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DonMac11 248 reads
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You mentioned earlier that this post was also about what women find attractive in men so I am going to suggest that in a deeper sense what is ultimately more important is how a man's appearance and behavior make a woman feel.  If you look into your examples they all relate to what essentially would add or distract from a women feeling attraction towards a man.  That's why a fat man who has other qualities (extremely hilarious) can create feelings of attractiveness in women.  

I would also add that women also want to feel safe, and again, most of your examples lead to this.

HonestProvider1338 reads

I was just thinking about this subject over the weekend as a girlfriend and I were having this conversation.  So, right out of the horse's mouth, here are a few things that women like/dislike about men (IMO):

1.  Confidence.  Whether you're a garbage man or a CEO, men are more attractive to women if they stand tall, make eye contact, have a firm handshake, etc.  However much money you have (or don't have) women are very attracted to and can sense your confidence (or lack there of).

2.  Dress to impress.  One item of clothing that I think looks attractive on every man is a blazer.  It dresses up jeans and looks very sharp with slacks.  So next time you take a lady out for just a casual lunch, put a blazer ontop of your button up shirt and she'll probably think you look great.  Also, wearing clean, pressed clothes in general is attractive and we notice!  

3.  Underwear.  Women are grossed out by dirty, holey underwear.  You dont even have to wear silk boxers for us.  Frankly we dont care what underwear you have on, just toss the 10 year old, yellow stained, tighty whities already and buy some fresh white ones.

4.  Smell good.  Women like men who smell good.  Wear nice cologne.  We like it.  And we will sniff your shirts when youre gone because you smell so good!   We understand if you're outside working on the lawn but if youre in an intimate situation with a provider, for example, you should smell like a million bucks.

5.  Cut your hair.  Every guy looks better with a fresh haircut.  Very few guys can pull off shaggy hair, ponytails, and mullets.  Same thing with the shaving.  The overgrown beard look is very hard to pull off unless your a chizzled GQ model type.

6.  Be active.  Unless you're very rich or extremely hilarious, we dont like fat men.  Do something, ANYTHING, to be active.  Wash your own car, walk, jog, whatever.  Inactivity and obesity is such a major turn off-- you probably have the same opinion of inactive women.  You dont have to have washboard abs (women arent even that picky believe it or not), but chillin on the couch all weekend is not sexy at all.

7.  Playing video games.  Grown men who pay video games/war of worldcraft repel women.  Nuff said.

Thats about it!  Pretty common sense but I hope this helps some guys out!

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Hirogen417 reads

And I should shake your hand? WTF? Video games? WTF?

Your rant looks like it was plagiarized and then frankensteined.  


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STPhomer361 reads

I think I'm gonna have to raise my rates.

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mattradd297 reads

she said women like confident men. (((SHE WAS TALKING ABOUT ME, NOT YOU!)))

I hope that works! ;)

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MP67431 reads

1. Confidence is no problem on this end. Might actually be a curse.
2. Blazers look cool, I'll give you that. Met mrfisher, romeogolf, and other gents that wore them and I was impressed even before I met them. However, I expected nothing less from these guys cuz I respect them and knew ladies dig 'em.
3. Underwear. What if I went commando? Don't remember any lady bitching about what I have down there. Just sayin... ;)
4. Smell good. I always smell good. That is until YOU make me smell bad. Think you know what I'm talkin' about! lol!
5. I used to have long hair. Longer than some of you ladies up until about 14 years ago. It was an ASSET when I'd go trolling for pussy. Same thing with the goatee I was sporting. (goes back to 1).
6. I'm very active. Between work, shit at home, walking the dogs, and the fact I refuse to be a fatty says enough.
7. Playing video games? I might play one in a casino, or brush up online. But other than that I agree it's kinda pathetic to think someone my age(43) spending the evening playing whatever the fuck their 15 YRO nephew is playing at the time.

BTW, some or all of this is of course under the influence because I don't believe you're a real man unless you drink to some extent.

