TER General Board

sooner or later...
FatVern 1242 reads
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1 / 43

The men or the women?

I say the women, I never regret spending money on something I wan't. Once the transaction is over, I'm always left still wanting more.

Dr. joe 32 Reviews 325 reads
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3 / 43
FatVern 299 reads
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4 / 43

If I was leaving unhappy, I wouldn't want more.

 
I'm just saying once the moment is over, it's over.

FatVern 330 reads
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5 / 43
Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 461 reads
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6 / 43

You haven't been seeing the right provider, I can't get offended for anyone else of course, however, I highly disagree. (At least in my experience) Either you just want more because it was that good or either the provider didn't satisfy you.  

My dates usually tend to overstay, when they bathe I always scrub their backs, I listen to what they are saying, pretty much do whatever they say(with the exception of bareback) answer their questions, stop during sex and see if they are enjoying themselves, oh and always always have Black Label, scotch, beers and wine as well as snacks. So you tell me in my sessions who gets more. 75% of them don't write reviews or tip (Okay tips are not mandatory nor expected but to me it's an act chivalry)also some are reviewers and don't review me even when I went the extra mile so to me, men get more. I could be ordinary of course, but it's not my style. You'd be surprised that most hobbyist won't go the extra mile the way you do with them.  All of this for 300-350/hr damn what man could possibly feel that they are getting yipped at  that rate the only thing I'm missing is to juggle and spit fire out of my mouth.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 282 reads
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7 / 43
12pointbuck75 18 Reviews 272 reads
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8 / 43

The Ladies earn their pay that I have met and make a good wage.    The market and the demand determine the price of the services.   The ladies have been all been outstanding and beautiful.      I am well satisfied with the services I have received.     The only thing bad about the trip to the alter is the Atlanta traffic.     FatVern it sounds like you need to make multi hour appointments or switch providers.

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 281 reads
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9 / 43

Different winners. Some days the provider gets more, but I'd say most days I get the most. For example, I had a date yesterday and she showed up ten minutes early with a bottle of premium, 12 year old rum (I'm actually a pirate) I was shocked! We went on to have a session that left me weak in the knees and with JFL (just fucked look) hair. I definitely got more yesterday and it was an awesome feeling. Some providers, like my date yesterday and Roxy with her back scrubs, are just real pros with a lot of class and those rare women understand how to make a guy feel like a man. I do this because of those women.

beccablossoms See my TER Reviews 285 reads
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12 / 43

I don't think this is a conversation worth having.  You're paying for a service.  If you get the service you paid for and you leave happy, you got what you paid for.  

I don't see this topic any different than wondering who gets more, my doctor or me, my hair stylist or me, my mechanic or me, etc.  I do my research, much like gentlemen should research their providers.  After I receive services and the money leaves my hands, it's none of my business where it goes or who gets more out of the situation.  I leave with what I wanted.  If I don't like the service I received, I find a new doctor, hair stylist, mechanic, etc.  

The hobby is no different. We're providing a service.  It's up to you to find the provider that provides services that satisfy you.  What a provider does with the funds isn't your business and comparing the two is comparing apples and pickles.

octavia.lexa See my TER Reviews 328 reads
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13 / 43

because hobby is pay as you go plan, marriage is pay when you don't any longer plan...

in hobby men get what they like and need a lot of, in the marriage women get what the like and crave the most : stability, security and hopefully bragging rights about being married to a big shot

many escorts brag about having rich suitors, but the smart ones know our clients are not legally bound to us and support is only there as long as we are willing to keep on spreading our legs  

everything i said is generalization and there are exceptions to the rule on both sides...a general question requires a general answer...

 
i apologize in advance to female mongers out there, did not know how to express what i am trying to say using gender neutral word

nothrofboston 24 Reviews 305 reads
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14 / 43

Maybe you need to start seeing guys with bigger balls?

But I hear everything you say. I've only written 1 slamming  
review but have had hundreds of great experiences.

Thank you ladies for being so transparent when you are
doing everything possible to make us crave more and more
 and want to cum again and again and again ... I mean cum
 back again and again. And I love you all for having me back.  

For me, I also want to enjoy you company, laugh and be
comfortable sharing life stories in addition to .....
the sex, sex, sex.

-- Modified on 1/14/2016 2:35:08 AM

lopaw 29 Reviews 326 reads
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15 / 43

But marriage is shoved down girls throats from the day we are born as the ultimate thing to strive for. What a joke.

Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 274 reads
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16 / 43

I can't agree with you that women get more out of marriage, unless the woman has a good man by her side a loyal man, a man that respects her, then marriage is nothing but a piece of paper. A serious relationship(married or not) takes a lot of work. Being married and both parties being loyal and faithful takes a lot of work. Stability and security you give yourself, never forget that. Marriage isn't a guarantee anything and women are usually the ones to do all the work to try to save it. Marriage is a title and that's really all it is. Just because a woman is married doesn't mean she gets more out of it, it means she has to deal with more in order to avoid divorce. Have you seen the divorce rates in the United States?  

We are providers, I'm sure you have seen several married men, now tell me is his wife (who doesn't know what he does) getting the most out of her marriage? I call a spade a spade. Big shot husband or not those rules don't apply.   In my humble opinion.

Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 263 reads
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17 / 43

and so many girls fall for it, thinking it's like the fairytales anything worth having takes time and effort. There is no true beneficiary in marriage, both parties if with the right person gain more. The same way both parties suffer if effort is not put into it by both parties. Men and/or women don't apply. You can't add a specific gender to the equation it's like saying that every man you see walking down the street is a hobbyist every single one, every man in the whole world is hobbyist cops, priest, everything with a penis.

Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 285 reads
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18 / 43


END OF MESSAGE

octavia.lexa See my TER Reviews 303 reads
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19 / 43

the truth she is the one he goes to at the end of the day and snuggles up to and takes out to corporate parties and presents as his lady...he wants to get out of your place and move on with his day once he gets his o...

Moreover, sexual fidelity and/or infidelity does not necessarily mean a successful partnership of two souls/ marriage ...

i have a good client, whose beloved wife has cancer, needless to say she is not feeling too sexual since her treatments started...just because he is with me does not mean he loves her less..i do not know story behind every married guy who chooses to see escorts but not all just straight up horny perverts with no standards...but there is that type out there of course who make it a point to f...ck every visiting provider because they can afford it...

 
Posted By: RoxanneHeartNYC
I can't agree with you that women get more out of marriage, unless the woman has a good man by her side a loyal man, a man that respects her, then marriage is nothing but a piece of paper. A serious relationship(married or not) takes a lot of work. Being married and both parties being loyal and faithful takes a lot of work. Stability and security you give yourself, never forget that. Marriage isn't a guarantee anything and women are usually the ones to do all the work to try to save it. Marriage is a title and that's really all it is. Just because a woman is married doesn't mean she gets more out of it, it means she has to deal with more in order to avoid divorce. Have you seen the divorce rates in the United States?  
   
 We are providers, I'm sure you have seen several married men, now tell me is his wife (who doesn't know what he does) getting the most out of her marriage? I call a spade a spade. Big shot husband or not those rules don't apply.   In my humble opinion.

resource101 108 Reviews 266 reads
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20 / 43

I think Roxanne really gets it. She goes overboard to make sure her client has a great time. I am MUCH different than her clients. When I arrive for a date, food and liquor are the furthest things from my mind. I am 100% focused on having a great time and having my date have a great time. Roxanne, if I were with you, I would really appreciate the little things you do and I would review and tip you accordingly. Too many providers look at it like Becca, just a date, just a fuck, then adios muchacho. Hey Rox, when are you visiting Chicago?!

sasha2cute See my TER Reviews 230 reads
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21 / 43
octavia.lexa See my TER Reviews 302 reads
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22 / 43

nobody gives a fuck if you are on backpage , eros or exclusive upscale agency in nyc...
you are still only  desired because you are willing to provide certain service...
when you find your soul mate it is not longer about getting or providing service, sex is pretty generic...emotional connection and care for each is other is what you cannot buy or sell...

Posted By: RoxanneHeartNYC
I can't agree with you that women get more out of marriage, unless the woman has a good man by her side a loyal man, a man that respects her, then marriage is nothing but a piece of paper. A serious relationship(married or not) takes a lot of work. Being married and both parties being loyal and faithful takes a lot of work. Stability and security you give yourself, never forget that. Marriage isn't a guarantee anything and women are usually the ones to do all the work to try to save it. Marriage is a title and that's really all it is. Just because a woman is married doesn't mean she gets more out of it, it means she has to deal with more in order to avoid divorce. Have you seen the divorce rates in the United States?  
   
 We are providers, I'm sure you have seen several married men, now tell me is his wife (who doesn't know what he does) getting the most out of her marriage? I call a spade a spade. Big shot husband or not those rules don't apply.   In my humble opinion.

nothrofboston 24 Reviews 248 reads
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23 / 43

IMHO .... marriage is best served if you intend to have children. Trust and a willingness to work through the ups and downs of life are primary requisites in any relationship. A marriage is just a piece of paper, it's not the commitment that you make from the heart.

