I see several ladies (who are not escorts but most are strippers) on a pay for play basis.  They let me use a vibrator on them (big, plug in device which is from Brookstone).  All seem to orgasm with it, one squirted, and several asked for one as a present!  We use it either on the lady alone or put it on her vaginal region while I penetrate either in K-9 or Mish.  My question, would it freak out a provider if I show up with the thing? would they allow its use?!  

Or is it a no go!?

I would ask before u see her.  I do it all the time and the response is going to be.  Sure...  I have one we can use, no news to bring one. ;  .   You'll see

Professional Hobbyist?  

but what is the name and model number of this magical device???

It's a Hitachi Wand (google it and you'll find it easily).

Some gals love it...some honestly find it too strong.  But those that really like a high powered vibrator...this one seems to have that "magic".

Or so it seemed when I used them on the gals.  

I don't know of many ladies that would use a sex toy a guy brought over unwrapped and previously used. My answer, no thank you.

If a guy has one still in the package, fine, but I won't use one that has been used on anyone else. If a guy wants me to use a toy on him..same thing. He can bring his own.

I only use my own or if a gent buys me one it has to be in the packaging still sealed.
There are a lot of bacteria that can be found on toys especially the rubber ones.
Plus,I don't know any lady who wants to use a toy that has been used on god knows how many people previously.

my tongue seems to work just fine..and its not even battery operated..

Cleaner than the comrfortor on the bed in a 5 star hotel!

Always fun to find a hooker that wants to play CSI  

Saturn doesn't play...nope.  Too bad  

It's for after you finally leave that the gals play with their toys.

But if you get a tad adventurous...try out some toys.  They'll appreciate it a heluva lot more than your tongue!  Assuming you ask the hooker to show you how to actually use the toy.

They are always brand new still wrapped and in the box and I leave them for her when done.

You wouldn't want me to pull out a vibrating cock ring that I used with 5 or 6 friends, now would you?

Damn right!

Because they don't know where it's been.

No lie. TRUFAX.

feel comfortable rubbing a toy on me that already rubbed another gal's lady parts.

I  don't understand the attitude about using a toy that has been thoroughly cleaned and wrapped in a condom. A toy can be cleaned in hotter water and stronger cleaners than  you will ever be able to get a fella to ever having done to his member.  Do you only see virgins?

Just put a condom on it

go down on a chick who might have had 3 guys before you got there lol. Not saying YOU, but in general. I know people who put toys in an actual dishwasher, and I still get the heebie jeebies. It's just one of those mind things I guess, but I won't ever use a toy I did not buy myself or one that is not brand new.

Yep, I am with you. I like to at least be able to fk the lady if I am going to have her leftovers bwahahaha.

If I have to go through all that trouble, I may as well just not bother using one, which btw I don't use toys AT ALL. It is not for you to understand why anyone does what they do. It is a mental thing for some of us I guess, and I REFUSE to use any toy I have not bought and cleaned MYSELF! Some of you have not even mastered washing your own ass, and you expect me to believe you are that thorough? LOL...ok.

I guess it is no different than women refusing to drink the wine or champagne a guy brings unless she SEES him open it. Some guys don't like to be "told" they are being seen after another client, even though they know it is always possible. They know she probably had another weenie in there, but they don't need it confirmed. With a toy, there is NO WAY to deny it's used unless it is brand new. Some guys will NOT under any circumstances go down on, or kiss a provider knowing she fks for a living. Again, a mental thing.

I don't try to make sense of why you guys do some of the shit you do, so save yourself the trouble of asking those same questions about why some providers do certain things lol. It's not ever going to make sense.






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I could autoclave it (High pressure steam for 15 or so min).  Or maybe radiation exposure?  gamma rays don't hurt no-one... do they?  Seriously as someone above said, take a black light into a hotel room... look around!  (Now just how did that get up there!?) years ago, before my marriage, I went to a "massage parlor."  The young lady who I selected said I could watch her play, and I could play - - separately.  As I had not ejaculated for over 4 weeks, I was truly horny, so I agreed!  When I came, I hit the ceiling.  She was blown away, as she had never seen anyone ejaculate with such force (truly a Peter North moment).  

Yea, hotel rooms are clean...  Here, take a swig from this water glass, its clean!

Yes I'm sure the providers here would love for you to stick your toy in them - the very same one you've stuck in nasty ass strippers. You deserve the moron of the year award.

