...you go to see is a hot slutty porn star type? With the big hair, 10 inch heels, very well done makeup, and skimpy clothes; who rips your clothes off immediately and demands you to do lewd and obscene things to her?

...or, the classy, upscale, reserved type? Well, dressed, conservative looking, with the dirty Mona Lisa smile hiding her naughty side, but yet, a graceful gliding of a wide stride, and a wiggle like the dolls of the black and white era?

...OR, the saucy, sweet girl next door look? Wearing little to no makeup, a plain but sexy shirt, a nice pair of jeans and the widest most welcoming grin you could have ever wished for?

Which is it? Which is it? Which is it and why!?!

Tell me please-- I am very curious about this one... a girlfriend and I are arguing it over some wine as I type! As the answers come out-- I will post my pick and hers and why we chose it, and how the conversation came about in the first place!

Have at it boys! Spare no details, as though this were a review you were aching to submit!

Dani

It can be either of the first two for me, depending on my mood.  The slutty porn star type is such a fantasy rush and it gets me going in a particular way.  It is a different kind of challenge to rise up (no pun inteneded...) to a woman who is displaying her sexuality this overtly.  

The sophisticated, naughty type, especially if sporting nice strappy heels(!!)is the one that REALLY does it for me.  To see such beauty and feminity and knowing (hoping) what lies beneath is such a wonderful rush when it all begins to unfold.  I love the looking, admiring, flirting, wondering what's under there , wondering just what's going to happen; that's much of the fun of it for me, most of the time.  More anticipation and a little more lead in time is usually my preference.  I love it when the woman takes hold of the situation, if that's what moves her, but I typically like it to start from a more subtle place.  The girl next door type is not my personal first choice, but being a man, I would be very happy to be with her, too!  You know, the spice of life and all...

For me,it's the slutty porn star type that's no-holds barred and that talks dirty to you.And usually it's the dirty talk and slutty attitude that makes the package.If I have a choice between a porn star type that's shy and reserved {not sure where they'd find one of them-LOL},or a girl next door that has the talk and the attitude of a total slut,then give me the girl next door.Remember,it's the look that brings us there........it's the attitude and performance that keeps us returning.

Well, I like the girl next door look.  Seems more natural and less pretentious than the first two options.

Just my 2 cents...

to me, nothing sexier than the jeans and a sexy top, and a big smile - that after a minute or two of pleasantries turns into a horny tigress!

Classy type who gets very naughty.

Definitely the #3 into #1 combo!

"What do we covet? We covet what we see."

I live in a smaller town, so the women I see every day, at the grocery store, at work, or just walking down the street, are dressed casually. I'm easily aroused, so these are the women who I fantasize about.

When I see a provider dressed in jeans, it feels so natural and real - no pretensions, no costume, a different definition of GFE.

pornstar look, they fail.  And that is just not pretty!  Actually very few pornstars can pull that off on a one-on-one situation.  Ciera Sage - in my opinion - can, but she comes off in real life as "lady next door"  

I have heard - but not experienced - that Keisha is also like that...   so - even for "real pornstars" the reputation counts - but the look?  that is for film.

That should be your first clue.

I just like variety. Now in practice it would be B most often then C with A being a somewhat distant 3rd place only because I'm getting too old to keep up.

Of the three types listed, there is no question that the girl next door type would be my choice. The porn star would intimidate the s**t out of me while the classy sort is usually too snotty for this Irish kid raised on the outer fringes of polite society.

However, I'm really more into mature women who have seen more of life and have a better understanding of whho they are and what it's all about.  So, I'd add two more categories of women, both of whom do it for me:

1. the soccer Mom type -- you know, the MILF you see in the grocery store or walking down the street, who takes good care of herself, is aware of her affect on men and just loves it. My area is full of women who fit this description and they just enflame my libido, not to mention more tangible parts!

2. the professional woman -- no nonsense, all business by day, a sesual courtesan by night. In my professional career, I've called on women who fit this type for 25 years. Makes it kind of hard to keep your mind on business.

For me that is like picking between a bougereau, corbet or a Soutine? Can't be done!

But if a gun to my head kinda answer is required? I would pick the girl next-door type. Mostly because my nature is more about comfort over speed. Not to say that speed is not exhilarating from time to time.

Danielle, when it really boils down to the core, I like them all. I like all women types, from the crazed stalkers, to the timid flowers to the kind you have to pursue to the ends.

I own a bicycle, mini van, luxury car and a racecar, and I take each one depending on my mood and need. So call me a Gemini!

The world is stinking with prissy little prima-donnas acting all pretentious as if butter wouldn't melt in their mouth; or frumpy little "nice" girls who ain't got a friggen clue.

