TER General Board

Sometimes I feel guilty
escalade1964 65 Reviews 1992 reads
posted
1 / 19

When I am with new ladies, who travel through the area and can't see some  
of the regulars that are local who I really enjoy seeing.

Anybody else feel like this and do you think my regulars get upset with me?

Your thoughts if any?

breannabreeze See my TER Reviews 496 reads
posted
2 / 19

It's not like you are in a relationship with your ATF.  Any provider in her right mind knows that variety is the spice of life.  If they are going to get angry and jealous over it drop 'em.

escalade1964 65 Reviews 443 reads
posted
3 / 19

Well,
I feel some may count on the income.

IE... We recently discussed regulars on a thread and if I was seeing the same lady every 2-3 weeks for 6 months and all of the sudden started seeing others; It may hurt them financially.

OSP 26 Reviews 446 reads
posted
4 / 19

Initially I couldn't find anyone worth seeing. All-the-while I saw visiting trim. When I finally did see a local see turned out to be one of the worst adventures i'd had. Pictures ten yrs old and all she did was quiz me on who and why I saw who wasn't a local. In fact she spent a lot of time villifying one girl in particular.

I have no obligation to anyone who isn't mi familia

inicky46 61 Reviews 366 reads
posted
5 / 19

"Some may count on the income?"  You have got to be joking.  You owe them a regular stipend?  Why not just have the dough wired to them and don't show up.  They'll like that even more.  I would bet they would even tell you they loved you.

breannabreeze See my TER Reviews 397 reads
posted
6 / 19

It really isn't your responsibility to guarantee business to your regulars.  If they are smart and business savvy they will get the income elsewhere.  It's a business, not a relationship.

Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 331 reads
posted
8 / 19

Anyone who doesn't understand that P4P is about VARIETY as much as anything probably shouldn't be engaged in the hobby-on either side.

My ATF wants to hear the stories every time I tell her I saw a new girl.

Dr Who revived 331 reads
posted
9 / 19

And my pal perfectstorm gets his spiff who then sends Lina her cut.

Don't fuck around with this well oiled machine.

Or I'll have to send Taylor over to give you the real GFE treatment  ;)
Posted By: inicky46
"Some may count on the income?"  You have got to be joking.  You owe them a regular stipend?  Why not just have the dough wired to them and don't show up.  They'll like that even more.  I would bet they would even tell you they loved you.

inicky46 61 Reviews 295 reads
posted
10 / 19
Dr Who revived 398 reads
posted
11 / 19

Found this on the boards...I think it is meant for you?

Posted By: viptaylorsteele

My nickybooboohoneybear....why would you want dddbabe aka Lina to take my place?  Lina is not your type...she's logical, smart and young.  YOU know that only I could fulfill all your wishes...and Lina is nothing like me.

I'll even let you have the OTC you asked for in that PM...and I'll wear the school marm outfit like you asked.  And put my hair up...and act smart and all.  You do know lungman..right?  He seems to love me as well...what a lucky gal I am.

Can you please tell CPA to stop mocking me...it's really starting to affect my life.
 

inicky46 61 Reviews 369 reads
posted
12 / 19

Fucking hilarious.  I've seen a few of those tonight.  Thus, you have an email.

-- Modified on 8/1/2013 7:46:29 PM

justanillusion 366 reads
posted
13 / 19

But giving in to guilt is a waste of energy and completely non-productive. Live as you want to live. These ladies will be fine, they can get business if they know what they're doing, if not, it's not your job to worry about that

tg_baby 450 reads
posted
14 / 19

would make ME feel guilty, in a way. It's like a gift I can never return.

Most of my regular clients like variety, but make dates with me in between their new adventures. Or, some travel a lot, but book with me when they're in my area. That's what I'm most comfortable with, because in that sense, we're equal. We see each other and have a great time, but it's just one of many encounters for both of us...

Knowing that a guy will ONLY see me might make me a little cautious because I'm really not prepared to deal w/any emotional intimacy, in 90% of cases. There are a few who I know only see me, but they're not the clingy sort - they are just infrequent hobbyists, and since they found someone they're comfortable with, they see no reason to fix what ain't broke. That's cool. But I don't want anybody to point-blank refuse to see someone else because of some misplaced sense of loyalty to me (or even worse, because they're fixated on me). Am I then supposed to pretend I have no other clients? Or will I be obligated to show some sort of corresponding loyalty to them (Kinda like someone giving you a b-day gift you didn't want or expect, and then you have to go out and buy one for them)?

69EType 310 reads
posted
15 / 19

I'm currently seeing nobody other than one provider. I'm comfortable with her now and, no matter how much I look around, I don't see anyone who looks better to me.

If I should find myself feeling emotional, though, I'd take a break and see someone else. If I got the feeling I was creeping her out by seeing only her, I'd see someone else for that reason, too.

3mdssa 283 reads
posted
16 / 19

is it POSSIBLE for you to stay behind that line.  

Folks, it should be pretty clear I didn't write this. Mr. thinks hes King did....you're a bit of a CONTROL freak aren't ya. Why is that...I bet I know why. And no, that's not part of the 'game'.

inicky46 61 Reviews 320 reads
posted
17 / 19

Yes, it's "pretty clear" to everyone.  But don't you understand your somewhat hysterical response is just what a certain party was hoping for?
Thanks for playing.

ROGM 373 reads
posted
18 / 19

I usually stay with one Provider. Not that I'd feel Guilty of seeing another one, it's just I like to see a Provider that I know and that she knows exactly what I want. By seeing a new Provider, I'd have to find one that would do what I want. Each of my previous Providers did do what I want, but looking for one is a PITA to find.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 369 reads
posted
19 / 19

You're a hobbyist. Big difference.

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