I have had ladies put a condom on the device - no issue with me as it easily is applied.  As to cleaning my own ass.... I do, cause its uncomfortable if I don't!   funniest thing ever - one of my UTR ladies LOVES to have her ass licked!  One night, for whatever reason, I looked at her and asked "you do clean this thing - right?"  we both fell on the floor laughing - no biggie and yea - her ass is always sparkling clean... much cleaner than a hotel room drinking glass.  

As to drinking wine ONLY if you see the dude open it?! Ever hear of a hypodermic needle?  Wonderful device for delivering all kinds of "stuff" through skin, or plastic, or rubber OR CORK!  After I was drugged believe me, if the other person doesn't drink EXACTLY what I drink, we ain't a drinkin... and I pour the drinks.

Like I said, it's a mental thing. You asked for answers and opinions, and that's only mine. I will NOT use a toy that has been used on someone else!!! NOTHING said is going to change that, so why bother? See providers willing to do that. Hey, I don't rim or swallow either damnit. Wanna hear my reasoning behind that too?

It is not foreign for women refusing to share even lipstick or deodorant btw...why would something that touches our vaginas be any different? How many women do you know that run out to buy used panties even though they've been washed in bleach? I don't know ANY!

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LOL, I am actually not a stickler for the wine thing. I usually provide it, and open it in front of my gents, but hey...we all have our little quirks and no one really owes an explanation for them. I do what I want...end of story. FYI, I don't use toys at all, but was just giving you a general response. MANY ladies agree with this, and many don't.

I'd also like to thank Chris Rock for helping me understand the truth, Ron Jeramy for showing me that being a dirty old man is ok, as long as you have fun with it... and a special shout out to Hugh Heffner for proving that Viagra is a life saving drug...  

Dude, the toy is cleaner than your penis.  Plus, I don't put the device in them, don't have to and besides it is so big I am sure it would be uncomfortable!   Yeesh, gotta 'splains every little detail!

This IS NOT a deal breaker - merely something I enjoy doing - same as DATY.  As to how I found out about the device - Kink dot com.  

Based upon this sample size, I will not approach a provider unless I know her (actually, I can think of a couple who probably would be up for it). But of all the escorts I know, only 2 would probably be ok, so what does that say about it, probably not gonna happen.  And that is the use of the TER forum!  to find out before you trapse through a hotel lobby with a device that does look like a sex toy, even though it is sold at Brookstone!  Then you show up at the door, and you've got this device....  gonna freak the lady out.  no, don't think that to be a good idea...

Don't have a great answer either.  clearly I pay more for the stripper, but I get more (multi hour, convenience, etc.) and the majority of them are willing to do more.

I would have to say the difference is where does the majority of their income derive from... if it is stripping, then I would say she is still a stripper and does this on the side.  Just as I know some escorts who escort for the "thrill" and extra cash... as they have a "day job" which provides  most of their income , and they are not always available as an escort....

does that make sense?! The rules of what we call someone in this lifestyle are what we make of them...

done this quite a few times... most if not all the times its brand new out of the box... some items are not for penetration or end up where fluids happen, and even the ones right out of the box all end up being covered with latex condoms of some type...

my personal discovery is that providers seem to appreciate when you are clean and use condoms without hesitation (That includes penetration) and with toys its no different..

its pretty simple, if you pull out a giant dildo and say stuff it in there, they will look at you with a tilted head... but if you entice her to enjoy some vibrations and ease into more exciting toys, you will not be disappointed.... so in short its all about presentation!

and it doesn't snore, fart, or hog the blankets - and it never wakes you up by poking at your rear with a wet tip. Guys, we are in trouble




You know, my father was replaced at his job by a piece of machinery no bigger than a hand-held blow dryer. The really depressing thing is that my mother went out and bought one.

..........Courtesy of Woody Allen

So they should just believe you. Because that's how it's done in this hobby, they believe everything we say, and we believe everything they say. No one in this hobby would ever speak anything but the absolute truth.

No amount of bleach, condom or Lysol will make me want that thing anywhere near my lady parts if it's used.
Kinda gross to me. I don't even like being touched by someone who hasn't washed their hands in front of me.
If it's NIB maybe...

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Nope, it doesn't do any of those things- Mr. Hitachi is the perfect bed mate!

Luckily for you guys, there's no attachment, vibrator, or dildo that feels like the real thing.

I absolutely LOVE sex toys however due to hygienic concerns, I would only use one brought to me if it were new and still in the original unopened package.

Here at Dennis Hof's Love Ranch, we have fairly priced sex toys in our case which can be purchased.


I am opening for a gentleman to bring me a glass dildon like the Hamsa Glass Dildo in the photo below.