 I'm paying for an unremitting, unrepentant nymphomaniacal hose-monster to coax, command and engage me in the most lewd and lascivious acts of sodomy known to man.

If I want the dowdy, sexually inhibited “girl next door” I'll go to E-Harmony.com.

If I want some pretentious queen of bullshit I'll go shopping at Neiman Markus.

(NOTE)"Sodomy" is sometimes defined by certain conservative jurisdictions as most any sexual act outside of coitus intended merely to invoke carnal pleasure.





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Heel don't do anything for me. In fact they turn me off; I worry that the ladies would get injured from those.

I like a classy but not too upscale, down-to-earth lady; dresses with taste and wears little makeup. I love a wide welcoming grin.

I frequently see my regular ATF during non-session times when she wears little or no makeups. She looks great without makeups which makes me horny; unfortunately I would have to make an appointment ahead of time if I wanted a session.

It better be beyond girl next door or what I can get at home, after all for me It doesn't happen all that often anymore, not to mention the monetary cost comes into play too. It would be like going on a vacation. Do you want to go to Vegas or Peoria??

The last two sluts that you reviewed have disapeared.  All their info has been removed.

that the provider be really into the experience and have some cogent idea of what she is doing.

The only situation that I don't warm to immediately is the SM/BD scene, although I have met some dominatrixes who have offered to initiate me into it.  Maybe some day.

It took me a while before I could be convinced to eat raw fish, but it happened.  Ditto with ass play (I should thank my doctor for that more than anyone else.)

Yes, Yes, and, well, Yes!!

I like all three, depending on my mood, but I have a mild preference for the second and then a milder preference for the third type, over the first.  The first type, however, has her place (usually under me).  I know a Kentucky lady who has the uncanny knack of knowing, without any verbal message, what type I need that day and delivers in spades!  That's what makes her so precious to me.

I have fanatasies about all of these.  What I am hoping for when I see someone is that for our time I will believe her excellent acting that she truly likes and wants to be with me and that I can be a BFE back (which explains my preference for restaurants that allow daty).
 If i can afford it, I love to have a full evening with a lady who is dressed to the Nines and enjoys her time with me (which most people do socially).  The more intelligence I discover the more turned on I get.  Then when make the transition to being alone our lovemaking is an extension of a neat experience that charges my batteries for weeks.
 Otherwise the GND is great.
Nice post and question
Beret

B, A (though wouldn't be able to keep up), then C.  If I want "reality" (little make-up, etc.) I'll go home, right.

Dani, I hope you won your argument and are enjoying the spoils of your victory.

Crownroyal

I like a woman who is not wearing any makeup, or is not "made up to look like a circus pony", and who is wearing normal everyday clothes, or perhaps a simple but nice dress.  But underneath that dress, I love to see sexy lace underwear including perhaps garters and stockings.

It all depends on the lady involved.

So I see a petite blonde of Nordic or german heritage with bright blue eyes and alabaster skin. For her maybe bedroom eyes in demure pastel business suit might stoke up memories of a lady I lusted after in the office. In her case her conservative approach would do it for me.

Now take that tall 5'10" vixen with jet black hair who is either of Italian or Latina extraction with olive complexion and deep brown eyes. For her a smokey eyed makeup look with cleavage and tight pocketless slacks would be the order of the day.

Then let's take that ebony beauty I recently met at the DMV office who took great care of her skin and was obviously packing a nice caboose. In her case, I might want her to be as dirty as they come.

And what about the trailer trash type wearing the wife-beater tank tops made famous by Jennifer Aniston? The kind I meet at Walmart with one or two tattoos and one kid but a bust that is just aching to be release from that all too tight shirt? ....whew... be right back have to go take a cold shower ....

Ok. I'm back. So you see there is no single lady or type that holds a monopoly on lust.

As I've always maintained. There are just too many damned good looking ladies and not enough time to see them all.

I disagree...most people want what they can't (or don't usually) have.  That is why most guys on here are going to want A or B, or a combination of A/C or B/C, because it is what they don't have (and most already have C).

For me, though, and obviously for you and a couple others, the sexiness is not in the image but is in the reality of the woman, and if a woman can be sexy being "real" (i.e., GND), then the sexiness eminates from her and not from her image (either a pornstar or a worldly sophisticate).  To me, that is what esxiness is all about.

Defintely C.

Here's my perfect woman...with no offense to the entire female population that can't meet my insane guidelines...for the record, I'm no adonis.