When I was married, I'd do anything for my wife. I made real good money and we lived a really nice life., two nice cars, great vacations and dinners out, everything that comes with having a great time with somebody you love. The sex was OK, but I didn't care I had everything else I wanted including a great son. I lived and died with her for over 5 years thru two bouts of cancer. For what? When she recovered former illnesses she changed and wanted a new life, she wanted to be free, to come and go when she wanted and whenever it suited her. She got her wish. I moved on.  

Committment is the foundation of any relationship. The money, while nice, very nice, isn't the anchor, although women get to take half the anchor with them, if not more, but that's a topic for a different board

BTW, I read that phrase TDDWP was from the Middle Ages ... when the average life expectancy was around 35. LOL.

 
Posted By: RoxanneHeartNYC
I can't agree with you that women get more out of marriage, unless the woman has a good man by her side a loyal man, a man that respects her, then marriage is nothing but a piece of paper. A serious relationship(married or not) takes a lot of work. Being married and both parties being loyal and faithful takes a lot of work. Stability and security you give yourself, never forget that. Marriage isn't a guarantee anything and women are usually the ones to do all the work to try to save it. Marriage is a title and that's really all it is. Just because a woman is married doesn't mean she gets more out of it, it means she has to deal with more in order to avoid divorce. Have you seen the divorce rates in the United States?  
   
 We are providers, I'm sure you have seen several married men, now tell me is his wife (who doesn't know what he does) getting the most out of her marriage? I call a spade a spade. Big shot husband or not those rules don't apply.   In my humble opinion.
-- Modified on 1/14/2016 3:23:52 AM

Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 235 reads
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24 / 43

The young think it's easy to be married and fall in love. I never bought into the propaganda, honestly. I agree with you though. It takes work and no party gains more than the other.

octavia.lexa See my TER Reviews 248 reads
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25 / 43

that married only makes sense if you are planning to have kids

wtf?

bigguy30 273 reads
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26 / 43

If you want to get married or not it's up to you.
Also I don't care what anyone says being with just one woman your whole life is crazy.
We are all in this hobby for one reason or another and in my case fuck different woman inside and out of this hobby.

Why worry about the advantages of disadvantages of dating, marriage?
I know in my personal life or hobby life.
This is about having a good time and enjoying the woman that make me happy personally.
It's not just one woman that can do it but a few and I refuse to limit myself in any way.  
The woman all know it up front too.
Posted By: lopaw
But marriage is shoved down girls throats from the day we are born as the ultimate thing to strive for. What a joke.

hbyist+truth=;( 285 reads
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27 / 43

I have no desire to be stuck with one perosn for the rest of my life. That sounds like a life jail sentence to me.

VelvetVacation See my TER Reviews 241 reads
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28 / 43

There is no such of a thing as a "free piece of pussy". For every guy that wants it, there is as female ready to hand it over to get what she wants, even if it is to dump her emotional baggage on him. Marriage is an unrealistic fantasy made up by Religion to control the vagina. It never works out because it is not biologically possible for males and females to only fuck one person for the rest of their life. I once knew a divorced gentleman (married 32 years) that told me there is "No such thing as a Free piece of pussy". He said he could have rented a fabulous New girl every week of his life for what it cost him to get that divorce.

bigguy30 291 reads
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29 / 43

Posted By: hbyist+truth=;(
I have no desire to be stuck with one perosn for the rest of my life. That sounds like a life jail sentence to me.

hbyist+truth=;( 243 reads
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30 / 43

if the wife has checked out and no longer gives a crap who does what to hubby, then she is getting more...as in not having to service the old man.

If she is still in love and wants him, well she is in for heartbreak.  I guess it depends on the state of the marriage.

-- Modified on 1/14/2016 10:49:39 AM

bigguy30 291 reads
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31 / 43

This is why having more than one woman in your life is the way to go.

Posted By: BareVelvet
There is no such of a thing as a "free piece of pussy". For every guy that wants it, there is as female ready to hand it over to get what she wants, even if it is to dump her emotional baggage on him. Marriage is an unrealistic fantasy made up by Religion to control the vagina. It never works out because it is not biologically possible for males and females to only fuck one person for the rest of their life. I once knew a divorced gentleman (married 32 years) that told me there is "No such thing as a Free piece of pussy". He said he could have rented a fabulous New girl every week of his life for what it cost him to get that divorce.

nothrofboston 24 Reviews 251 reads
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32 / 43

who the right woman is. For example, on my soon to be wife's
first sleepover, she asked for separate beds and no sex. I was cool with that, and slept on the couch. Shortly thereafter, feeling guilty, she invited me into the bedroom, but still no sex.