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HonestProvider288 reads

Thank you for your reply!  You are the kind of guy ladies appreciate.  Commando is actually cool...  Its always nice to dig in a mans pants and find it with easy access:)

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HirogensSwollenEgo400 reads

Many women are drawn to me for obvious reasons.  And, even if none of you believe it, I do wish to give back to my fellow hobbyists but, since I never review, these pointers will have to do.  Don't bother to thank me.  I know you are grateful, as  well you should be.
1.  I am always confident when I stride into her incall.  I start a session demonstrating my confidence by shoving her to the floor and jamming my massive member into her mouth, thus avoiding her inane chatter.  Women are always grateful and appreciative.
2.  I am always impressive in my garb, especially my Starfleet tunic and anatomically correct Spock ears.  All the girls tell me they really like my "look."
3.  I always wear tighty whities.  It's so simple to keep them on staight.  My formula is yellow in front, brown in back.
4.  Who cares how I smell?  I don't.  Why do you think I'm paying them?  If my butt stinks, I'm not the one who has to smell it.  Also, I think it's cute when their noses crinkle up.
5.  Remaining shorn is no problem.  I have a skin condition that leaves me scaley all over.  I must bathe in nair and it shows off the many folds in my skin.
6.  I am quite active.  I put in many miles walking back and forth from my TV/video game console to the refrigerator for more Twinkies.  Sometimes I work up quite a sweat.  All the girls say the love my bod.
7.  Only gaylords play shit like World of Warcraft (you could at least spell it right!). I only play manly games like those based on Star Treck.
These are my favorites, along with StarFleet Academy:
Star Trek Games for the PC
  Game Genre Year Metascore Critic Grades User Score
1 Star Trek Voyager: Elite Force FPS 2000 86   9.3
2 Star Trek: Bridge Commander Simulation 2002 82    8.1
3 Star Trek Deep Space Nine: The Fallen 3D Shooter 2000 81    8.5
4 Star Trek: Starfleet Command: Orion Pirates Strategy 2001 78    7.5
 Star Trek: Starfleet Command III RTS/Simulation 2002 78    9.2
 Star Trek Elite Force II FPS 2003 78    7.4
7 Star Trek: Starfleet Command Volume II–Empires at War RTS/Simulation 2000 77    9.3
8 Star Trek: Klingon Academy Action/Sim 2000 74    10.0
9 Star Trek: Armada II RTS 2001 65     8.0
10 Star Trek: Away Team RTS 2001 64     8.5
 Star Trek: Deep Space Nine: Dominion Wars RTS 2001 64    6.2
12 Star Trek: ConQuest Online Strategy 2000 63     n/a
 Star Trek Online MMORPG 2010 63     6.4
14 Star Trek Voyager: Elite Force Expansion Pack Action 2001 62     8.6
15 Star Trek: Legacy Action/RTS 2006 56     4.0
16 Star Trek: New Worlds RTS 2000 52     8.1
17 Star Trek: D-A-C Action 2009 50    4.1
That's it.  Don't thank me.  I know you love and worship me.  Feel free to send me any game as Tribute.  I would especially like StarFleet Academy.
Hirogen

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HonestProvider381 reads

Ok, I was being serious in my post.  Don't guys want to know what is going through women's minds?  And sorry if I didnt know it was called WORLD OF WARCRAFT!  And the fact that you know about all these Star Trek movies is pretty sad.

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Hirogen235 reads

That must have taken you a long time to look up all of that and to post it.
I must make such an impression on you.

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HirogensSwollenEgo287 reads

Two clicks to get a list of your favorite video games -- about ten seconds.  But you are correct that you make quite an impression -- the well-known one of being TER's must ridiculous douche.  Keep up the great work, and the snappy comebacks!  LMFAO!

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OldTraveler234 reads

I was under the impression you did not know the meaning of the word.  Maybe that was on the list of review words in school today.  Good for you!  Another 8 or 10 years you might graduate.

