I'm interested if you have a routine prior to visiting your friends?

What's the time process invested? Please share. Thank you!

I’m an early bird. Like to start my day wrapped around a beautiful woman. I always wake up early anyways, so it’s easy for me to give myself more than enough time to have a solid breakfast, do my business, shave, shower, brush, floss, comb hair, blah, blah, blah.

 
I’m not much of a manscaper. I will tidy up downstairs the day prior. Thankfully I am not a particularly hairy man! So it’s a relatively easy and uneventful process. I just like to look my best everyday. So it’s not much different on those special days, but a little more thought and care does go into the process on “game day”!

I try not to schedule anything else that day to start with, as I just want no stress and no other issues possibly getting in the way. Most of my dates are late afternoon, or early evening, so I will have a very light lunch and avoid onions, garlic, etc and anything that could possibly upset my stomach.
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I'll get my shower a few hours before meet up, and when doing incall, I always make sure I am there early as traffic/train issues into NYC or Philly can be brutal. I'll find a nice hotel or pub close to the hotel where the girl is staying, pop my "vitamin" pill, lol, and just chill out there and relax until I get her text to join her.  
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If I am taking the train home, I will put a few notes in my phone about the date so I can more readily access them when I start writing my review later that night or most likely, the next day. Then I just lay back and close my eyes and enjoy the ride.  
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But occasionally I'll meet up with friends who live near her incall downtown for dinner, but others I will just call it a night and go back home and sit in my hot tub and totally chill out. P4p is so amazing that way as it is such a stress reducer and so damn relaxing. That feeling can last upwards of 48 hours post date.  
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Good post QB! Your turn!

I typically schedule after work meet ups. So, my planning revolves around the fact I am going to work first. I always shower in the morning and groom myself. If I am meeting a lady, I make sure to give my pubes a fresh clean shave. I groom that area so there are no hairs to get in the way of a BBBJ. I always dress nice, so that's par for the course. I do make sure to eat a light lunch. I don't want to feel full during a session. But that's about the extent of it for me.

I honestly only play once, or twice a month, so I truly cherish my fun time & go to great lengths to make the experience tops. I do not have any particular routine to prepare because I customize the date according to what I already know about my friends. I always, like to offer something they have not done before if they're interested. I feel the more we communicate prior to helps tremendously. I don't mind giving out my  personal # to converse before our time shared it breaks the ice. I want to make this your dream date.  

For myself personally... I need to be mentally, emotionally & physically ready to exchange energy it's kind of a big deal. I take an Epsom salt bath and fully clean shave where the sun don't shine. My ritual is being grateful and settling my good intentions. I worship my beauty with coconut oil and confidence. I feel sexy because I am a divine woman & I love what I do!  I usually spend over an hour on my hair and makeup just in case I will be graded on TER. 😆

Shower, shampoo, shave, and (You can probably guess the 4th.)

About an hour including getting dressed up, then whatever time it takes to motor to you.

I'm retired, so when I schedule a play date, I always like noon to 2pm, if I can do that and my partner can accommodate.  

I eat enough a few hours before hand to sustain me, but I don't want to be full/bloated. I eat some fruit if I have it.  I hydrate well, but try to empty my bladder before I arrive.

Depending on my wishes, I will enema within 2 hours and I try to schedule my shower to be within 1 hour of departing, so I can allow an air dry before dressing.

I floss several times a day before the date, use mouth wash several times a day after each floss to kill as much bacteria as possible, brush several times a day, because, duh.  I have a travel bottle of mouthwash and use it right before I head into the session.

I have my consideration counted, several times, and stashed in an envelope... with more Benjamin's in my clip because, you know.  Depending on if it's a regular or a new date, I may include something extra in the envelope, or, have a gift bag of chocolates or sometimes pet treats if I know they have a pet.

When I walk in the door I'm clean, dressed nicely but comfortable, don't stink, and show them respect and that I'm happy they've allowed me into their space.

If im going to be the fucker, i trim all body hair and shave the nuts and shaft.  

If im going to be the fuckee, its a different strategy. Its gonna be light fasting for 24 hours and about 4 hours of douching out my ass and prepping it.  

If im going to see someone like lana dallas, its 6 hours prep time because need to stretch as well.  

Its not a one size fits all type of deal.

Two  hours  is  my  standard  prep  time  as
I  dislike  feeling  rushed,  prior  to  any  tryst.  

I'm  fully  waxed  monthly.
Mani/Pedi  weekly.
My  hair  is  ass-length;
Shampoo  the  morning-of  requiring  1  hour
air-dry  time  to  incur  fullness/shine.

I  shower  yet  again,  30  minutes  prior  using
special   herbal  elixirs,  which  enhance
energy  and  reduce  stress.
Apply  light  makeup,  coiffure....ready  for  the
"seduction".

Quick shower and shave, throw on something clean.
I see a small handful of regulars, mostly, in their home apartments. We dress casually for each other. Commutes average 15 minutes, and parking is easy.

 
Otoh, hosting at my place is a project; but that's for special occasions a few times a year.

I guess this is a related yet unrelated story.

I'm a rather punctual person.  We ( my girlfriend and I) were scheduled to go to some friends house for drinks/dinner.  My GF was taking a long time to get ready and we were already very late, and then she walked out in full makeup wearing nothing but that makeup.

As you can guess, she was ready for something  else... but all I could say was, what are you doing, we were suppose to be there an hour ago.

Yes, I'm that stupid.