys raised by women.

Many of those guys turn out gay, or live their lives in pseudo relationships , yearning for  constant attention of their male bonding club , consumed with anger, love, hate and jealousy towards women, fueled by alcohol.

Providers will usually benefit when ignoring emails or board posts from those boys.

Any of us could find a civie to screw if we wanted to.  We all have enough going on for us to find someone at a bar, or even at church, to get our rocks off.

However, we choose not to because the hobby is a much saner and even more moral way of getting some pussy.

It would seem to me maybe that this board is not for you.

"They also don't get nasty if someone says something they don't like.  As a result they are respected.  You'd do well to follow their example."

 If you believe chloe was "nasty" in any of her replies on this thread, you must have superior   male bonding protection skills, and extreme difficulties with  OTC ladies .
Personally, I find ladies who can muster a bit of clever sarcasm, thoroughly refreshing .
 

Why do you people do something so dumb (no other way of saying it). Let's assume this individual wants really harass you, the individual can gazillion free email addresses and continue to do so and probably will since you asked for a war.

Chloe dear, there is only one thing and one thing to remember, there will be nut jobs and you can't please everyone and if you try; you will go mad. The answer is ignore, ignore and do what you have to and take deep breadth, calm down and don't tell the world what you did to ignore one moron.

To answer question, no I don't. If a Website doesn't work right, I move on. I am not put on this world to correct every one, hell, I can't even keep up with myself.

It looks like you are creating this drama to post link to your site as many times as you can.

Now that's funny! What fucking world do both of you live in?

because she isn't kissing your ass? Because she is telling the truth?

Guys like you couldn't laid if your lives depended on it. You and that drunken fool that you are cyber rimming are the pathetic ones who NEED the hobby to have sex, and God knows what else. You couldn't even get laid in a bar by the biggest heifer in Boston.

Chloe Kensington tagged your ass after one thread, lol. Wait until she reads about your stalking.

I think she's smart and feisty, and calling you a creep made me LMAO. Hey, if the size 7 shoe fits!

When is Mikey NOT "under the influence?"  lol!

just give him more time to think up crazy ass shit to say?

shake together UNCHILLED, and serve straight up with no olive.

You have a GD Clusterfuck Martini.  Enjoy!

FUCK YOU ALL, YOU GODDAMNED PRETENTIOUS WHORES. To those who refused to self promote....bless you

You have to understand MP is a bit "off".  Read his other posts and you quickly determine he is not quite human.  His brain has been floating around in formaldahide for far too long--he even admits it on many of his posts.

Sadly some folks can take any post and flip it into an insult, even if they have to go off topic to do so.  Last I looked, venomous e-mails are not OK based upon someone's website.  If a guy does not like a web site, he can always move to the next one.

it looks like MP has cooperated by posting some examples himself.  

Obviously, this is deeply meaningful to you.  Let's chat some more when your cramps fade out.  I'm sure we all need to know all the wonderful things Mikey knows, so we will listen very intently and make eye contact as you tell us.   Okay?  You can even begin your post 'all of the deep things Mikey knows that Fucken newbies don't know'.  Would you like that?

Did something real happen to you today?  Would you like some cold water?

this just sounds bad here.  And your site does make you sound a little high on yourself and your expectations.  But that is your right.

Ha ha, I love it! I guess you're referring to that MP67 creep.

I couldn't care less if your website is shitty or fancy: I only really care about your photos, measurements, and REVIEWS.  You have only a few photos up so I have no clue if it accurately represents you in real life.

7 hundred? Are you serious? I have seen porn stars and top rated ladies who charge less than that yet have a stellar track record in both performance and appearance. In order to command $700 price range your name needs to be a bit better known in a large community such as TER.

Also, without ANY reviews, you'll have difficulty getting steady business at $700/hr price range.
Men are left in the dark about you without reviews: Are your photos accurate? Are they a fair representation? Are you on time? Are you friendly or argumentative and bitchy? Do you constantly txt message during the session or are you a lady respectful of our time? Are you an excellent GFE or just waiting for the session to be over?  What's on your menu? What's off limits?  Do you do greek? Do you enjoy having one of my massive cum shot unloaded right at your face or stomach, or would you just swallow them, making a sensational gulping sound while at it?  Do you enjoy licking my taint and massaging my balls? Can we stick a finger or two in you or is that off limits?