Originality:  Is that where you use the same geriatric insult for 972 posts in a row?  Or is it your one-track (I know I am being generous) mind (used quite loosely) that is obliged to insult any lady who might be over 18 or who does not fawn at your brilliance.

I strongly suspect you only need three more original thoughts to have your first one.

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OldTraveler244 reads

Now THAT is a Man's Man!  Quite a long list of egomaniac attributes that any pimply face teenage virgin like H can aspire to!

Be forewarned, women, and grovel before your Master!

Well done.  Even Mama H can see her little boy has promise now!

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Stormy362 reads

Manners.  Personally, I am a sucker for a man who is courteous and aware...

Related Link: http://www.alantraonline.com

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HonestProvider359 reads

Another thing that is incredibly sexy to me is the look of a man smoking a cigar and drinking scotch.  I dont know why this is, but it is so hot to me!!

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808transplant313 reads

Cigars smell like burning manure and the smell penetrates everything. Even an hour after the dude smoking one has left, the room still smells like as if somebody set fire to the septic tank.  Utterly gross

Scotch on the other hand can be a great enjoyment so long that he/she consumes it the way it was meant to be consumed NEAT. Without coke, water, Ice (Rocks), soda, etc.

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HonestProvider277 reads

I know they're stinky but theres something inherently masculine and sexy about the appearance of a man smoking a cigar IMO.

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HalfHour233 reads

A hilarious fat guy with a cigar and a scotch?

Drop your panties on a first date???

;)
HH

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Crazy Diamond333 reads

1) Confidence...no brainer.  2) Wearing a blazer...I used to do that, but haven't recently, and it hasn't hurt me none in a casual world.  Still... 3) Underwear 10 yrs. old?  Most disintegrate after two yrs.  Always buy new when on sale.  4) Cologne is toilet water...the body wash, deodorant, and body spray combo that I use works just fine. 5) Fresh hair cut...I'll buy that.  The last two ladies I met within the past week mentioned that my recent cut was something they noticed favorably.  6)  I may be only only 5'4", so I have one of the three deadly sins that many women don't like.  Yes, I may be short, but fatness nor baldness are not part of the package.  Two out of three ain't bad...  7) Video games...how would you know unless we say?      

Just my seven pennies...

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FIDCUOF333 reads

I have found triming your manly hair and shaving your balls.  Women love to lick your balls if they are shaven.  All the girls I'm with mention something about it.  And of course I have been told that I have the perfect size cock.  Not too big and NOT too thick.  6 1/2 to 7 and ready to go.....

Posted By: HonestProvider
I was just thinking about this subject over the weekend as a girlfriend and I were having this conversation.  So, right out of the horse's mouth, here are a few things that women like/dislike about men (IMO):

1.  Confidence.  Whether you're a garbage man or a CEO, men are more attractive to women if they stand tall, make eye contact, have a firm handshake, etc.  However much money you have (or don't have) women are very attracted to and can sense your confidence (or lack there of).

2.  Dress to impress.  One item of clothing that I think looks attractive on every man is a blazer.  It dresses up jeans and looks very sharp with slacks.  So next time you take a lady out for just a casual lunch, put a blazer ontop of your button up shirt and she'll probably think you look great.  Also, wearing clean, pressed clothes in general is attractive and we notice!  

3.  Underwear.  Women are grossed out by dirty, holey underwear.  You dont even have to wear silk boxers for us.  Frankly we dont care what underwear you have on, just toss the 10 year old, yellow stained, tighty whities already and buy some fresh white ones.

4.  Smell good.  Women like men who smell good.  Wear nice cologne.  We like it.  And we will sniff your shirts when youre gone because you smell so good!   We understand if you're outside working on the lawn but if youre in an intimate situation with a provider, for example, you should smell like a million bucks.

5.  Cut your hair.  Every guy looks better with a fresh haircut.  Very few guys can pull off shaggy hair, ponytails, and mullets.  Same thing with the shaving.  The overgrown beard look is very hard to pull off unless your a chizzled GQ model type.