In the morning, she rolled over and asked me if I wanted a bj, what was I supposed to say? So of course, being the gentleman I am,  I let her suck my dick. She sucked my dick again after breakfast, and after we went shopping and brought stuff back to the apartment. She also and asked if I wanted another BJ before she went home. Need I say, always a gentleman. ... she was an average fuck but could suck a dick as well as anyone.  

Fast forward 10 years into our marriage. A long weekend at a very romantic B&B in Newport RI to try to rekindle the fire in our sexual relationship. After a nice wine and dine, when we went to bed and when I tried to fuck her, she said "you don't think you're sticking that THING in me do you?". I answered, "I guess a blow job is out of the question too then, right?" I don't need to tell you her answer. Game. Set. Match. I checked out of the relationship that night.

-- Modified on 1/14/2016 5:24:55 AM

BigPeterJohnson 38 Reviews 219 reads
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33 / 43

if either party is continually left unsatisfied with the endeavor, they leave it.

i am of the opinion that both parties get equal satisfaction from the transaction, albeit in different forms: emotional and physical versus monetary and mental.

kind of a dopey question to ask:  who gets more out of what i do all the time with other people?  i say the other people!

doc, i'm less satisfied than the other people when i do that!  well, as the doctor said, stop doing that!

BigPeterJohnson 38 Reviews 222 reads
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34 / 43

roxanne you know i'd review you, i'd probably give you 10 10 just for attitude.

you are the exception, my dear.  you are an artisan in an discipline where industrial conveyor belt experiences are the norm.

of course you deserve praise and appreciation, and if the east coast guys can't give that to you i say come out to sunny california where gentlemen appreciate true ladies.

BigPeterJohnson 38 Reviews 237 reads
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35 / 43
GaGambler 248 reads
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37 / 43

but yes, I happens to the best of us. I have even agreed with a couple of his posts, a couple out of the thousands he has made that is.

bigguy30 223 reads
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38 / 43

I love how you hate agreeing with me at times. Lol

Posted By: GaGambler
but yes, I happens to the best of us. I have even agreed with a couple of his posts, a couple out of the thousands he has made that is.

nothrofboston 24 Reviews 258 reads
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39 / 43

and as for marriage and sex, I have only one opinion.  
And it won't happen again. For most guys I talk to...

Old Italian proverb ... the first year of your marriage, put  
a coffee bean in a jar next to the bed. You'll won't empty  
that jar if you're still married in 20 years.  

Any opinions on that

TwoMints 242 reads
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40 / 43

Or are they doing you a favor by not reviewing you? (just speculating)

I've had dates that I didn't write a review because my experience or perception of it was a great deal different then what others thought. I chalk these up to me, not the provider. If it where the provider, I'd write the review. So in those cases, I don't do a review because if I write what I honestly thought it might effect her business.  I feel that if I'm going to write the review it's going to be honest and accurate.  

All the extras you provider almost assure that they won't write that review.  

 
Posted By: RoxanneHeartNYC
You haven't been seeing the right provider, I can't get offended for anyone else of course, however, I highly disagree. (At least in my experience) Either you just want more because it was that good or either the provider didn't satisfy you.  
   
 My dates usually tend to overstay, when they bathe I always scrub their backs, I listen to what they are saying, pretty much do whatever they say(with the exception of bareback) answer their questions, stop during sex and see if they are enjoying themselves, oh and always always have Black Label, scotch, beers and wine as well as snacks. So you tell me in my sessions who gets more. 75% of them don't write reviews or tip (Okay tips are not mandatory nor expected but to me it's an act chivalry)also some are reviewers and don't review me even when I went the extra mile so to me, men get more. I could be ordinary of course, but it's not my style. You'd be surprised that most hobbyist won't go the extra mile the way you do with them.  All of this for 300-350/hr damn what man could possibly feel that they are getting yipped at  that rate the only thing I'm missing is to juggle and spit fire out of my mouth.

Senator.Blutarsky 262 reads
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hey mikey 8 Reviews 216 reads
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42 / 43

You do not like anything shoved down your throat!  ;)

(But I do tend to agree with your statement!)

bigguy30 206 reads
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Posted By: Senator.Blutarsky
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