attempt to hold off comming for as long as they can?  I have read things on various boards and on women's sites who dislike this.  I take it that they pride themselves on being able to get a man to come several times during a session, or perhaps they think the man is trying to get them to work to longer or harder.
I used to come quite quickly when i was younger (I am 50 something now.) That was not a problem back then because I could easily come twice and often three times in an hour.  (There was one magic lady who got me off four times in an hour.) But now, if I get off twice in an hour, it is a rare accomplishment.  I need at least an hour and a half, and some days two hours. (Which I normally schedule for.)  Accordingly, a few years ago, I became quite facinated with Tantric sexual practices because they preach that the man should avoid comming until he can not longer hold it.  As a result, I find that I can remain hard for over thirty minutes and sometimes an hour on a good day.  I also experience the sensation of little orgasms as I approach ejalculation and then hold back, and it is a wonderful and thrilling sensation.

I would think that Tantric practices would be welcomed by providers because it would give them more satisfaction as well and make it more likely that they can also come, but perhaps I am wrong.  So I ask.

The type of "Tantric" practice you speak of..is very close to what I love to do with my clients. I want them to enjoy for as long as possible..when my clients do..the result is incredible. Now when giving bj's..and I am stopped repeatedly(and this has only happened a few times)..I do get a little tired ...I have had a few clients that have held back and then eventually were not able to finish..this does bug me a little..They tell me they still had a fantastic time..But I am left feeling a little inadequate. I myself KNOW that I enjoy myself whether or not I have a finish..but then I am not the one paying. I just trust in the fact that the Gentlemen I see are honestly interested in sharing themselves with me and that the time we spend together is the best that we both can give.

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SexyC

My feeling is that the time a client spends with me is his special time.  He is welcome to hold off for as long as he chooses, cum as many times as he chooses, or any combination that works for him.  I take pride in making a client's time with me as wonderful and special as I possibly can, not in setting my own goals for how many times I want to make him cum.  As for my own satisfaction, I can promise you that if I am present at any event including a session with a client, I will enjoy myself and be satisfied and if you are with me, you will enjoy yourself and be totally satisfied also!

Hope this helps.
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Suzanne in San Diego

For Me It Is The Other Way Around I Love And Take Pride In See  How Many Times I Can Make A Lady To CUM CUM AND CUM I Love The Way The Lady Body Talk To Me.

I had this cute latino guy doing this tonight with me and I didn't have a problem with it. The only problem I secretly had was that my cat is very sick and needs medication every 12 hours and we started our dinner date at 8pm but go to talking so much that we were hanging out until 9:45 and I had to get him into the private session.  It did get quite intense for me but that is because when I am close to ejaculation--the guy has to pull out for a second and I wanted him to have a good time more than me so I waited until he was finish to tell him

Many guys tells me that I have a gift. I can do so many things with my throat muscles, tongue, lips and fingers that I can push a guy to the edge of the cliff and then...slowly pull him back. I can built such strong orgasms that makes them dizzy and completely wasted, incapable of moving a single muscle in their bodies.
I meet all kind of guys...some wants to break their records. Two, three, four, five, six. I can do it.
Some wants to find out if they can still pull a second or third. I can do it.
Some wants to experience an oral orgasm, because they never had before. I can do it.
Some wants to "last" because they are not able to hold for more than few minutes. I can make them last for a whole hour or even more.
In my case, took me a while to learn how to manipulate men orgasms.
I don't need to use Tantra. I just need to use all my senses to "connect" with his body, using my skills and expertise to give what he expects from me.





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Suzanne got me off four times in a little over two hours, but who's counting  ( : MfSD>>>>

I certainly do appreciate you mentioning that MfSD, so now I'll be expected to do the same for all of my clients!

No way can I take all the credit... just keep in mind that it takes two very willing participants giving at least 200% to bring a session to that ultimate level, my darling!
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Suzanne in San Diego

having seen some of your videos, I would not bet against you.

...while sometimes I can climax quickly (or at least in 20-30 minutes), there are more and more times as I get older that I do not.  I have no problem maintaining an erection, and still enjoy the session.  I spend time afterward convincing the provider that she did not 'fail'.  In this 'service', not climaxing is troubling for most providers if not down right confusing.  Women are convinced (partly due to popular media messages) that men only care to climax.  I can say that I had one session recently where this was happening.  The provider handled it well.  Instead of grinding and pounding, she slowed way down, went to slow kisses and as far as I can tell, put on one of the best acts of 'love making' I have experienced.  Boom!  Perhaps as we get older, the 'act' has to involve our minds more.