You get the point. I certainly do NOT enjoy bombarding a lady with these types of questions during the session. It isn't gentlemen-ly and it could come off being too direct / perverted. I want to know before hand so we could keep things flowing as naturally as possible without coming off rude or too graphic in the beginning. Just as you like to think of yourself as a classy elegant lady, men also like to think of ourselves as gentlemen who would rather be respectful and not cross any boundaries. This is where reviews come to play.

While I agree that someone's credence isn't JUST related to her reviews, it plays a fairly HUGE role for those who are new or relatively to the business. You know it, and I know it. Everybody knows it. Denying this fact would only serve to prove that you're posting here in order to stir things up (maybe) to gain attention for yourself.  

Also, I too am wondering the same thing that AnonymousFun asked. Why must you constantly post a link to your website on every post?  It seems the purpose of your original post was quite clear.

If you wanted constructive criticism, be a lady about it and trust that many of us are here to be helpful. We get nothing out of lying but it helps you in the long run if you get honest feedback. MP67 does have a brutal way of being honest and tells it like how he sees it.  I happen to agree with his views, but hopefully I wrote it in a less brutal manner.

DA

why you have to pay to get laid?  Quit being such a hostile, misogynistic piece of shit and you'll find that women might actually like you.

As for the men on here that are genuinely good guys, you should tell the others your secret to YMMV.  Isn't it amazing what providers will do for you when you just act like a decent human being?  

It never ceases to amaze me that *all* of my best clients could easily get laid without paying for it.  They do this for the fun, discretion, simplicity, variety, and the dirty sex acts that a civvies won't agree to.  They don't do it because they have no other options.

The sex industry could be so much better for everyone if it weren't for scum that get a thrill out of making others miserable.

Don't you have a cum stained floor to mop?

Thanks to all the idiots that have been totally disrespectful to you, you have got a lot of free advertising and your name out there So, really the laugh is on them.

Keep on posting and be sure to keep adding your website link just to irritate the s*** out of them. I am sure your hits have gone way up in the past few days, hopefully turning into a few dates....look how long this thread is, and all you had to do was ask a simple question. Kudos to you I say! Great marketing and you didnt even have to try.

Right between the eyes.

Was told in PM by someone I respect immensely that I had been quite 'easy' on her in my initial post. Then she went off on my ass and I wasn't having it. Especially from some one that has no reviews and no way of knowing WTF she was about and what she offered.

I don't have to explain my fucking self. Everybody here that knows me knows that. What you see is what you get. Brutal? Sure. But they can't deny when you're on my good side I'll fucking fight for your ass.

Her trip, I have no idea. Just didn't appreciate her constant need to be a ****.

Maybe I was wrong. I was certainly under the influence, which I'm starting to work on now, again. But that's my problem.

Her's? Fuck it. After it all, I think it was a ploy for attention, which she got.

Hope she got a few dates out of it. Butting heads with MP67, I mean.

That's a sad way to resort to getting dates, if you ask me.

Just a splash. Over a glass of Crown on the rocks.

Don't really need it. Just to appease your comment...

You'd do well to read the posts by Edrienne Cole and Reagan Moore.  They have strong opinions, back them up with well-reasoned, well-written posts and don't take shit from anybody.  They also don't get nasty if someone says something they don't like.  As a result they are respected.  You'd do well to follow their example.  There are many other women who post here and do it well.  Just couldn't mention you all.

I do indeed have a job. Work 60+ hours a week, as a matter of fact. Sometimes when I stop and take a shit, I'll get on my iPhone and regale the good people here with my 'unique' humor and sense of entitlement cuz of the PMs I get that ask me to.

Really! It's true! People actually PM me cuz they like my caustic sense of humor and appreciate my antics.

As far as my reviews, they're just reviews. When I want. Or more to the point, when THEY want. I can give a shit about them.

I've seen ladies and didn't review them. It wasn't important to them. Don't forget about the repeats and the civvie ladies, either...

Now, you. When can you post and actually use capital letters and punctuation? You on crack, or what?

Don't fuck with me. You'll lose. I guaran-fucking-tee it.

M-fucking-P67

Look. I know things. Don't ask how cuz I won't tell.

Glad you grew a pair, BTW.

I'll change that to over-sensitive and testy.  Not to mention defensive.  Not the way to attract customers, IMO.

For the better I may add.

I actually wasn't directing my ire at you.  I don't think I've ever read a post of yours that I disagreed with, including this one.  

That is to say, you are right on all counts.  The good guys can easily get laid without paying for it, for many reasons paying for it is a better option for them, and this board isn't for me.

