Dear Ladies of TER

much like what goes on in the Provider Board and on the VH and BL is not for you to know.

There were two agencies busted and two closed down around the first of the year in Atlanta.  LE arrested the Providers first then the Johns so some Johns are really concerned about their personal information that may or may not be with a Provider. Although in this case LE used cameras both in and outside the apartment and they had the apartment under surveillance. Just sayin.

Not saying we got to worry about him... but we don't ask guys what they pming each other about us or what a reviewer says when contacted by a potential guy. (I would hope not)

Typically, we just ask if the client is who they say they are, safe, and would she see him again. Pretty straight forward and rarely detailed unless a provider feels a piece of info "should" be shared. For example: cancels often, poor hygiene, tardiness, over an amazing and beyond respectful gent. Hope that helps

When I first got into the hobby, I confined my activities to my trips to Las Vegas (a practice I still adhere to). My first experience became my immediate ATF.  
As she was traveling during one of my visits I found another provider using the ATF as a reference. When I met the provider she voluntarily shared the conversation, something to the effect that she fucked me more than my wife. Found it offensive that she would share something that really would have nothing to do with a reference, in my opinion.
That was over ten years ago. Never saw the ATF again.

"He was kind, generous, and considerate. I'd see him again."

But I've come to understand that whatever info is passed along is for their benefit. If you do the right things, follow the rules and make sure that she has a great time too, then you'll never go wrong.

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[You don't know who might be reading the board so just PM them to me for security reasons, 'm 'K?]

That was none of my fucking business. I could be wrong, but I don't think so.

They also share if the client is clean and handsome, "Oh he looks so good", "Oh he looks like middle eastern guy". Some other things "He has big shoulders". They will say if the client is highly recommended and would they see him again.

In some cases where the ladies are acquainted or close friends,  I think the info can get pretty detailed, especially if you had a good time with the first one. I've had a few cases where a lot of nice things were said and subsequent ladies were quite eager to see me.

I usually reply with info like, he was polite and clean and I'd definitely see him again, or he was late and tried to short me on the fee - just general information not specific likes and dislikes etc, that's for a provider to discover

That being said, She may have recognized that your previous ATF was being unprofessional and rude, and may have shared that with you so you would look unfavorably on her, and the new girl could potentially gain a regular. Some women like throwing each other under the bus.

Usually I just answer their questions and whether or not I think they should see the client based on my overall experience. And I say if he was generous (financially or otherwise). It's a big plus for me if the guy is generous in the bedroom and I'm left satisfied too

Life would be so much easier if everyone just played by the rules!!

In my experience typically we say things like: "He's great" "He's sweet" "Yes, he's OK"...
BUT, we also share juicy stuff. Mainly if the guy is a jerk in some way...either in person or if his reviews are too judgy. It goes both ways. In those cases: ""He's safe, but ..."  Honestly, if the guy was an asshole or we didn't have a great connection, I would be surprised if he were to be stupid enough to use me as a reference! haha! I love it when I get extra and honest info from providers! It's kind of like how you guys are with your reviews..we just do it in private.

Usually I just write "safe", "unsafe" or "I've never seen him".  If a client is one of my ATF's, I will say so. If the provider is a friend I know well, I may tell her if he has a particular thing he does that I know for sure she loves or hates. I have a client who I adore that bites (nibbles) my butt cheeks. I love it! I referred him to a friend and she hated it. She said "He bit me!". So, from that I learned not to judge what may be good or bad to someone else.

"do him." It works every time. And ic Im having a good day, I'll usually let her "do me" ... lol ... I not interested in "what was said about me". I'm cool with don't ask don't tell. I'm just glad to see they're curious.