But, with a strike out number as high as that, I'd be a bit paranoid regarding whether I'd been blacklisted.

Try again tomorrow!

I haven't struck out this bad in along time. guess all the girls I wanted to see tonight conspired against me lol.Any one else strike out this bad

And I've had ladies show up when I was shitfaced!

Got the motherfucker up, though! Again. And again. And again! lmao!

lol. 3 responded, but my hobby window closed for the day and two are closer to my work which is 40minutes away  so i ain't driving

but thats why i posted this, 0 for 5 seemed pretty bad lol.

I always have 6 on the list.

to play, I will set something up ahead of time and also have several other ladies (called a plan B or C) verify me in case I need to see them.

But then again I normally book well in advance and I know of multiple ladies that I can see in short notice at any time in the day or night. Different ladies at different times but still a choice 24/7.

Sorry to hear of your bad luck.

I have found in the 2 yrs of the hobby that about 1 in 3 contacts results in a date. 1 never responds, 1 does but is not available or follow up contact is ignored and 1 comes thru. I only contact well reviewed ladies (ratings of 8 and 9's). My e-mail or phone contacts are professional and never lude or rude. I am always a gentleman on the phone or via e-mail.  I always follow instructions on the ladies website or ad about how to contact them, provide references, and all the info they request.  

BUt if I am traveling say for a 3 day trip and I want to see 2 different ladies on my trip, I need to make on average 6 contacts to line up the 2 dates with ample notice of about 1 to 2 weeks time. Just my experience. Even with that I have had last minute cancellations and had one trip where both cancelled last minute and I scrambled to find last minute dates.

About a year and a half ago, prior to a trip to Charlotte, NC, I contacted several providers. Charlotte looks like a nice place to hobby, based on TER reviews.

I received a variety of responses, ranging from no response to a high degree of interest in seeing me when I would be in town. As things turned out, I was right on your 0 for 5. Lots of great golf that week, but no hobbying for Mr. T.

Why? One never knows. I remember the same thing happening in Chicago a year before that. My approach has always been to start anticipating my next encounter.

Plan in advance.  Call them ahead of time.  Set things up with some advance planning.  Time management dude - can't be that hard -
Why on earth would any hobbyist be surprised to find out that ladies aren't sitting idly by their phone all evening waiting for someone to call.