You don't know dick about mrfisher. That dude has more class than you'll ever hope to achieve. When I grow up, I'd hope to be as cool as him.

NEED to hobby? Fucker please. This is convenient. That's all. No bullshit. Just hand over cash and get it wet. He and I know that.

Grow the fuck up!

Just answer PMs and act accordingly, meaning, see who'd like to see me.

Sorry to burst your bubble...!

you're village drunk, stalker, aren't you?  thought you took pride in that?  people like asianmultialiasdrunk follow you around and compete for it.  inicky is your misogynist wingman.  in this "funny" world you create.

You have to read between the lines with limp dick Mikey. He admits his main purpose in life is to be a spoon, stirring the pot. Other a-holes write him, egging him on, and all of a sudden he thinks he is a star! He's merely a legend in his own mind.

Sifting through the self aggrandizing bs posts, you have gotten some good responses and support. Good luck

If you wanna fight with MP, go ahead.  He doesn't need any help from me.  If you want a pissing contest with me for some reason, that's a shame.  Mainly for you, cuz I've got a huge bladder and a very long hose.  Shut up or drink up.

I like your post, but I have a problem with it. I am a genuine quintesential nice guy. Some guys here would even call me a certain word that Phil no longer allows on the board.

Yes, I am amazed at what providers do for me because I act like a decent human being. I agree with your second paragraph. It's the third one I have a problem with, as i have never in my life been laid by a civie girl. I could never get laid without paying for it and I don't have other options.
I would not be in the hobby if I got laid by civies.
It seems to me that the aholes  are the ones who get the girls. I would never become an ahole just to get laid. I will continue paying and scratching my head.

it deserved one.

Did you even read dannyboy's post?  For some unknown reason, he took a swipe at me so I tapped back.  WTF is your problem?  Clearly you can't even read.  Now go crawl back into your toilet and keep licking.

Ever seen the Little Rascals?  Remember the "HE-man Woman Hater's Club?"  You sound like "Woim" standing behind Butch, saying "yeah, what my buddy mp says."  get a personality of your own.

This stupid thread started with a gal asking about freakish johns.  Then it turned into the ultimate carnival of freakish johns.

The only problem I have right now is that i can't stop myself from goading your dumb ass.

this whole thread is hysterical.  how did you know this would happen?  please post more.

There are so many other ways to promote without being so  blatant. Of course she's not breaking any rules... but still.

One word for the OP: Nooob.

You got into a little pissing contest with MP.  Nothing to do with me.  But you gratuitously threw my name into a post anyway.  That makes you the "Woim."  And to lump me (and MP, too) into the He-Man Woman Haters Club just proves you are even stupider than I'd imagined.  I do not go after women on this board and my posts to Chloe were firm but civil (MP went a bit over the top, but once again you lumped us together).  Talk about a dumb ass.  Please try really hard to remove your head from yours.  I doubt it's possible.

Dude finally came out of his anonymity... LOL

With the exception of the mods, not many people here calls it like how he sees it with brutal honesty.

I happen to know the dude quite well, he gets more p*ssy *for free* than most guys I know.
That should tell you something. Newbs / whiteknights are too busy kissing provider's ass and bend over to everything and anything they do. Some guys don't like to put up with bs like that.

That would describe me. lol   At least we got 2 things in common, unless you got a pitched tent too which would mean we got 3 things in common. lmao

As for paying 700 for a girl with no reviews. Umm, No thanks.  Taking one for the team ain't my thing.  I like knowing exactly WTF I'm gonna get cuz I'm not into wasting each others time.

I got a pitched tent to relieve within 24 hours, but ain't payin 7 for a girl with no reviews.  Unless of course she has special skills like the last porn star I saw, where she took an insanely ridiculous load of mine ( I had saved up for a few days just for her) straight at her face. What made it awesome was she swept all that milky stuff up with her fingers into her mouth.. making sure she got each and every drop. To make it even more spectacular, she then let it drip out of her mouth on to my package, balls, thighs, and belly. She licked it all up again for several minutes, let it drip out again... dabbling and playing with it for a few minutes, until most of it evaporated or got absorbed into my skin. Some she most likely ended up swallowing too.  

To make it absolutely fantastic, she end up giving a tongue lashing BLS down to my taint, saying 'yummy'.  

Now THIS kind of ending would be 700+ worthy just for the cum-lotion massage itself.  lol

and don't forget your link  This thread is great for you.. and the morons who are so against you are in reality helping you. And what is funny they don't even know it!