6.  Be active.  Unless you're very rich or extremely hilarious, we dont like fat men.  Do something, ANYTHING, to be active.  Wash your own car, walk, jog, whatever.  Inactivity and obesity is such a major turn off-- you probably have the same opinion of inactive women.  You dont have to have washboard abs (women arent even that picky believe it or not), but chillin on the couch all weekend is not sexy at all.

7.  Playing video games.  Grown men who pay video games/war of worldcraft repel women.  Nuff said.

Thats about it!  Pretty common sense but I hope this helps some guys out!  

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BigGuy1976435 reads

I'm not proud of it but, for now, it's who I am.  If you don't want my money that's your choice :)

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HonestProvider333 reads

Well, of course providers want to see you if youre a good client, regardless of weight, but this post was moreso about what women truly find attractive/appealing about men.  I was just trying to be honest.

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Hirogen264 reads

From "your" OP

"Unless you're very rich or extremely hilarious, we dont like fat men.

Didn't you write that, or did you copy and paste it?

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HonestProvider299 reads

OMG quit busting my balls.  I wrote the thread in about 10 minutes but thank you for thinking its so awesomely written that its plagerized:)  With my spelling errors and all.

Providers are much more forgiving.  We just want respectful clients who smell good and pay correctly. Fat, skinny, tall, short, black, white, who cares.   My post was mostly coming from the perspective of what "civilian" women find attractive!  

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trowe234 reads

I do not have any tattoos and I don't plan on getting any.  However, on the TV program "Gigolos", one of the male providers has a very large tattoo, visible both when he is clothed and nude.  I personally find it ugly.  On the other hand, he is handsomely rewarded for "companionship" and I usually have to pay through the nose for "companionship".

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TrulyMsMocha323 reads

Um I like video games sooooo ...... yeahhhhh. I think it'd have been better said we like men who can turn off/pause/focus on us at least a little bit more than a video game when the time comes. And that's coming from the owner and carrier of some pretty nice boobies.

Posted By: HonestProvider
I was just thinking about this subject over the weekend as a girlfriend and I were having this conversation.  So, right out of the horse's mouth, here are a few things that women like/dislike about men (IMO):

1.  Confidence.  Whether you're a garbage man or a CEO, men are more attractive to women if they stand tall, make eye contact, have a firm handshake, etc.  However much money you have (or don't have) women are very attracted to and can sense your confidence (or lack there of).

2.  Dress to impress.  One item of clothing that I think looks attractive on every man is a blazer.  It dresses up jeans and looks very sharp with slacks.  So next time you take a lady out for just a casual lunch, put a blazer ontop of your button up shirt and she'll probably think you look great.  Also, wearing clean, pressed clothes in general is attractive and we notice!  

3.  Underwear.  Women are grossed out by dirty, holey underwear.  You dont even have to wear silk boxers for us.  Frankly we dont care what underwear you have on, just toss the 10 year old, yellow stained, tighty whities already and buy some fresh white ones.

4.  Smell good.  Women like men who smell good.  Wear nice cologne.  We like it.  And we will sniff your shirts when youre gone because you smell so good!   We understand if you're outside working on the lawn but if youre in an intimate situation with a provider, for example, you should smell like a million bucks.

5.  Cut your hair.  Every guy looks better with a fresh haircut.  Very few guys can pull off shaggy hair, ponytails, and mullets.  Same thing with the shaving.  The overgrown beard look is very hard to pull off unless your a chizzled GQ model type.

6.  Be active.  Unless you're very rich or extremely hilarious, we dont like fat men.  Do something, ANYTHING, to be active.  Wash your own car, walk, jog, whatever.  Inactivity and obesity is such a major turn off-- you probably have the same opinion of inactive women.  You dont have to have washboard abs (women arent even that picky believe it or not), but chillin on the couch all weekend is not sexy at all.

7.  Playing video games.  Grown men who pay video games/war of worldcraft repel women.  Nuff said.

Thats about it!  Pretty common sense but I hope this helps some guys out!  