Firstly, she should be thin, almost to the point of an anorexic right after the occasional meal.  She should have perky natural breasts, a tiny little butt and just a wisp of hair above her otherwise shaved pussy.  I prefer an alabaster skin tone, with the tiniest of tan lines.  She should be intelligent, but no so much as to challenge me for any mental shortcomings.  I'd love to be out in public with her because all those that saw us would wonder how I was able to land someone so beautiful (although most of you would be wondering what she cost me).  She should be so attentive as to make me feel like her life would be incomplete without me in it.  Oh, and the sex...well, you can probably figure that part out for yourself.

OK, so I can dream.  I have found one woman that comes close.

...sitting around drinking, and talking about the old days of when we first met. She had since went into porn, and recently become sort of well known. She says it has really boosted her escorting business by having a few videos under her belt, the new resume has at least tripled the amount of clients from before, and that she would like me to try and get into it. I told her no, that sort of look and act isn't my style, and that I didn't any think my established clients would appreciate it because they like me for my low volume exclusivity and my classy but easy-going, nurturing demeanor-- which both would have to fly out the window if I got into porn with any expectation of rising in it! Right?

So she then says to me, that the new look and "angle" (if you will) has done wonders for her, and she is adored by all her clients,  she says that in the back of their minds they all want the classic "dirty girl", and I argued that it was not true, if anything its the opposite-- they like a more natural looking girl, it makes them more comfortable. I began looking through the reviews and saw that the best loved and best reviewed girls were the more natural classy looking ones... she didn't believe it, so I told her we can hear from the masses if she would like, and so I posted it to see!

I am glad to know that many people seem to prefer the second and third choices more (because it means I am right), nothing against porn stars, but that to me is a whole other type of sex work than regular providing... I know that most of us ladies strive to fulfill the fantasy but that just means, a warm, inviting and engaging woman, if you ask me.... but then again-- to each is own!

Dani

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Prefer #3 b/c I like natural everything.  I also like classy and hot.  #1 is okay but too much acting puts me off.

...who convinces me she finds me attractive. That is the biggest turn on of all.

Nice that you are consistant.

Oh, and sodomy can include coitus, if it isn't vaginal.

Time for me to log into E-Harmony.com. :P

I do not have an MBA in escorting so I may totally misunderstand the issues.  Having said that it seems like successful Porn Stars are able have a significantly higher rate per hour.
 I know money isn't everything, but it seems like that might be a factor.
  On the other hand, you would have much less anonymity as a Porn Star.  The stock boy at the grocers might drop the canned corn when he saw you rather than just thawing the popsicles.
Beret

at any time, depending on her mood and what the situation dictates. And when booking time with this type of woman, tell her what YOUR fantasy is.

Minutia that ONLY someone pathologically obsessed with my moniker or harboring an insalubrious and vindictive axe to grind for who knows what venal reason would note.

I do not get onto the national board that often, but when I do and see a thread like Danielle's and then see some like Groovy2 attacking another fellow hobbyist......and on a national board...I really stop to wonder.
Oh, and FYI, I also had the great opportunity to see one of the two ladies in question whose reviews were both removed(?????) and did not get the chance to post my review before the fact, BUT I am NOT blaming another fellow hobbyist for the policies of TER and STAFF.
If you were implying that FreedomRider had something to do with the removal of reviews......you are way off base and actually if you were a real hobbyist you'd think more before you speak.
Now I guess you'll look for something to attack this old Savage with..........??

JMHO

If you ask the wrong question, you'll get the wrong answers.

Denny Crane

Ladies,

I believe you have sent a probe to Mars to find out the true nature of men’s sexual desires or attractions. Since Mars is my heritage, I feel qualified to answer your question. Contrary to popular myths on Earth, men are emotional. Men hide their emotions a lot, but they are there and sometimes more intense than those of a woman. I think mood is an emotion that is the basis of a man’s sexual desire at a given moment in time. Also, there is a second principle involved, the “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder” principle. I believe the workings of this principle are in the make-up of both men and women. Yes, women also do have a mood component.

At different moments of time, I would sexually desire all three of your examples. Many other sexual desires you have not listed. Sometimes, I would like to have a woman (or women) rip my clothes off and have their way with me. This is a great self-esteem and ego boost mood. Sometimes, I would like to have a woman cuddle me and gently massage me into orgasm as she whispers softly in my ear. This is a great friendship, understanding boost. Sometimes, I want to make a woman scream for me to stop because she is orgasmically (new word) exhausted. This is pure Superman ego fantasy.

Depending on my mood at the moment, and the beauty in my eye I see to fulfill that mood, determines my action.

Finally, I guess your question relates to marketing your services. I suggest expanded role playing in your services section and many different moods (your eye) in your pictures, especially facial expressions that smile with joy.