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phroophroo238 reads

What Miss "HonestProvider" is forgetting is that the majority of people play games these days, especially if you're aged 12-35. She's probably talking about the pasty dungeon dwellers that live in their parents' basements.

News flash: geeks run the world, and we're here to stay. :) Besides, all that time with a controller translates to some pretty dexterous hands. *winkwinknudgenudge*

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Midatlantic229 reads


I've been told on more than one occasion that ladies just want "me to be me...to be comfortable."

So I'm all good with cleanliness, gentlemanliness, being actvie, neat and groomed and looking respectful.  That's ME.

But try to put a blazer on me?  I'm sorry, that's just not ME...

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MP67241 reads

I'm much more comfortable in jeans and a T-shirt or a polo.

But I'd be curious how I carry off a blazer. Or a suit for that matter meeting a provider.

Just don't ask for a tie cuz I don't have the slightest idea how to tie one!

Have a thing about tight shit around my neck.

Don't wear belts, either. ;)

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SinfullySpicy232 reads

I hate white underwear. It's time to intergrate your underwear drawer if all you have are whities.

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rocknrollher297 reads

Are some of you guys just plain stupid? That was a dumb and rhetorical question. All in one. The woman is giving you free dating advice. She wasn't talking about "work". You can learn a lot about women reading this board if you had a f'ing clue. Names witheld to protect the stupid...

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HalfHour266 reads

This dumbest post I've read. As if harboring a vagina determines specific preferences in men.

"Unless you're very rich..." ...so... you mean that women don't give a rats ass about what a man is like if he's got enough money??? Which must be because above all women want stuff. Nice stuff, and lots of it. They are so wrapped up in selfish material desire that if you have lots of shiney trinkets, they will abandon all personal preference and treat you like Brad Pitt.

Personally I think that's a load of shit. Are you a mysoginist?

;)
HalfHour

Related Link: "obesity is such a major turn off-- you probably have the same opinion " oh really??

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crimsonlass286 reads

geeks are the best pussy lickers...my last BF was an MIT playa lol...he didn't play video games but he did have a rock collection ;o)

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johngaltnh213 reads

Researchers have indicated that women orgasm more with men they perceive to be rich: http://jezebel.com/5134284/women-orgasm-more-with-rich-men-claim-researchers

Now, the classification of "women" is a darned wide one, and frankly I bet their sample pool of "women" was chosen in a pretty materialistic place.

Nevertheless, I think that, among women who are hyper-materialistic, it may even be possible to make them orgasm without even touching them just by throwing enough trinkets and baubles at them. I DO know that I have had an easier time getting dates when driving expensive cars than cheap ones; though admittedly those dates turned out not to be with women worth (me ) dating.

So I think she is right IF what she is saying is not applied to "women" or to "providers" but rather is applied more narrowly -- say to "hyper-materialistic women some of whom are explicitly providers and others of whom are intellectually dishonest about what they are." (Note: many providers are a lot less materialistic than stereotypes would lead you to suspect.)

But I think that when we look across women as a whole, one thing that stands out to me is that a lot of women are more focused on intrinsic properties of a man -- his kindness, his caring, his protectiveness, his attentiveness and things like that. I personally know women who have turned down extremely wealthy men because they were not satisfied with the man's character.

So I think that YOU are right when we look at women as a whole.

I think the HonestProvider may be making the invalid assumption that because she is a certain way, a huge preponderance of other women are like her. In some places and in some professions that may be so. But overall, I don't think it applies well. I just know too many women who would rather have a phone call than a diamond.

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DonMac11249 reads

You mentioned earlier that this post was also about what women find attractive in men so I am going to suggest that in a deeper sense what is ultimately more important is how a man's appearance and behavior make a woman feel.  If you look into your examples they all relate to what essentially would add or distract from a women feeling attraction towards a man.  That's why a fat man who has other qualities (extremely hilarious) can create feelings of attractiveness in women.  

I would also add that women also want to feel safe, and again, most of your examples lead to this.

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